I just admitted mom cheats and now she's very upset with me, did I really betray her? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2024-03-26T17:57:56Z

My 17th b-day was 2 weeks ago and yesterday I just ratted her out after several months of doing what she told me to do. She pleaded with me to keep it a secret, lie about her whereabouts, erase the calls if possible, etc. I would step out of the house because I didn't want to deal with her bringing the lover. I never greeted the lover. I was hateful towards him and mom had the nerve to say I'm being rude, to say hi to him. I didn't want to ruin my relationship with dad. He didn't do anything to us. In addition, he started noticing my mood changes, mom and I were arguing more often, crying alone in my room, not smiling in pictures anymore, etc. I admitted it all to him just yesterday after school. Dad already suspected something was wrong with me because it was unlike my usual self. It was relief to hear I still got my dad. My mother is very upset with me because she feels I went against her and that women support each other, that I've betrayed her, the code, betray my own kind. Did I? I felt there was no other way, that I was screwed either way.

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Your mom is a POS for trying to make you keep her secrets.. You did nothing wrong.. And your POS mother needs mental help.

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  Based on your comments asker, your dad loves you. Remember that. His love is without condition. Your mother's love carries the condition that you keep her shit behavior secret, remember that when divorce happens, cause I can almost guarantee it will.
  
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  As to "did I really betray her" you cannot betray a betrayer.. She chose her path. She needs to suffer the consequences of her actions.
  
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You were right to tell your father. She is in the wrong and is trying to shift the blame on you. At least you have a good father.

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You did the right thing, your mom did something wrong. You have nothing to fel guilty about.

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You did the right thing. I'm sure that your dad is happy you told him about it

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Your mom is bitch blaming everyone for her actions

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