Boyfriend's friend flirts with me..help please!

[Anonymous]

ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 years.. his best friend flirts with me all the time.. its not in private or when my boyfriend isn't in the room.. its in front of my boyfriend.. my boyfriend sees it but doesn't say anything.. for example last night I went to a little get together with them both at my boyfriends sisters house...I had a little too much to drink and wasn't feeling good.. I layed on the couch cause my boyfriend was cleaning up.. I was awake but not really aware.. like I could hear what's going on but I wasn't fully in control..my boyfriends friend sat on the couch by me and started stroking my hair..so first thought was 'its my boyfriend doing it' then a couple min later I sit up and finally look and its not my boyfriend.. my boyfriends in the kitchen.. I was shocked..so I get up and walk over to him to tell him I'm not feeling well and his friend is making me uncomfortable.. my boyfriend gives me the cold shoulder and tells me go to sleep or something.. the very next morning my boyfriend was still upset and wouldn't listen to me still.. one time we were all at my place playing xbox on my bed.. I'm cuddled up to my boyfriend his friend scoots closer to me gets under my blankets and starts rubbing his foot against mine so I said straight up "don't be trying to play footsie with me" and my boyfriend heard me and saw it all and didn't say anything.. later on my boyfriend was mad at me acting all jealous because his friend got under the blankets with me.. he could've told his friend to get out.. its not like I did anything wrong..i was cuddled close up to my boyfriend.. and I've never ever flirted back with his friend..but its getting unbearable that my boyfriend won't stick up for me and tell his friend to have some respect and stop.. what do I do? how do I tell him about this?

[JohnBelluci]

Maybe you should get angry for good and expose this "friend" , in your boyfriend's presence.

Like for example, the next time this guy touches you or does something unapropriate to you in your boyfriend's presence, like he play footsies or whatever just say something like that (with loud angry voice):

"WHAT THE F*** MAN ? ARE YOU DONE YET ? WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING TOUCHING ME AND SHIT ?

I AM NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND ! HOW DARE YOU FLIRT WITH YOUR BEST PAL'S GIRLFRIEND ANYWAY ?!

I'VE HAD ENOUGH. NEXT TIME YOU TRY SOMETHING FUNNY I'LL SLAP YOU. GET YOUR OWN GIRLFRIEND YOU DISGUSTING FREAK... "

(Ok you don't need to get that aggressive lol but) I mean if after THAT... your boyfriend still doesn't get that his best friend is upsetting you, then he really is retarded... OR he knows what's happening but he's got no balls to straighten up his mate.

[Anonymous]

You should talk it out with your boyfriend. Perhaps, he can do something. You should try your best to ignore that friend of him. That's quite detrimental to your relationship.

[BlondChick93]

Have you talked to your boyfriend just the two of you? Explain to him what's going on and how you would appreciate it if he could talk to his friend. He may just not want to admit the fact its true so avoiding it is the best solution for him. But you need to have a serious sitting down talk with just him. If that doesn't work try talking to the friend yourself and say hey I am in a relationship with your best friend can you please stop making those to gestures to me o really don't like it.

[Jess1812]

Sit down and talk with your boyfriend that his friend is being creepy and weird. Try talking it out with him before you do anything else.

[thimmslicc]

I've always been hit on by my boyfriends friends. Even the married ones.
I've been slapped on the ass after drunk nights. Made a huge ordeal about it. Cried. Bitched. Scream.
Yet, my boyfriend only got jealous and mad at me.
I honestly think they care about their friend's feelings more than us (their girlfriend)
I've reacted the right way and the wrong way and to this day, I am still the bad person.
So fuck it.
Let's fuck their best friends.
Can't please everyone!

[mattyice]

its a crush and he likes to make you feel uncomfortable

[Aleahamphom]

Hi how old are you

[Pftpftpft]

At least I know I ought to be more protective otherwise I get this crap

[rabbit3891]

I think you should sleep with his friend.