This was a few days ago at a vanity fair Oscar party. I like Ciara but c'mon man. 😳
I believe it's smart to get with someone who generally has the same sense of fashion or at least modesty that you do. I'm sure nobody really likes being seen with someone who wears what they think are ugly or inappropriate clothes. Even just a tshirt with the word "FUCK" on it. I wouldn't wear that myself, I prefer to date women who don't like them either. I don't mind if they like what I'd think is ugly though, as long as they don't mind that it'll be an acquired taste for me.
One of the big reasons for a serious breakup I had was that my style did change quite aggressively while I was with her, and it went from something she also liked and complimented hers, to something very different from hers and that she thought was very inappropriate. So I had to pick between continuing to (as I saw it) grow as a person and how i presented myself, or shut that down to keep from disrespecting how my S/O chose to present herself.
I'm sure many people have had this issue, and it's up to them both to find a compromise and/or decide how to handle it.
Right?
A man can tell his lady anything he wants. There are no rules.
The world is full of cucks these days. Who knows what disloyal, nasty, disrespectful crap some men will put up with but a real guy who doesn't put up with bs and doesn't let his mate dishonor and disrespect him would say there isn't a chance in hell you are going out naked like that... she is free to do whatever she wants and if she does it he'd just kick her to the curb and move on to someone with more class and who is loyal and respectful to her relationship.
There are tons of cucks out there now are chicken shit men afraid to lose their girl as if she is the only woman on the planet and they are afraid to upset her.
What sane man would put up with shit like that? There are almost 4 billion women... it is super easy to find a woman who doesn't pull crap like that and who are not mentally warped to where they get some pleasure or feel the need to wear crap like that.
Someone who truly "needs" to wear that and be naked for the attention of others has issues and it is best they aren't in relationship anyway.
The sleazy out there, the cucks, the warped ones will freak out and espouse how it is normal and ok and they are expressing themselves and they are being free and empowered. blah, blah, blah. They are just warped. No sane people fall for or listen to their bs.
If some women is with you and committed to you but has some drive to sexually display herself like she is still trying to attract suitors and luring men is bad news. Good men should probably just dump them for them even WANTING to do that in the first place.
I’d appreciate if my man tells me how good or not good I look before we leave the house as I will do the same with him if I don’t approve of his outfit. At the end of the day, I don’t want to embarrass him or me in public. Honesty is the best policy. Now if we both disagree on our requests, we can compromise.
Yes mine would tell me if he doesn’t like what Im wearing or can’t leave like that but he likes if other men look lol
So what would you say exactly if your wife put on that dress?
"he likes if other men look"
So... he's a cuck.
@Miristheiss no be jealous
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I'm sure if he had an issue with it he would have told her, and she'd likely hear out his concerns. They speak pretty highly about their communication, respect, and support they have in each other. She's in entertainment and he knew that when he married her. This look probably isn't an issue for them as a couple while it may be for others.
At the end of the day, partners can discuss their concerns with your look ofc. But it's best to get with someone who matched your views when it comes to how to dress in public anyway.
For the women that say they can wear whatever they want, I feel their husbands can decide he doesn’t want to be seen with her in public dressed like that… I mean come on, that’s not even a dress… It’s sad to see women that act like they’re so confident but then they have to bare all … to what feel sexy? There’s ways to feel/look sexy in a more classy less trashy way
Yea she doing waaaay too much, especially to have a husband and kids. She prob just wanted to show she had her body back after birthing two kids but he shouldve said something. I like ciara too And she always had bangin arms/abs/legs but she clearly paid for the ass. She ain't never had ass... not like that
I do t think there is anything wrong with a man saying something is making him uncomfortable but if he is telling her she can’t leave the house in something either then need a king hard talk or they need to brake up. Because a couple should like and enjoy how the other dresses in public and out. That man clearly likes the dress his wife is wearing and as much as it is not appropriate in that setting I think it could be fine is some settings. So I think that the real issue here is peoples differing opinions of what is or isn’t appropriate.
I feel he should if they are married and depending on where they are going. I am for a woman wearing what makes her comfortable, but if they are going out for something like girl's night or a public event together there should be a level of modesty.
