My brother got dumped 5 months ago. They were in that relationship for nearly 6 years. She broke up because her goals didn't alligned his and saw there wasn't any future at all.
A week after the break-up, he knocked on her door and literally did got down on his knees. However, her answer was no. He got super drunk the next day, drunk to the point of acting clumsy in front of people, and telling others about his love for her. Then 3 months later, he asked her again and again she said no.
He's fallen for her. They are on friendly terms by now, talk sometimes and he's trying to slowly win her back. He tells on telling me that he doesn't care how long it takes, that she'll one day come back to him, say yes and wear the ring. I think he's lost his mind now. He's pinning for her just like she did in the beginning. The tables have flipped.
Honestly, is he now the one wasting his time?
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Yes, she has moved on, and might be with someone else.
That can happen when 1 person knows well in advance that they will be breaking up with the other one.
They won't actually be dating that other person until after the break up.
It makes the breakup easier for that person.
then at this point looks like he's losing his mind. He keeps telling me that it doesn't matter how many times she says no to his proposal, that she'll accept it one day. He won't return his ring.
He thinks that just because she accepted his friendship and are friends now, that he has a chance of trying winning her back and after certain time propose again.
Tables have turned. She wanted marriage at some point in the relationship, he took long, she lost interest and now it's him that wants her. He wants her to one day accept his proposal.
Sadly snooze you lose.