My friend is constantly commenting on my weight saying how I’m skinny and saying “I’d hate to be thin like you, I love my curves” what should I do?

[Anonymous]

It just seems like whenever we go out together she’s comparing our weights saying “guys prefer a girl with more meat on her like me” ”OMG you’re a size 6 (UK) I would hate to be that thin” should i I just ditch her as a friend? She’s really gettting my confidence down. I never say anything about her weight she’ll moan and say she’s fat sometimes as she has a podgy belly but I don’t say anything. I say she has a nice body I’m the girl on the left by the way (dark skinned one) should i I drop her as friend? she's the only only friend who says negative stuff about my weight. “I prefer being curvy” She is going to the gym and trying to lose weight on her belly but apparently she is “perfect” everywhere else What should I do? She keeps saying she doesn’t mean anything by it

[Anonymous]

First of all every guy has a different preference in body types. Neither of you are skinny so let’s not dwell on that. You seem to be comfortable with your body and truth of the matter is that the only opinion that matters when it comes to your body it’s yours. Your friend may have a body image issue that’s beyond what she’s expressing. She may have realized that no matter what she does she won’t get to your body type and envies that. So in order to make herself feel better she tries to put you down. You could ditch her, sure. But if you are comfortable and happy with your body you could also be supportive and understanding. That, of course, will depend on how much of a friend you consider her to be and how much you can tolerate.

[Anon-ymous1]

Every guy really doesn't have a different body preference. There are bodies that are considered attractive by the overwhelming majority of guys, and bodies that are considered unattractive by the overwhelming majority of guys. Beauty really isn't as subjective as people allege it is on the Internet.

[Opinion Owner]

Do a poll and prove me wrong.

[Anon-ymous1]

I already have. Months ago.

[Opinion Owner]

What did you title it so I can look it up?

[Anon-ymous1]

Which girl is hotter? ↗

Better girl ass between these two? ↗

You're welcome.

[Opinion Owner]

Your poll is faulty. You provided limited examples and didn’t ask the right question (s). And, if we look further, your poll was limited to GaG users only and thus does not encompass a large enough sampling to obtain accurate data to validate your statement or mine for that matter.

[Anon-ymous1]

... Then if you don't think GaG polls are legitimate and take issue with them, why the hell did you say "do a poll" in the first place. What are you talking about.

[Opinion Owner]

Funny how you left out the bad question part. In any case, I never said they weren’t legitimate. What I said was your questions were not the right ones and to make things worst you used a limited sampling. My apologies for not putting this at a 7th grade level so you could understand it to begging with.

[Anon-ymous1]

They weren't bad polls-- they clearly showed that the majority (of GaG users, though again, I don't know why you're even bringing up "do a poll" if you don't think polls are legitimate, because that doesn't make any logical sense) prefer the thinner, more attractive option. Beauty is not as subjective as people on the Internet love to claim. My apologies for proving to you what you wanted proved to you. I don't know why sticking your head in the figurative sand is your reaction here.

[Opinion Owner]

The polls weren’t bad, the questions were. Even if you use a limited group asking the right questions would get better results. Your questions weren’t open ended questions. You gave a choice between one or the other and left out everything in between. That’s the same as asking a yes or no question without allowing for expansion on the answer. It’s sad that your views on beauty are so closed minded. Maybe one day you’ll allow yourself to experience all the beauty that’s out there and not limit yourself to such extremes.

[Miristheiss]

Man, that middle photo is SEXY. Both girls look so hot in that head to foot shot.

If that is a tattoo on the girls thigh than that would be a no go. If it is a natural birth mark or something than we'd be all good.

You are both super hot, guys like slender girls too. She sounds like she is too competitive. Like she is trying to "win" some sort of bizarre contests friends shouldn't be having with each other.

[Miristheiss]

I don't know why I keep thinking about the Spice Girls when I see this photo! LOL.

[Anonymous]

Kindly tell her to fuck off. She has her body preference that she likes and you have yours both are completely fine. If she likes her body like that then fine but to tell you yours isn't good enough for her standards is awful. If she puts you down all the time over it then yeah drop her you need friends who are uplifting you and are gonna make you feel confident. She just seems jealous tbh.

[Warmapplecrumble]

She's just worried probably.

My parents keep saying about ny weight. I think they are just trying to make a conversation and have nothing better to say.

I don't know how she is to you... but don't drop her because of internert. Do what your heart says.

You both look attractive in different ways.

[Warmapplecrumble]

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[Asker]

Worried about what?

[Anon-ymous1]

She's worried that she's fat, because she is. Like I said.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Anon-ymous1 the girl in the photo is not fat. Not scientifically.
In fact everyone has a little amount of fat. It is necessary for menstruation. Some women need more , some less.
Also Caucasians have more muscle mass than other ethnicities... so they look bigger on average.

[Asker]

So what do you think of the black girls figure?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Both the figures are fine, none of you look like the weight is unhealthy. And if you are healthy that should be all that counts.

