I can't wait until I'm a father, raising my own family.
I grew up in a family-centric environment and household, where not only did I have a healthy family myself, with a successful and supportive mother and father base, but everyone around me and nearly all my friends had the same thing.
My main goal in life is to be a father and raise a family.
My girlfriend and I have three and if she told me tomorrow that she was pregnant again you would not be able to wipe the smile off my face. In fact, every now and then I'll tell her I want another baby. Then she acts the practical one and says that we have our hands full with three. (Currently ages, 10,9, and 7 - boy, boy, girl.)
Truth be told, I am totally in love with my girlfriend and our little family. (We don't want to be married.) I would not change a thing.
However, I won't lie. I see a couple with a new little baby - or even a woman expecting a baby - and I get wistful for the days when my children were just little babies and I would hold them in my arms and kiss them and play with them.
On top of all this, about three years ago I found out that I had a son with a woman that I had a one night stand with. I didn't really know her and she got pregnant, but opted not to tell me until he was 12 - he is now 15. (She tracked me down, told me, I got a test and yup - he is my son.)
You'd think that I would be upset. No doubt, I was a bit thrown at first, but he is a great kid, I love him with all my heart. My only regret is that I missed so much of his young life and now I am making up - with the full support of my girlfriend, the mother of my other three children - for lost time.
Bottom line, yup, men - at least this man - definitely gets baby fever.
In this Clown World dystopia we're living in? With pedophiles and groomers in open sight, running the entire state of California? With my sh*tty, f*cked-up genes and short height? In today's political climate where most women are lesbians, gold diggers, or internet whores? And the internet makes an already stupid species of human beings, that much dumber, more selfish, and destructive?
Bring a kid into THIS f*cked-up world? Might as well ask me to feed my dick to a crocodile.
To borrow from Alastair Cooke: "It would be a crime against nature for any generation to take the world crisis so solemnly that it put off enjoying those things for which we were designed in the first place: the opportunity to do good work, to enjoy friends, to fall in love, to hit a ball, and to bounce a baby.”
@nightdrot Alastair Cooke didn't grow up in a world of OnlyFans, woke culture, the Trans agenda, and open anti-white racism and misandry coming from world leaders and politicians.
No, he grew up in a world where Jews were fed into ovens and whole cities were bombed out of existence.
The world will always be a dangerous and imperfect place. Sometimes more than others. We need to avoid assuming that we are unique in our pain and suffering and rather keep our head when other are losing theirs'.
Definitely, it would be nice to have a family and having kids running around doing chores would be helpful lol. I like the idea of having a family, of homeschooling the children and helping the kids pull a prank on their dad or doing something fun with them.
Homeschooling them would probably be better, my state isn't completely messed up but I've hard a lot of bad experiences with teachers trying to brainwash kids. there's a lot of issues today so I'd have to think about how exactly parenting would work but I still want to be a mom and do a good job with the kids.
I don't really want to go through the whole pregnancy thing, I'm 50/50 about becoming a parent but I also come from a big family so there'll always be kids around and I don't know... I have 3 siblings and when I was younger I always said yeah I'll have 3-4 kids but now I'm just meh - I'm 19 and haven't really thought about it in a serious way tbh
Family is important to me, but I've never met a woman that I really wanted to start a family with so... I don't want to get a late night phone call from some random girl I slept with saying I'm pregnant if that's what you're asking... That wouldn't be good. Right woman, right circumstance sure.
Proud parent of two amazing kids. I too come from a big traditional family. It’s important for my children to carry on the family tradition to have happy, successful future.
I honestly don't have the biggest desire in creating my own family if it's happened I be a very good father and husband if it's doesn't happen I won't be upset about not making my own family U have other things I am interested in doing with my life.
