Women are the same. Will you go out with a guy who your completely repulsed to? No, they are not physically or sexually attractive. Would you want to have kids with someone gross to you? Nope, how can you possibly be turned on by that. Not that everything is about sex, but sexual and physical attraction is. important if you are getting married, and planning on having kids.
This worlds moving too fast to stop and check personality. Its really that simple... But I feel like it happens on both sides. Women do it A LOT. I'm proud to say, that I honestly have no set standards... One minute I find a bald guy attractive, the other time its a guy whos a little chubby... I seriously can say I don't discriminate... long as he has a semi- good looking face...
Dude I value the way a guy looks over everything else. Not money. As I see it, there is nothing inherently wrong with judging potential mates by their physical attractiveness. What p*sses me off is when guys make no effort to look good, yet still snub more homely women. It's a double standard.
The reason good relationships generaly ride on looks are they are the FIRST thing we see. Not your beautyful soul, clever wit, or playfulness. Your body is a billboard that will make or break a guy's will to make first contact. After that is made then further delving into her personality is possible.
It's sad to say but men as a whole are simple creatures. We are attracted to slim bodies, ample breats, and a pretty face. We *can* look past it but on a whole it's a major stumbling block.
Looks are for one thing and one thing only: The first impression. When you see somebody across the room who you don't know, looks are the ONLY thing you can tell about them. If their looks aren't attractive to you, then you won't approach them plain and simple.
Now, if he knew he girl, most guys would put personality before looks. I know I would.
Ah! Commenting on the threads has exhausted me. I hate threads. Anywhoo, I will just say I guess we are disagreeing / misunderstanding each others' points of views. I will probably not reply any further. Not because I would be ignoring you, but I just don't see the point. Plus, again.. I'm not a fan of the threads...
why do girls date guys who are in the marines or athletes? seriously, both guys and girls are equally shallow, but I think you girls have it easier and get away with it more often because you girls get to do the choosing.
Jaglover, he never said all girls. Just because you don't doesn't mean most don't. You may hate athletes but you would prefer a athletic guy (not necessarily an athlete) over a guy that is out of shape.
pinklemonade, we are doing broad generalizations here. We aren't really talking about the few that don't stragglers that are out of the norm.
Yeah but all girls have to do is welcome a guy's advances or deny them, so in a way, girls get to choose more often than we do, like girls have more options.
So then both sexes do the choosing. Guys have a lot of options because they can approach whoever they want. Girls have less options (only the guys that come to them) but always have the final say. Besides, that's very traditional; a lot of girls like to approach guys now that it' the 21st century and all.
Most women starting with age 12 go only for money, so most of us look at most girls like we do at cars we can't afford to buy...we just discuss their exterior! I tdoesn't mean that's all we care about, just all we usually can access!
By instinct, we are attracted to the physical parts of women. This does not mean we are all alike. Sometimes a man can be attracted by intelligence and personality. But for the most part, looks is what entices us in the first place.
Why men or woman go for looks ( Healthy and Good looking ) is Instict but those insticts dont really apply any more in modern day but they are still there , same with woman going for higher men that was because could see danger coming, all of it is just instict. Also some of this stuff that i said may not be true this is just what i have read on diffrent articles
Looks make us want to have sex with you once. Personality makes us want to spend time with you and develop a relationship beyond sex. The biggest mistake hot women make is assuming that looks are the only thing that matters and that guys will tolerate your bullsh*t just because you're hot.
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Guys do tolerate a lot of the bullcrap hot women do. Haven't you seen it in action?
Love can happen looks are no important, but a guy wants a woman who is at least doable.
we are afriad of time for sex to happen, than we can't get hard ,and we have to act like we have ED to not hurt feelings. just put that to mind when you say a guy has a small d***, are you really insulting him? or are you just not turning him on to make him big, causing that insult to backfire on yourself?
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It's not just men, women go for looks too... If you are not attracted to someone then you most likely won't approach them (in more than a friendly way), It takes a while to get to know someone "personality" wise, there needs to be some sort of initial attraction. So its not just men, its human nature.
life is unfair. we were born with the natural attraction to ...well attractive things. there is like a million reasons to say why a guy wants a hot girl. here's a few: sex with a hot girl is funner obviously because she's hot. 2. guys want to have a hotter girl than their friends do. 3. a hot body usually means the girl takes care of her body and doesn't have anything nasty going on haha.There's a few reasons///
who's lying? I wouldn't even consider pursuing any girl I didn't find physically attractive because it is natural instinct. we are programmed to seek attractive mates to increase the reproductive success of our offspring.
Its called natural selection, that is if we are looking at the human race like any other species. But that's not always true cause guys also want to date or mary a woman you can actually have conversation. you'll find the one its ok.
Why do I go for looks? Take a human anatomy course, or crack open a human sexual physiology textbook and read the chapters where they talk about men. That should help you understand.
The answer was sarcastic. I was implying for you to read and learn about the male anatomy. We go for looks because the only way men can get turned on by is by looking at an attractive body. As a man,I can't get an erection just because my partner is smart, strong, successful or basically anything other than good looking. We need something to look at to get aroused. That's the whole point.I can let my body go a little bit in my 40s and still be attractive because I'm successful in life. You can't
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Women are the same. Will you go out with a guy who your completely repulsed to? No, they are not physically or sexually attractive. Would you want to have kids with someone gross to you? Nope, how can you possibly be turned on by that. Not that everything is about sex, but sexual and physical attraction is. important if you are getting married, and planning on having kids.
This worlds moving too fast to stop and check personality. Its really that simple... But I feel like it happens on both sides. Women do it A LOT. I'm proud to say, that I honestly have no set standards... One minute I find a bald guy attractive, the other time its a guy whos a little chubby... I seriously can say I don't discriminate... long as he has a semi- good looking face...
