Jaded Men Who Hate Women (Page 5)

[Irrelevance]

Pretty good overall. Definitely a bit of man-hate in there but since you said you're getting sick of the pity party, you disclaimed yourself. Explains how the term "nice guy" has been cheapened since everybody and their dog claims to be one which is really really important.

To use your term, "Generation X" has developed because guys are taking the dating game far too personally.

[Epiphanies]

And as I said in the article, we're not "annoyed" when you show us attention. But just because we look good doesn't mean we'll embrace any guy who encounter us with open arms. Should you hire everyone who applies for your job posting because you've written the posting well? Not exactly.

I specifically said I'm not condoning ditching men. I don't agree with the minority of women who use men and ditch them. But being rejected when you approach a girl isn't equivalent to being ditched by her.

[Killfest400]

If you want guys to give you attention, then don't be annoyed when they show interest in you. If you intend to get what you want from men, only to ditch them once you get it, then you aren't any better than the women who used him before. Actions like that are specifically what men describe as the "feminazi"- the feminists who expect equal treatment for both genders, but get p*ssed when they have to give something up to achieve that equality.

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

" I don't know what it is but it is definitely a characteristic of Generation-X. The Me-Generation. We will find fault with anyone but ourselves. We will be willing to blame anyone but ourselves. Even if this means deceiving ourselves." It has always been this way. It's just more noticeable much like the myth that women don't cheat and that professionals don't do drugs.

[Bluemax]

Both of these friends struggle with bitterness and anger and sometimes they fail. Sometimes they control it. But I understand it's a day to day struggle for them both. As for my female friend who struggles with her anger, I'm willing to overlook her jadedness towards my gender because when she lets fly with a few choice words, I try to understand it's the pain talking. I applaud them both for their struggle.

[Bluemax]

A friend of mine, a guy, has FAS and a rather odd shaped head and face. Alas, the only women he can attract are women with whom he couldn't get an erection unless he was thinking of someone else. Another friend of mine, a woman, is also similarly physically unattractive, though to the best of my knowledge she doesn't suffer from a birth defect. Unfortunate genetics. She's only attractive to men who can do no better and she cannot be attracted to them. Your last sentence is useless advice to them

[Bluemax]

Your final summation I agree with, though your exasperation and anger is coming through and it might make more people recoil and not listen to you. I believe that's just human nature to withdraw from condescension and anger, even if your irritation is justified.

[Bluemax]

5. Largely agree, but you might be downplaying just how important physical attraction is and how out of our (men and women's) control it is. It seems to be more so for men and there are studies that demonstrate this. They might be wrong, of course, but I don't think they are (and I might be wrong, too). By the way, there are plenty of 1's who will sleep with the pool boy and plenty of 10's who won't.

[Bluemax]

4. Agree. In addition to saying, "I am not that girl," you could perhaps write an article addressing how when some women, and they are a small minority, play games with men, then it messes things up for themselves and hurts male/female relationships. I could do the same for men.

[Bluemax]

2. Agree that most people (not all), men and women, think they're good women. Some are right and some are wrong. Agree that it's good advice to stop obsessing over why someone you're into is into someone you think is a jerk. Not sure what you mean by "You're all undeserving." All men are undeserving? Thank God my mother disagrees with you, at least as far as my father was concerned.

[Bluemax]

Excellent article. 4 stars. It would have been five, but the condescending tone takes it down a notch. The hostility you're getting in the comments shouldn't surprise you, but some of it is in response to how you said what you said, not what you said. If as you say you're sick and tired of the pity party and really and truly want to offer advice, you'll find that a condescending tone (your words and I agree with you) will often make people recoil, no matter how wise your words are.

[Anonymous]

Well this is the biggest bunch of misandry I've ever heard. I've tirned down women i liked because they were too drunk, being a gentleman. Screwed my chances. Got cheated on forgave and then screwed in a divorce so royal she made me homeless. Yeah. Stuck my neck out for a girl who i loved said she was my soulmate mealwhile dating other dudes. Is every woman like that no. But sorry proof is in the pudding now. Even got hsv from one who hooked me with an incurable desease. Your species can get all that it deserves untill one shows me through friendship she deserves who i really am.

[FTWorld]

Not their responsibility so fuck em. Fuck anyone who don't help with your rent or puts something in the fridge. Your anger is valid and fucking ventilate it. You're on your own, bitch! Stay on your toes because this is a jungle. Take a few hits but don't die or else you're really a loser.

[Absolute_Revenge]

Fuck American women... noting but whores, sluts, and gold digging cunts.

I got nothing but pain and heartbreak from you.

You don't fucking deserve me.

Ill date any nationality other than American women.

Fuck you. Fuck you all in the ass with an MD-11

[Hades]

I intend to, which is why I'm going to get out of the west and move to a different country. All I can hope for is that, in around 20-30 years, enough women that benefit from the sexist situation we have now will suffer and be lonely like so many men are now since their looks will have faded. That will make it even. Balance and fairness will be restored.

[Jon364]

There is problems with society as a whole. Superficial is one. I don't have much time right now.. I can't reply properly. Quoting Jude Law and Megan Fox is one example. Learning mistakes from celebs is a bad idea, their motivations are different from normal people. Drama and publicity stirs up and prolongs their careers. This is just one example. Both sexes are to blame. I think one of the big problems is a failure for both sides of the fence to be able to relate to each other.

[Yeahhbro]

If you got screwed by a guy (which it seem that you did or one of your friends) and then he didn't call back or changed completely its because you should really check your judgmental skills. Also I highly doubt the guy that probably screwed you or your friends was Jaded.

[Yeahhbro]

That "frustrated" men want to screw good girls like you just to get some vengeance its another Missandrist misconception.

I must admit I am somewhat Jaded and frustrated, because if I wasn't I wouldn't be here in GaskG but I will never go and screw girls for vengeance WTF?. If I screw girls is because I want to have fun and they want to have fun too, it is a two way street. Because if it wasn't it would be rape or something like that...

[Yeahhbro]

5) Its just like #1 we don't look for exclusively for looks that is the biggest lie ever. Plus men actually never look for the wrong girls, we men like to take charge and hate drama, we actually like emotionally stable women, we don't like games and all of that BS. All of this dramatic women we avoid them generally. Men that are up there that buy girls sh*t are like a 3% of the male population. I don't know where you get that from. What a huge generalization and the fact that you say...

[Yeahhbro]

...3) You say girls don't reject for their own amusement then you say girls love "Moderate" (how much is exactly Moderate?) attention from guy's?. All men understand rejection we all know that; what we men complain about its how girls reject men these days and since they have the upper hand a lot of women abuse of this power. Generally because they find it "fun" and love the "attention" just like you say. I see it in clubs a lot of times, or girls who abuse guys who like to drag them around...

[Rahim517]

I'm not even sure what to make of this "article." You seem to be upset with everyone: "nice" guys, jerks, players, "the wrong girls," etc. First of all, why do you think most people even come to this site? The answer is, they're trying to make some sense of what they experience in dating. It's fatuous to blame people for seeking answers on a Q&A website.

BTW, women are just as jaded and jacked up as men. You'd do well to take your own advice.