Does my closest friend hate me? What did I do wrong?

[Anonymous]

it feels like me and my close friend aren't friends anymore. They is leaving me out and not telling me stuff but they would tell our other friends. They’re rude to me and makes fun of me in front of our other friends. They have this other friend in our friend group and they act like their siblings or best friends. They disrespects me a lot and when they get home they call me and acts like what they said never happened. Sometimes says rude jokes about my family i know it’s a joke but it’s just disrespectful. What did i actually do i’ve done nothing but support them and try and guide them to living a better lifestyle. I haven’t forced them to do anything. maybe i’m being to nice? i’ve felt like this for a long time

[HannesK]

I totally agree with the two who answered before me, but I was just stuck on your phrase "... try and guid them to living a better life style..." you could mean it genuine, but some just don't want to get advice from others. If it's that case, hands away from it.

Back to the topic. When you are afraid you are ablout to lose your closest friend, talk to her/him about it. (Hey I feel not so good right now, kinda feel left out, maybe I am over reacting, how do you see this?)

[Kokoroho]

Really you set 0 boundaries and consider getting along with people, bestfriends.
The thing is it's particularly your job let them know stuff ain't cool. How it makes you feel.
If the refuse to acknowledge there mistake. You know that they wasn't your friends to begin with.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Friends grow apart... especially at your age. Go make new friends and I promise you'll like them more after a while.

[Anonymous]

Maybe nothing? Have you tried asking this friend?

[Anonymous]

The older we get the smaller our circle gets