I noticed she does the same with her son (my boyfriend). I’m sure she does this with others as well. Since it’s her son I don’t really have a problem. I just want her to stay out of my business financially. She also asked me how much I make an hour in front of everyone and it’s like, what if im not comfortable sharing in front of everyone. It’s weird tho because I wouldn’t mind telling his sisters or his dad how much I make an hour. It’s just her. I find her to be very nosey and in everyone’s business. It does not help that my bfs aunts all gossip which is from my bfs mom side of the family. So it makes me feel like she would go and tell everyone my business. Plus her asking a million questions everytime I go does not help. So I don’t trust because I don’t need his whole family all in my business. I am a very private person, the less people know about you the better. She never asks me how work is but she is so quick to want to know my finances. I am also in school right now pursuing my degree and she doesn’t ask me how school is going, but wait till I graduate and get a new job with my degree she’s going to be quick on wanting to know how much I make.
Me in my boyfriend are considering getting a house soon and I just know she’s going to be in our business financially.
What do I do about this because i am unsure how to handle her being all in my business.