[Theft]

I would maybe make some space.. but I do t think it would be good to totally drop her as a friend.. your gorgeous though!!! Between the two of you I would pic you hands down!!!
I think she is just trying to make herself feel better about her own weight. Because you are so much better looking then her. Well in my Opinion anyways... haha! In America it is still better to be thin then to have a bit of weight on your bones as she says.

[JulieXO]

Tell her you don't like that she says it all the time and ask her to stop. Also your body is much better than hers in my opinion.

[Asker]

Thank you. I appreciate it

[Justcallmealy]

I think she may be self-conscious. I mean we see and hear everywhere that being thin is the "go to" for women... You should talk to her about it and say that it hurts your feelings as it's clearly not a friendly/nice way to talk to a friend.

[Asker]

She said apparently she’s just being honest and giving her opinion and not throwing insults at me. What do you think?

[PepsiBottle]

She's saying she thinks she's better than you. That's what she's LITERALLY saying

[Asker]

Well I don’t think anyone is better than anyone. We’re all as good as each other

[Justcallmealy]

Well clearly you see it as insulting, don't you? You look good and you're really not skinny, so she doesn't have any "excuses" to say such things. If someone makes you feel bad then yes, you shouldn't keep seing him/her.

[PepsiBottle]

That's our point, she's making you feel bad about your body. Why should you be friends with that

[HopefulGuy32]

Sounds like she’s self conscious and trying to reassure herself that she’s happy with how she is/looks. It’s not so much about you as it is her. Ignore her or say something, don’t spend as much time together if your unhappy.

[Anon-ymous1]

Uh your friend is 1) dumb and 2) fat and is insecure about it. So she claims to want to not be thinner like you, even though she actually does and just won't admit it. Anyway, you aren't "skinny"-- you're normal. She's not.

She's fat.

[AaronKrieger]

She's just jealous of you, but based off what you've said she seems toxic. I'd ditch her.

[Sophie_2301]

Sounds like she has self-esteem issues and is trying to project them onto you.

[TheNiceGuys]

The darker one looks a lot better just be happy with who you are and when she dose it just see it as a joke or give her a worming to stop

[Anonymous]

You both look perfectly healthy, she just has a little more "meat?" than you. Honestly if you wore a little less makeup I'd say you're way prettier

[Asker]

Why would I look prettier with less makeup?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe I just don't know fashion but to me in that third picture the stuff above your eyes is lighter than your skin tone and I think you'd look better without that colour change, but that's just me, I don't know anything about makeup😅

[bhavy24]

U have a figure to crave for and you look way more attractive than her , so dont let her negative comments affect you in any way

[Asker]

She is also saying guys prefer thick girls so that’s me out of the picture lol

[bhavy24]

Every guy has different preferences. Dont take it in wrong way if you both were together in a club, i would have approached you rather than her

[everydayimshovellin]

She isn't happy with herself and hasn't got the minerals to fix it so vents negativity.

[turnmypainintopower1]

I feel ya girly the best thing to do is ditch the friendship she will just keep saying bitchy stuff

[Tinnamar]

You look great, she is probably just jealous. "Friends" who put you down are not your friends.. Ditch her

[ovixs90]

Maybe she is jelouse because she is more fat. I think if she makes you feel not confident you shouldn't be friends.

[Anonymous]

Girls should be lifting each other up, not tearing each other down

Same with guys. Why those guys beat up the gay actor from Blackish, is beyond me. They're pathetic losers, like Trump. NO LIFES

[Asker]

Apparently she is not tearing me down she is just giving me her opinion on my body

[Opinion Owner]

no, she's tearing you down

[Opinion Owner]

I got rid of his answer, he was being a fucktard

[Asker]

She said “aren’t I allowed to have a preference? I don’t want to be skinny like you I prefer my curves that’s not tearing you down”

[Iloveapplepies34]

You look great it sute you your very good shaped body with blond hair

[Asker]

What about the black girl?

[Benedek38]

I think she is insecure.

[Anonymous]

Tell she should go F herself. Being over-weight is not attractive.
by the way, do NOT listed to her, she's just jelus off u. But if her comments r bothering u on regular basis, unfriend that jelus b***. 👍

[MemeMaester]

Yeah ditch her, you're hotter than her anyway

[ninjafemme]

ditch the fat whore

[Asker]

Do you really think she’s fat?

[ninjafemme]

yes she's fat... i know because im fat. we both are fat whores. she's just jealous of your slim figure... like me can u give your body to me please lol

[ninjafemme]

but thank god im not as fat as her... its just my tummy. how did u meet her she sounds like a bitch

[Asker]

I’ve only known her for 4 months so I might just drop her

[ninjafemme]

oh yes drop her... girls are snakes these days

[Miristheiss]

No, she isn't fat. She is super hot and curvy. Both girls have really sexy figures.

[ninjafemme]

@Miristheiss please stop being an idiot any blind fool can see that kind of fat is leading to a heart attack soon

[Guanfei]

You're both hot as hell

[OfDeath]

I like the black one more.

[Dantheman101]

Could have included a rear view of both

[Warmapplecrumble]

Lmao Dan...

[Dantheman101]

@Warmapplecrumble I just wanted to see the blondes bum

[Warmapplecrumble]

Lol you are funny