Sexual attraction comes first. Sorry to say but if you don't appeal to a woman on a physical level she's not going to give you the time to charm her with your personality.
I say looks to get my attention, and the personality to keep it.
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For me, if I have a huge crush on someone, he will look unbelievably attractive to me. Physical attractiveness and muscle don't mean anything to me unless I am enamored by your intelligence, ambition, and personality.
i would prefer a guy with good personality and character over a guy who only looks hot anytime! if he has a good personality and good looks, then good looks are a bonus!
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looks are what catch my eye but if your personality sucks I don't want anything to do with you...i'll take a person that I'm not phsyically attracted to with a great personality over a good looking person anyday
You have to be physically attracted to the person initially, that's the first thing you obviously see..however I think too many people place too much emphasis on looks first..hence why so many people have a hard time finding and or meeting anyone.
To know the guy you had to approach him and to approach him he had to be in a way good looking so they go together on a certain level. But personnality is 70% while looks is 30%
Girls prefer personality 100%, the thing is that there are not a lot of guys with "attractive" personalities so they sometimes are forced to focus on looks.
definitely personality. personally I can't find a guy physically attractive if he isn't a nice person.
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to be honest, looks. but I'm going to change that, because up until now I've dated gorgeous guys who end up breaking my heart, so I'm definitely in the wrong boat. I change to personality :)
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Personality is key!
Skinny is cute...to me ad least...
If a guy is too muscular it just kinda makes me wanna gag!
Totally agree with that! I'd prefer a skinny cute guy over a buff "hot" one.
Sexual attraction comes first. Sorry to say but if you don't appeal to a woman on a physical level she's not going to give you the time to charm her with your personality.
I say looks to get my attention, and the personality to keep it.
For me, if I have a huge crush on someone, he will look unbelievably attractive to me. Physical attractiveness and muscle don't mean anything to me unless I am enamored by your intelligence, ambition, and personality.
i would prefer a guy with good personality and character over a guy who only looks hot anytime! if he has a good personality and good looks, then good looks are a bonus!
looks are what catch my eye but if your personality sucks I don't want anything to do with you...i'll take a person that I'm not phsyically attracted to with a great personality over a good looking person anyday
Thats easy enough to say...
You have to be physically attracted to the person initially, that's the first thing you obviously see..however I think too many people place too much emphasis on looks first..hence why so many people have a hard time finding and or meeting anyone.
PERSONALITY. LOOKS MAY DRAW A SECOND LOOK, BUT ANYTHING MORE THAN A ONE NIGHTER YOU BETTER BE ABLE TO HOLD A CONVERSATION AND HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR:)
Um, why do you lie?
Personality. Looks don't matter, any penis will do the job
Haha real talk
i prefer personality. if a guy has a really good personality, it makes them look better or seem more attractive in my opinion.
I don't think they can be seperated.
Looks and personality go hand in hand to make someone unique and beautiful.
BOTH
mascular guys do make me feel safe but if he has no personality it's just not attreactiv it's sexualy attreactive but not emotionaly
but I would never go out with someone that I am not attracted to sexualy and emotionaly BOTH
Looks. It is what it is.
I don't know bruv...from these answers it looks like personality...and from my experience
Would you date a total biotch who treated you like crap just because she's gorgeous? NO
Who said anything about dating. ;)
Lol wellllll I'm kinda sure that's what he was going for in his question....not positive but pretty sure
I actually meant everything, from dating to f*cking
Rating looks first is usually immaturity and has not lived reality. when you have to spend years together a sense of humor is my number one trait.
To know the guy you had to approach him and to approach him he had to be in a way good looking so they go together on a certain level. But personnality is 70% while looks is 30%
Personality=important 1 place
Look=important,2 place
in my list.. :)
Girls prefer personality 100%, the thing is that there are not a lot of guys with "attractive" personalities so they sometimes are forced to focus on looks.
I love a good personality more than good looks I fell in love with my first boyfriend because of his personality not his looks.
definitely personality. personally I can't find a guy physically attractive if he isn't a nice person.
to be honest, looks. but I'm going to change that, because up until now I've dated gorgeous guys who end up breaking my heart, so I'm definitely in the wrong boat. I change to personality :)