Is there anyway I could look more feminine naturally?

[Anonymous]

Today during math class these guys were commenting on me saying I don’t know if that’s a he she or an it. And also this other guy was rude to me and said something similar I’m just very fed up. I don’t get why if I was born a girl why can’t i at least look like one I feel like it’s a curse or something. I wonder if I should do something with my eyebrows but the problem is that everytime I make them thin my parents tell me that I look weird or “what the hell did you do to your face” so I just don’t know what to do anymore I want to feel better about myself despite me getting compliments like “oh you’re so pretty” the negative comments seem to overpower them

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should i dye my hair and eyebrows brown?

[Bruce_VVayne_]

To speak of my own experience and many of my other friends, from our age of 17 to 22, we almost became someone totally new without even changing anything about our faces. From our bone structure to the eyebrows, the face just got its shape more.

You are already nice and you shouldn't worry about it, you already have your photos and once you grow up more, when you come to the ages I mentioned, you will get the difference then. Let the time shows how much you will change more in a positive way. Your face will have its balance the better, just give it time.

[Asker]

But I’m 17 just had my braces off and I haven’t grown since I was 11. I don’t think much will change. Are you saying that I look bad now?

[Bruce_VVayne_]

It is the opposite. You are already pretty good now and you will just get better in time. Even if you have concerns, let the time fix it, your face will do it itself. I meant that

[Bruce_VVayne_]

Thanks

[ak667]

They need to get their eyes checked. I don't see anything not feminine about your facial features: smaller mandible, reduced eye ridge, smoother forehead (frontal bone), etc. It's all very feminine. Actually maybe more than usual, but definitely not less.

[ak667]

Might have something to do with the way you carry yourself, because your facial features are very feminine. No one would ever mistake your skull for a male, so to speak.

[curiousnorway]

Agree.

[ak667]

Your facial features are actually screaming "feminine" to me, at least as far as the things I studied in anatomy and figure drawing long ago... more than usual. It tends to be a bit more ambiguous, like women might have a wider mandible/jaw or more pronounced eye ridge than usual... yours is like canonical female.

[ak667]

If there's anything you can do to appear more "feminine" naturally, it cannot be to your face as I see it... again canonical female face. Maybe the way you dress or present or carry yourself?

[Justacatlady]

I wouldn't worry to much. You are very pretty and I don't see manly features. If you choose to use makeup to enhance those features I would recommend filling in your eye brows, and applying mascara. You have a small amount of dark circles under you eyes so an eye cream could help or make sure you are getting enough water and sleep.

[Justacatlady]

Thanks for MHO

[Asker]

No problem :)

[Anonymous]

You have posted on GaG a long time ago I remember. U need to focus more on building ur self confidence. U already look feminine and beautiful.

[Asker]

Thank you and I just wish it was easy but just when I feel okay with myself people always have to bring me down again

[Opinion Owner]

Do not listen to people. If you live your life based off of others opinions believe me you will always be trying to change yourself. Do not change anything about yourself, and I'm being very honest here , you are very beautiful. Not only on the outside but I can tell you are a good person as well. Please try and work on your confidence instead of changing your look.

[Asker]

do you think people (my cousins, guys, others) judge my appearance because of how I carry myself (super awkward).

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe. Or maybe they are just judgmental people. Honestly, I see nothing wrong with you. You just have to figure out how to feel more accepting of yourself whether that be a hobby or taking time for yourself etc. You must work on liking yourself or you will never see what I'm telling you which is that you are pretty.
You have two choices, either to accept and love your own features and body that you wake up with and carry yourself with everywhere. Your nose that helps you breath. Your mouth that helps you communicate your thoughts and eat. Your brain that helps you analyze information and think. Your legs that carry you to places. Everything about you.
Or you could hate yourself , and people will see you as a target to hate you too.
Nobody can make you hate yourself , only you have the choice whether you should care what other people think or not. And you shouldn't.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your kindness and wise words i really appreciate it :)

[CuChullan]

To me, your eyes ooze femininity.
There's an old saying, "Tell a woman she is beautiful and she'll believe it for 5 mins. Tell a woman she is ugly and she'll believe it for the rest of her life".
Don't listen to or allow the judgement of arseholes to destroy your self esteem.

[MrKinktastic]

You look pretty feminine to me. I think they are just being assholes because they are used to seeing girls in makeup etc and you don't seem to wear much. I think you look pretty as you are though and those guys were just assholes.

[SjE78]

you look very feminine already, but if you wish to dress more typically feminine or girly dresses, skirts things like that maybe
but personally I wouldn't say you needed to change tbh as you look great as you are

[SjE78]

the choice would be entirely up to you but personally i dont think you need to

[MlleCake]

You look perfectly feminine to me. It sounds like those guys in your class are just assholes and you can't listen to guys like that.

[GreatnessBack]

Those boys were stupid.
You are beautiful.
Anything you put on will only enhance your beauty.

Take care.

[sarahhcmarie]

leave your eyebrows the way they are
they're perfection
you look like a girl, dw
guys are just asssssholessss

[sarahhcmarie]

no, don't dye

[ATuairiscean]

I think you look fine - It was just little boys being rude

[RIVERTAY888]

You look fine as you are all you need to do is smile more

[insomnium95]

You look fine to me nothing much you could do

[dontgofalling]

You look feminine stop it already

[dontgofalling]

No you shouldn't

[lillars]

Smile