My boyfriend’s ex wife is constantly asking him for money. She would first use the kids as an excuse. She also will just come up with a sob story sometimes. It’s clear she’s not using the money for the kids. They divorced because she got strung out on drugs, and cheated on my boyfriend. (She is apparently clean now.) The kids don’t even live with her full time. They live with my boyfriend’s parents full time, and they only see her on the weekends. As well as some holidays. The only reason why they don’t live with my boyfriend, is because he is active duty military. Once his contact ends in 3 years, the kids will live with us full time. My boyfriend is very kind with a big heart. I hate to see him get taken advantage of. I can clearly see his ex wife is manipulating him. This is the only thing that causes him and I to argue. I told him he doesn’t owe her anything. Only the children, and being a great father to them. Whenever he doesn’t respond to her, or doesn’t send her money. She starts to threaten she will go after him legally, to collect child support and take the children away. This is causing drama between my boyfriend and I. Can she collect child support, when the kids don’t even live with her full time?
did they go to court for child support/custody? they are only allowed to take the agreed upon amount. any more or less than that would go against the agreement. if anything, the grandparents should be receiving that money.
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Pretty sure she is nit entitled to any child support as she is not the primary guardian I'm aslo pretty sure she can't take the kids away for that exact reason but better then gag ask a family court lawyer this stuff u will get the actual lawfully answers
It depends on what the court ordered when you got divorced (that would be in the divorce papers). In all likelihood, she is completely blowing smoke.
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He should take her to court so the court can tell her to go piss up a flagpole
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