Not peacocking as if to gain looks or to appear on the market for other suitors.
End of the day, men will make a move on a woman if she is married or not and attractive women will be looked at. Question is, is their woman the type that will say "I am taken/here with my husband" or "thanks" and remain open to validation and further escalation.
I don't get how that is even allowed.. lol that should be a health hazard who wants someone wearing that thing she calls a dress on your chairs lmao.. that is nasty... but it isn't the first time a lady has skanked up the Oscars or really any celebrity event...
Yeah he looks pretty embarrassed next to her. But I wonder what came first, his stoicism which made her feel like she needed to dress that way in order to get his attention and other guys' attention in hopes to make him stop ignoring her, or does she dress like that to start with?
I mean yes the girl not his but a wife or a husband should he able to tell each other anything. So even tho he doesn't own me he my man and I care about him. If he not comfortable i don't want to be the source. So I would not wear it as long as it's in reason. The respect should go high ways and this can definitely be a respect thing
Well they are celebrities. The relationships don't have any substance. Haven't heard of Ciara in a while.
What a man's wife wears is a reflection on him and their marriage. Look at Liam Helmworth's toxic ex.
at least she didn't cheat on him like liam
@wannabecuck-2 who says he cheated?
I believe a man should marry a woman who wears appropriate clothes for him.
This picture on my profile pic is taken 4 years ago, my ex fiancé loved it and instead of feeling jealous of other men, he liked it that people found me attractive. He didn’t like when I dressed modestly.
I would not have that issue as our worldview would be a shared belief that fashionable professionalism is the best course at all times.
You married it and you knew it beforehand. You are stuck with it so if she gives you 🖕then live with 🖕and whatever else her scent drags home with her.
In almost every case, no. In the case of the woman in the picture…I think a husband should step in to protect his wife from looking like a whore. It’s in her best interest, despite whatever she may think to not be in public dressed like a common prostitute.
He can give his opinion and say he doesn't like that but a right, no... but as a wife I'd try to respect his opinion to help him feel more comfortable. After all he would probably be snippy and mean if I didn't.
To answer your question, no as that is controlling and abusive but a spouse that doesn't try to respect their partner probably doesn't care about them or is not in love with them and there is bigger issues at hand than what she is wearing.
A spouse has the right to tell their spouse that they are not comfortable with them wearing something and don't want them to. That said, if you can't agree on dress code with someone then you shouldn't marry them.
Tell her his opinion? Yes, a husband and wife should have a relationship where opinions can be shared. And, sure, in that vein a husband may share what he thinks is and isn't inappropriate.
But, no, I don't believe a husband or wife should tell each other what the can and cannot wear.
I don't know with some women (by the way that woman has a nice body. rich pips can easily achieve nice body with surgeries although there's a limitation.) anyway i notice these with hollywood celevs a lot of women seem to think they're the only ones who have vagina, or boobs or butt. they flaunt it like they're the only women who ho have it.
with regards to your question i believe thr husband has the right to tell his wife about her attire
That's the kind of woman he married lmfao.
If you can't handle a bad bitch, don't marry one!
I don't think her dress choices got slutty overnight. Should have seen it coming. She's wearing that now she's married, imagine what she's capable of wearing when she was single.
Exactly.
Actually is good for a husband to tell his wife what to put in before going out of the house.
Also some men doesn't care about what their wives put on.
Yes.
It is waaaay too much that she is showing off. I would not leave the house with my women dressed like that.
Would a woman want her man to leave the house dressed in gay booty shorts?
Only if they had a chat BEFORE they decided to marey, and they clearly amd mutually agreed that the husband has a conservative mind and would not like her to go wild with dressing up. Also, it is foolish for a guy to expect that a woman who was all wild and party before marriage will somehow make a 180 degree and start covering up.
This is highly disrespectful. I bet she wouldn't wear that if she was going there with her mother, or her kids. Shame shame Ciara
really? are you so conservative?
@Light_beam If not being a nudist is conservative than yeah. Its a low class and tasteless outfit, especially for a married woman with kids. She's not some ignorant teenie bopper that doesn't know any better.
but you seem to be angry.. i thought it is hitting your red lines.. how is your dress code any way?
