Help to say I'm moving?

[soulbabe]

So I'm moving the 19th and my mom is pretty toxic I'm telling my mother that I'm moving out tomorrow night

I'm taking her out to tell her because I don't want to be murdered

But how do I bring up I'm moving into the conversation like what is the least anger enducing way for me to say I'm moving out

Updates

+1 y

NO I CAN'T TELL HER OVER THE PHONE OR DAY OF I have to tell her tomorrow there's no ifs ands or buts

[Grond21]

I'm really glad to hear you got a new place.

With a woman like her there is no guarantee of safety. But the best thing you can do is try to frame it in a way that she benefits. Like you're doing it for her sake.

Also, don't tell her where you are going to move to.

[Nerdvana]

I suggest you invite her to dinner. Small talk. Ask her how she is doing. etc. If you birthday is coming up. Tell her how you can't believe you will be 24 already. You feel like you have grown so much in the last couple of years. Then tell her the reason why you invited her to dinner is because you have great news. You found a very nice place and you will be moving in. Maybe highlight the positives. Close to work/school. Safe area. etc.

[Cutegirl06]

Maybe you should wait to tell her the you move out, if she's that bad.

[soulbabe]

That's not a option

[exitseven]

You should just move out in the middle of the night without telling her.

[soulbabe]

That's not a option

[ChicoFromThe305]

Tell her over the phone after already moved out? ☻

[soulbabe]

That's not a option

[ChicoFromThe305]

I know she will follow you and it will be worse 🙃