If people anonymously gave opinions on your appearance in real life, do you think you would get all kinds of answers, or mostly similar?

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GuyAnswersGirls123 · Accepted Answer

I suspect the wildest variety. I had game when I was single but it was really hit-or-miss. My looks and mannerisms are a bit odd.

For example, when I went to nightclubs in my 20s, typically a few women would single me out from my friends and approach me during the night and get super flirty. Yet many other women seemed repulsed by me to the point of being unreceptive even when I tried to say hi to them and asked them how it was going.

I even had one time when such a girl wanted to continue to hang out with me after the club closed even though she came with a group of girlfriends, and one of her girlfriends remarked to me in a way I overheard, "Eww, what do you see in that guy?"

So I seem to be totally hit-or-miss that way where if a bunch of women are in a room with me, one or two might be magnetically attracted while the others might be like, "Eww." I suspect I'd get a poor average rating as a result.

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Like versus what they’d say TO me? I don’t know. I don’t really ask for opinions on my appearance too much, haha. I get a lot of unsolicited compliments for my clothes, etc. You can definitely find worse looking guys but I don’t think anyone’s going to go too crazy about my physical features either way. Also, if it’s done by pic, I’m fucked, I don’t photograph well, haha, that might cause a discrepancy.

Overall…. I’d assume it’d be roughly the same as what I assume I’d get directly, but probably skewed a little more negatively since they don’t have to face me and my reaction. People tend to pump your tires more if their name is attached to it, haha. But I don’t think anyone would be like “thank god he’s not here and I can freely talk about what an ogre he is” lmao

TenderFantasy · Accepted Answer

All kinds of answers. Unfortunately, people have a tendency to think different depending on stereotypes they've made in their head about your race and age (I don't even look my age lol. Maybe also health too..). Also, it may depend on the age demographic. If they're in their dating phase, maybe they'll evaluate me on my sex appeal/dating potential. If they're older, maybe they'll evaluate me on my kindness/politeness, or demeanor, more than looks, or how "nice" they think I am based on some skewed viewpoint they have in their mind about people my race!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have a big butt and boobs, but I'm not athletic, and my stomach is only flat in the morning before I eat (digestive issues cause near constant bloating). I have large eyes and a decently cute face I think, but I have a slightly weak jaw. I could see some people thinking my face is pretty, others average, and others would even call me a butter face. Some people will find the shape of my body appealing, even ideal. Others will be turned off that I don't look like a model. So I do think I'd get extremely varying responses.

HawkPerception · Answer

Definitely all kinds of opinions if people genuinely spoke their minds.

"You're not my type"
"You look too skinny"
"You look half black"
"You look Egyptian"
"You look Middle Eastern"
"You look Caribbean"
"You look Spanish"
"You look mixed"
"Nice eyes"
"Are you a model?"
"Are you mixed with European?"
"You look fit and athletic"
"You have an interesting skin tone"
"You have really nice eyes"
"You look like a fuckboy"
"You have kind eyes"
"You have big lips"
"You must have some black in you because of your lips"

I've gotten all of that to my face, so I'm sure it would be even more wild if I got anonymous comments

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

All kinds of answers. If 10 people know you are below average, at least 9 of them will lie. You will not get honest feedback in that exchange because of concepts like Law of Mirroring, and virtue signaling. The best play they can do socially is to appeal to them by expressing opinions that will be acceptable to you. They generally gain nothing from telling you the truth. Moreover, if they said you were fugly, then you gotta guess if it was a result of transitory anger, or even their attempt to make light of your insecurities (sarcasm).

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s all fake results. Some people are jealous and they vote no on purpose if you’re nice if you smile or if you have a conversation with somebody they’ll feel honored and vote. Yes it’s not all about How do I look it’s about what character you have are you polite and nice or an A hole so I don’t trust polls like that

rigmarole · Answer

Different women have different tastes in men so I'm sure there would be a lot of different responses. They also would focus on different attributes they find most important in determining if they think I was attractive or not.

Anonymous · Answer

The answers don't vary much. Guys always compliment me on my flashy matching sports outfits, and women, it goes 2 ways. 1. White American women say they don't like the look in my eyes. I only have that look around them though, because I don't trust them. No other kind of women, race or nationality, say that... because I don't have the same look around them.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh man--I kinda wish there was a way to provide people with anonymous feedback on their appearance. I remember once seeing this VERY attractive girl in a coffee shop, and I really wanted to tell her she had the TOTALLY wrong bra size on for her impressive chest. It was clear that as her boobs got bigger she kept increasing her band size instead of her cup size and you could tell the bra was totally wrong for her.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I think most would say similar things. A few different responses as well.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Different answers for sure. I know that  some  find me attractive, and some don't. To others, I might be average. So I would assume it's very different answers.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I would assume it would be pretty similar. Though I am sure there would still be those ones where someone would say I'm 0 out of 10, had that before but it is always from girls lol.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think I look best in real life and in photos. I don't look that good in videos, cause the video only shows my face and neck and does not show my clothes and pants.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I would give the same kinds of responses I give on here in real life. How do I know this? Because I give the same kinds or responses I give on here in real life.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Pretty similar. It'd be the same: "You look cute/adorable!" opinions.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Anonymously, I think women would have much bigger issues with my height and dick size than they might say publicly.

Anonymous · Answer

Similar, I could pretty much tell you what they would say.

Anonymous · Answer

From guys, compliments but maybe with some girls, catty replies. hahaha

LiamJHayden · Answer

No diea and I wouldn't care anyway. I am happy with who I am.

Minahh · Answer

All kinds of answers for sure. Nobody's perfect for everyone.

Anonymous · Answer

Pretty much similar answer I would suspect... especially when you heard it over and over for many years

FreyaRed · Answer

Mostly two opinions one of them too thin

Anonymous · Answer

It would vary greatly.

Roudyrebel8 · Answer

People tend to be more honest when it's anonymous

NathanDavis · Answer

same...

strateguy632 · Answer

2nd,,

litty736 · Answer

Not sure

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