Because they're not guys, they're little boys. Or, basically, they're man-childs. They have no idea of what truly matters nor do they think long term. Ignore such "men" as they aren't real men.
I don't think so, I already started working out, my face will still become a bit more mature. I don't think my standarts will change during my 20's. It's just that I can't be with someone if I don't really enjoy being with them. I think there are boys who would date them, but they won't be hot.
you are OK. I have seen all types of girls get a boyfriend. if you are really concern with your looks try reading beauty magazines for suggestions, tricks and tips
oh try michelle phan, ask around to see which is best for you. You know? if you like a certain friends hair cut or color, as her which salon she goes to and go talk to that hair dresser for tips on how to style etc. Just ask around and you'll get ideas on what works for you. good luck
Its girls who have the high standards. Guys are famous for having little to no standards.
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I never said girls don't have high standards. I said, girls don't have as high standards when it comes to looks compared to men. Many men may have low standards in general but certainly not when it comes to looks. A guy may sleep with a girl that is ugly or average but he is not going to want her as his girlfriend.
Well they'll learn when they're older. They're still immature ._.
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I can't stand pretty girls. To much baggadge. Most are not marrige type. Since most are attention whores and see men like a cash cow. I want someone is just like you. But takes my breath away...
the girs in the picture aren't conventionally attractive. but they also have style issues , which in many ways is more damning. style can be a trump on looks, because it speaks to both appearance and reality, lifestyle and personality.
I just wish guys would be upfront about what they really like. It's just like when guys say they don't like when girls wear makeup but the opposite is true because they're always going for the girls covered in makeup.
well there are different types of guys and the signals you give off are interpreted in different ways to suit different ppls value systems. there are generalities but a lot comes down to style, looks, and personal taste.
I am female I am alos 20, I look for guys that are good looking and have similar traits. I want to have cute kids. In my psych class, it says everyone dies that, not on purplose but they do.
Attraction, to me, is that initial feeling when you first see someone and you want to get to know them more. Attraction is built over time though, once you get to know someone not based on just superficial reasons.
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Because they're not guys, they're little boys. Or, basically, they're man-childs. They have no idea of what truly matters nor do they think long term. Ignore such "men" as they aren't real men.
i hate it when guys are shallow but then call girls shallow when we reject them because theyre fugly.
people should just date others who are on their own level physically
Girls are way more picky than boys. Of course a boy who knows what his standarts are will not date a girl that's way uglier than his ex gf's.
They are way too ugly...
at your age that's probably true but once you're closer to your 20's it will become the opposite
I don't think so, I already started working out, my face will still become a bit more mature. I don't think my standarts will change during my 20's. It's just that I can't be with someone if I don't really enjoy being with them. I think there are boys who would date them, but they won't be hot.
This is a joke, right? You don't have standards yourself?
Guys and girls BOTH have high standards, but will usually settle for less than what they initially wanted.
I do have standards but they do not apply to looks.
you are OK. I have seen all types of girls get a boyfriend. if you are really concern with your looks try reading beauty magazines for suggestions, tricks and tips
I already have and it doesn't really work
oh try michelle phan, ask around to see which is best for you. You know? if you like a certain friends hair cut or color, as her which salon she goes to and go talk to that hair dresser for tips on how to style etc. Just ask around and you'll get ideas on what works for you. good luck
I'm not very interested in looks.
If the woman can appreciate me for me, that would be enough for a standing relationship.
lol, wtf?
Its girls who have the high standards. Guys are famous for having little to no standards.
I never said girls don't have high standards. I said, girls don't have as high standards when it comes to looks compared to men. Many men may have low standards in general but certainly not when it comes to looks. A guy may sleep with a girl that is ugly or average but he is not going to want her as his girlfriend.
"Guys are famous for having little to no standards." Not any guy I've ever talked to. XD
Girls have high standards too. Why do you want me to be romantic? Why do you want me to be funny?
All I want is sex. I'll have sex with those girls but I definitely won't break my back to impress them.
Men still have higher standards tho.. when it comes to looks
theres some guys out there who will f*** anything. black guys for example.
f***in idiot racist
thats not racism.
how do you know black guys will f*** anything. it has nothing to do with race
bullsh*t. White guys are just as bad.
Fucking and dating are two different things tho.. Men have higher standards for girls they date than for girls they just hookup with
Well they'll learn when they're older. They're still immature ._.
I can't stand pretty girls. To much baggadge. Most are not marrige type. Since most are attention whores and see men like a cash cow. I want someone is just like you. But takes my breath away...
Aww thanks. What does take your breath away mean?
Couldn't do it for those girls.. not near what I like...
I just like girls that are tan, in shape.. and an average + face.
Neither of those women are average looking. Average to me is Amanda Bynes, Orianthi, Emily Osment, and Kristin Bell.
I am not attracted to the linked pictures what-so-ever.
Okay. Thanks for answering.
This is a good question...its interesting reading what guys have to say about it
Thanks. Share you opinion please.
I don't think guys are as shallow as we think..I mean you don't have to be drop dead gorgeous to get a guy..you just need a good personality basicly
because they are investing their genes in a pool. is it going to be a good pool or a bad pool
No one my age is thinking about genes and reproducing.
yeh they are they just don't realize it. its hard wired into the dna.
the girs in the picture aren't conventionally attractive. but they also have style issues , which in many ways is more damning. style can be a trump on looks, because it speaks to both appearance and reality, lifestyle and personality.
And guys say they don't like trendy, high-maintenance girls...
well styled>>>trendy
I just wish guys would be upfront about what they really like. It's just like when guys say they don't like when girls wear makeup but the opposite is true because they're always going for the girls covered in makeup.
well there are different types of guys and the signals you give off are interpreted in different ways to suit different ppls value systems. there are generalities but a lot comes down to style, looks, and personal taste.
I am female I am alos 20, I look for guys that are good looking and have similar traits. I want to have cute kids. In my psych class, it says everyone dies that, not on purplose but they do.
Everyone's shallow when it comes to looks, for the most part. Attraction is key.
so what is attraction then?
Attraction, to me, is that initial feeling when you first see someone and you want to get to know them more. Attraction is built over time though, once you get to know someone not based on just superficial reasons.
there's nothing shallow about looks. It's just human nature. We appreciate beauty.
Not pretty enough. Sorry babes but you need to make the cut.
I am not looking for a girl to be a size 0 waist but a size 18 nottttt even
Physical beauty and weight don't have much to do with each other. You can be a size 0 and still be ugly lol
Some guys care way too much but the majority are all desperate for sex.
But just because a guy has sex with a girl doesn't mean he'll want to after sex. I think she's talking more about dating rather than just hooking up.