Are you usually the one who messages first or the one who gets messages? Are you the one who makes plans or the one who gets asked to plans? How would you rate your friendship level on a scale of 1-10? I would say mines a four because most of my friends are long-distance and online.
My friendship life is pretty decent overall. I typically have to initiate most conversations and plans, and I'm probably the one who messages first most times. I'd say I rate my friendships around a 6 or 7 out of 10, because while they're not always the closest, I enjoy hanging out and spending time with my friends. I just wish they would reach out and put in the same amount of effort that I do!
It sucks. I’ve always been able to make friends because I’m quite social and outgoing. But not really deep intense friendships. I have 2 of those before but they both ended for different reasons.
Now I’ve found myself with maybe 2 or 3 friends and I’ll see them or talk to them once every few months.
I’d like to have more meaningful friendships but it’s not easy to trust nowadays. Unfortunately a lot of people nowadays don’t value friendships like some of us do. For them it’s just a pass time or a means to get something they want.
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s My friendship's life now is a little stuck. I want to meet more people and make more friends.
I usually send messages first, but I'm asked to plans. I'd give a 7 to my friendship's life.
I have too many friends. I am always being invited to do things with them, and I am always having to refuse. Not only that, but I go out one night a week, and that is enough for me these days.
My friendship life is 0. No one to message, no one messages, no friends.
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