Dude I value the way a guy looks over everything else. Not money. As I see it, there is nothing inherently wrong with judging potential mates by their physical attractiveness. What p*sses me off is when guys make no effort to look good, yet still snub more homely women. It's a double standard.
The reason good relationships generaly ride on looks are they are the FIRST thing we see. Not your beautyful soul, clever wit, or playfulness. Your body is a billboard that will make or break a guy's will to make first contact. After that is made then further delving into her personality is possible.
It's sad to say but men as a whole are simple creatures. We are attracted to slim bodies, ample breats, and a pretty face. We *can* look past it but on a whole it's a major stumbling block.
Looks are for one thing and one thing only: The first impression. When you see somebody across the room who you don't know, looks are the ONLY thing you can tell about them. If their looks aren't attractive to you, then you won't approach them plain and simple.
Now, if he knew he girl, most guys would put personality before looks. I know I would.
Yeah that's true you can't tell if you like their personlity from across the room. But isn't it that judging somebody?
So what if it is? Subconsciously, you judge everyone you meet. How else could you determine whether or not someone is worth trusting, or even knowing?
Ah! Commenting on the threads has exhausted me. I hate threads. Anywhoo, I will just say I guess we are disagreeing / misunderstanding each others' points of views. I will probably not reply any further. Not because I would be ignoring you, but I just don't see the point. Plus, again.. I'm not a fan of the threads...
Good luck and such with whatever it is :)
why do girls date guys who are in the marines or athletes? seriously, both guys and girls are equally shallow, but I think you girls have it easier and get away with it more often because you girls get to do the choosing.
Lol that's nott true with some girls. I hate atheltes :/
But you love a hot body
Thats a broad generalzation.
i end up liking tons of guys. from the shy "nerd", to the outgoing "jock." it's the person, not because of their social standing but for who they are.
Jaglover, he never said all girls. Just because you don't doesn't mean most don't. You may hate athletes but you would prefer a athletic guy (not necessarily an athlete) over a guy that is out of shape.
pinklemonade, we are doing broad generalizations here. We aren't really talking about the few that don't stragglers that are out of the norm.
Oh and frustratedchump06, actually guys do the choosing. Guys are the pursuers, which means they do the choosing.
Yeah but all girls have to do is welcome a guy's advances or deny them, so in a way, girls get to choose more often than we do, like girls have more options.
So then both sexes do the choosing. Guys have a lot of options because they can approach whoever they want. Girls have less options (only the guys that come to them) but always have the final say. Besides, that's very traditional; a lot of girls like to approach guys now that it' the 21st century and all.
Most women starting with age 12 go only for money, so most of us look at most girls like we do at cars we can't afford to buy...we just discuss their exterior! I tdoesn't mean that's all we care about, just all we usually can access!
By instinct, we are attracted to the physical parts of women. This does not mean we are all alike. Sometimes a man can be attracted by intelligence and personality. But for the most part, looks is what entices us in the first place.
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Why men or woman go for looks ( Healthy and Good looking ) is Instict but those insticts dont really apply any more in modern day but they are still there , same with woman going for higher men that was because could see danger coming, all of it is just instict. Also some of this stuff that i said may not be true this is just what i have read on diffrent articles
Looks make us want to have sex with you once. Personality makes us want to spend time with you and develop a relationship beyond sex. The biggest mistake hot women make is assuming that looks are the only thing that matters and that guys will tolerate your bullsh*t just because you're hot.
Guys do tolerate a lot of the bullcrap hot women do. Haven't you seen it in action?
Love can happen looks are no important, but a guy wants a woman who is at least doable.
we are afriad of time for sex to happen, than we can't get hard ,and we have to act like we have ED to not hurt feelings. just put that to mind when you say a guy has a small d***, are you really insulting him? or are you just not turning him on to make him big, causing that insult to backfire on yourself?
It's not just men, women go for looks too... If you are not attracted to someone then you most likely won't approach them (in more than a friendly way), It takes a while to get to know someone "personality" wise, there needs to be some sort of initial attraction. So its not just men, its human nature.
life is unfair. we were born with the natural attraction to ...well attractive things. there is like a million reasons to say why a guy wants a hot girl. here's a few: sex with a hot girl is funner obviously because she's hot. 2. guys want to have a hotter girl than their friends do. 3. a hot body usually means the girl takes care of her body and doesn't have anything nasty going on haha.There's a few reasons///
Ok I don't like # 3. who cares what yo friends think. You gotta live 4 u. So yo friends deside the girl ur going to spend ur life with?
who's lying? I wouldn't even consider pursuing any girl I didn't find physically attractive because it is natural instinct. we are programmed to seek attractive mates to increase the reproductive success of our offspring.
If a guy has a good personality and he takes care of his health, it's a good thing. I am not the prettiest or the ugliest, rather average I think.
Guys are visual for sure It's hard to find a guy who isn't only into looks.
Its called natural selection, that is if we are looking at the human race like any other species. But that's not always true cause guys also want to date or mary a woman you can actually have conversation. you'll find the one its ok.
women like money
man like beauty
every one wants a partner he cud show off with
u know wen in public eyes shud turn...
That's true...
Why do I go for looks? Take a human anatomy course, or crack open a human sexual physiology textbook and read the chapters where they talk about men. That should help you understand.
Your answer was useless
The answer was sarcastic. I was implying for you to read and learn about the male anatomy. We go for looks because the only way men can get turned on by is by looking at an attractive body. As a man,I can't get an erection just because my partner is smart, strong, successful or basically anything other than good looking. We need something to look at to get aroused. That's the whole point.I can let my body go a little bit in my 40s and still be attractive because I'm successful in life. You can't
Looks are what attracts most males. Personality is what keeps men.