I'd say it's a trust thing. A good amount of guys feel afraid to say anything but the fact that he's open with you about it must mean he's over it if he can bring it up to his girlfriend. I really wouldn't worry about it. Maybe try bringing up your own ex boyfriends, see how he reacts and if he reacts negatively bring up what he does as well. If you're both open and showing trust in the other it will really work well for your relationship.
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He might feel like he can tell you about that kind of stuff, he must trust you enough. Unless it means that he is trying to get you jealous so tht you like him more. It depends what he is saying about them, is he saying mistakes, or is he saying good things about them. If he claims them as mistakes, then its a good thing. But if he is trying to make you jealous by saying good stuff, then its obviously a bad thing.
I actually don't think its a good thing. I went through this with my ex, even to the point of him pointing things out that his ex's would do in bed, just after having sex :O...I don't want to hear it all the time, I want him to be focused me not his ex's , ex-fwb what ever they were. Sometimes is fine, and it can be trust as well, but if it makes you uncomfortable, then its not ok.
I don't know if it's normal male behaviour but I told my wife about everything ( not the details) She had boyfriends but did never tell much about them or is evasive when I ask it. I don't worry about her past: I prefer her present and future.
My past sometimes comes up in my mind.
It means he feels comfortable with you and trusts you. It means that he not only views you as his girlfriend but also views you as his friend
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Well to me, it seems like he's either feelin himself a little to much to think he can talk to you about girls he'd had sex with...shoot just to talk about abother girl he'd had relations with is just rude if you ain't ask. Sexually, I think he's either tryna hint to you that he wants you to do things theve probably done. You have to let him know ur his girl not his friend. If you keep letting him do that, he's gonna think he can keep doin it and your okay with it. Don't b rude about it, just set him straight on who you are. Good luck
I don't think it's a good thing, unless you two are having a conversation about that particular subject and it needs to be said. I feel it's normal to talk about past relationships if the conversation calls for it. My boyfriend and I have talked about past relationships with each other, such as why things didn't work, so we get a sense of what each other likes. But we don't do it to brag to the other person or whatever.
I don't mind it as long as the person doesn't use it in a negative way, like comparing. It's a good way to get information if he's telling all. I always here it is bad ettiquette to talk of past relationships, but I don't think that means that we should tell them it's bad ettiquette.
Not all guys do this. Sounds like he's giving you his relationship resume to, I don't know, get you thinking that he can have others but he's choosing to be with you.
I don't tell girls my past history and I certainly don't want to hear theirs. It might be better than mine :)It means he's a little dense about knowing what women want to hear.
sounds like he's an asshole who feels like he needs to brag to keep ur attention
It sounds like he is opening up to you and being ohnest. It is good if he is unsing it in a positve way but not so good if he he is being negative. If you don't enjoy it, try to talk to him about it and how you feel.
he's giving you his heart. He's not hiding anything from you...
you should actually be happy that he's telling you thisEither this dude needs some closure, or he's trying to make you jealous
If he is always talking about his past relationships, it is probablay because he is not over them.
it means that he misses them in a way which is bad
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