Russell shows an interesting dynamic at play.. In relationships of black women and black men, it's often seen that the woman leads. Thus many black males have started seeking interracial relationships instead. Interesting though how many white women seem to portray view black men as the opposite in general. I wonder if those that actually date black men as opposed to hookup, have an opinion.
A women should dress appropriately when going out in public. I wouldn't want my girlfriend wearing short dresses and her breast popping out for guys to see. Ciara honestly looks like she leaves little to the imagine.
He can tell her, but she doesn't have to listen.
A couple has to communicate what they like and don't like about the other. It should never come to making demands. If it gets that far then some larger is at play.
Absolutely he has the right. She may reject that but that just leads to a broken marriage. If it’s outrageous, you’re damn right I’m saying something.
He doesn't have the right to tell her what to wear, and she doesn't have the right to tell him ha can't call her a cheap street corner hooker, which is exactly what she is. If my wife insisted on dressing like that in public, she would not be my wife anymore.
It's hilarious about how women complain about men objectifying women when they are just doing it to themselves.
Yes, because they are a unit. What one wears/does/etc is an extension of the other. I wouldn't want them to make us look unrespectable
Both people in a relationship should not do stuff to change their appearance without their partner's approval, whether that is clothing, tattoos, hairstyle, etc.
A husband has the right to tell his wife what he thinks about what she's wearing and whether it's appropriate or not, but ultimately, it's her decision to wear what she wants.
She earns money in show business and music. Provocation is her marketing strategy. I guess has good life with her money.
m No, but he does have the right no not go anywhere with her if she looks like a fucking idiot when in public.
He should have a such right. His wife should have a right to wear modest clothing despite the husband’s wishes.
Nope and it goes both ways. You can't tell her what she wears and she can't tell you what you wear.
It's one thing to voice an opinion that you don't like what they're wearing but nothing more, you don't get to control their choice.
No, it's not his business
Even in marriage you should be your own person with your own rights and decisions and your partner should know you and your heart better to not judge you by a stupid peace of clothing.
*piece
You should be single.
Nope women should be able to wear whatever they want to without their husband controlling it
Imagine a father telling his daughter to wear decent clothing, same thing is with their man. Simple
He does have that right. She also has the right to tell him, "Too bad." Then he has the right to divorce, and she has the right to half of everything after the attorneys suck up a huge % via the laws that they helped author.
Nah, he can go fk himself. If I wanna flex in public, i'm gonna flex ;D
Yes, they are married, 2 become 1, they are to honor each other.
Of course he can state his opinion it’s up to her to listen or not even other females would agree don’t dress like a slut
I'd ask his advice but he's my husband not my dad I expect equal respect and responsibility so if I wear that sure he he can wear a thong on the beach 🤣 that said you know she got paid to wear that dress right?
well, I think he has the right to suggest not to wear it. But since she's a grown woman it up to her if she wants to take his advice or not.
Lol and they both claim to " pure christians" ...🥱
And also women want to be able to do whatever they want with no consequences while blaming everything on "societal standards" and the "patriarchy"
He can tell what he want but his wife is not forced to listen to him tough
He doesn't have a right to prevent her from wearing what she wants, but he is allowed to express his opinion.
No, because that will leave less girls for me to hit on
Not always , can do sometimes. If a girl wears very revealing cloths all the time in public , you can't change that. Changing others never work and they get defensive , better leave if you can't tolerate.
Yes a man has the right to object to what his partner wears the same way she can object to the way he dresses
No. If she cannot figure this out herself, you married the wrong person and you have bigger problems.
Ok yes and no yes because how she dresses is a representation of him unless it’s a formal event or an agreed upon event because men look and I will say that as a man so yeah
Yeah he did say the nazi necklace was a bit too much.
He can have an opinion but he can’t have the final say.
Nobody should have the right to control anyone
You hear this republicucks
Well that's practical not even a whole dress lol
Yes, I have to see which dress is appropriate for her
Yes, of course.
shameless couple
Yes and no… I mean within reason.
yes that goes both ways you know
Disgusting af
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