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Like they are disagreeing with a comment of yours. They are actually judging you, entirely, as a complete person, and rejecting who you are. It sucks. It really sucks when it happens over and over. The only way I can continue to hold my head up is to put those girls down in my mind. If I couldn't do that, I'd live my life in a sad drunken stupor, which may or may not be better than how I live now. I don't hate all girls. Just some. I hope you see what I mean.
I understand where you're coming from, and see what you mean, but consider this: I have had girlfriends before, in highschool. But now, in college, I could never get the same kind of girl that I used to date. I don't know why. (Actually I think it's because of where I go to school now, but that's not the point). I go for girls who I would have been able to date back home. And I have been rejected time after time. And it is personal. It is completely personal. Each rejection weighs on me. It isnt
I am not bashing on women, I am bashing on this article. Seriously this article really justifies a lot of that annoying behavior, even if in #5 you say that we are looking for the "wrong women". What you define is the aggressive behavior that some really bitchy women have, which is good I agree with that, but you do justify the moderately passive behavior that most women have with other men, which is not as "cruel" as the behavior in #5 but I have seen it can often be as bad or worse.
How can you not expect for men to react to this article like that, when you write presumably assuming that you know how men work? You bash on men on this article like you had the moral authority to do so. I don't care what people say about being "open minded", but when you write an article you expect criticism, especially when you see an criticized the other side from your own point of view without acknowledging the other side of the coin.
Seriously from what I can see and read from your article proves my theory so well. No girl knows how to play the game properly. You know what's worse all your games are not going to protect you from assholes that knows them, they always win no matter what and everybody else will pay, even though the way to find a good guys its so much easier than what you think. But off course they are too "desperate" or "too nice". Seriously get over yourself.
...and even worse if the dude didn't have anything to do with your problems. Seriously I have seen it so many times and heard it from so many girls "oh she plays games because she has been hurt before" oh "she wants to see if you just don't want to get along into her pants". Pfhh get over it not every guy that wants to talk to you wants to get laid or likes you because the way you look. The worst thing is that you justify all of those stupid games. There are better ways to get a guys attention..
"...(notice the use of the word moderate), it's biology. You may want to be acknowledged for how beautiful your garden looks but that doesn't mean you want to plant flowers for your entire neighborhood. If you think it's unfair, stop looking."I agree in part with #3, yes you can't like to everybody its impossible. BUT the way women handle it these days its disgusting. You can't play with people's feelings even if you don't like them, that is the most humiliating thing in the world...
The only point that I agree with you is #5 the other points are nonsense to me.Talk about jaded, you are completely a Jaded Woman that you almost turn into a feminazi (I think somebody already mentioned that. Quote"...what exactly is wrong with you? Who knows and who cares. If she doesn't want you, why would you want her anyway? For sex? Save it. If that's all you want her for, you don't deserve her." andAnd please don't blame women for wanting some moderate attention..."...
Yea, you're right that this generation places blame on everyone but themselves, and you contradict yourself claiming girls bare no blame. If they're looking good and alone or without a guy that's just calling for a guy to go for them. IF they're friends with a guy and play flirt with him then turn him down when he asks her out, who's fault is that?
Yea you're right, guys do bare some of the blame for the complaints, but girls bare just as much.
I wouldn't care if I never had female companionship again, feminism is right and patriarchy is wrong and disgusting. The only thing I can think feminism has done to make it harder to get with a woman is it's made it possible for women to live independent lives like human beings should. Before women were out to "catch a man" or basically to prostitute them selves to one so they could have him go and do for them all the stuff that society wouldn't let women do. Who want's a whore?
I've seen some odd ball guys out there on the net like what you describe. Search forced loneliness on youtube , a bunch of what your talking about there. There's even one one here who is mega bitter https://www.girlsaskguys.com/Articles/Behavior/Mens-Liberation.html. I've never quite been able to figure out what is up with these guys but . There is one common thread they don't have girl friends and they seem to have a problem with feminism. It's weird I'm way into feminism and equality.
These type of men and women go from guy to guy to guy to woman to woman. These relationships are only extremely short term usually 1 nighters. Or if they are longer term she's usually just as screwed up as that douchebag. She most likely didn't have a father figure. I could do the one nighters but I hate that one night shi**y feeling and feels like a bad hangover. I will gladly wait for an actual lady not a girl but a lady that wants the actual long term relationship.
without the a**hole parts. The men that actually cares about you actually on the contrary to many womens beliefs are more confident then the douche bags. Why do you think douchebags are douchbags? You think cause they have confidence? Complete BS the douchebags are the least confident cause they are not at all comfortable with themselves, they have no confidence, and in actuality they are wussies. Douchebags are so not confident with themselves they are the complete unsure type of men!
My problem is with who these girls are choosing. They reject respectable guys and go out with wife-beaters and deadbeats. They won't give a loyal guy the time of the day because he's to boring, but the mega-douche with the tatoos and the motorcycle who doesn't have a job can get 10X the girls that the other guy gets.
Its just upside-down. Women are to blame. Why? Because women control who gets laid. Women control who gets in a relationship. If they don't, its rape.
Your article was full of opinions, arrogance, shallow, egoistic, lack of depth analysis. I bet you must think you are this 5 star chic, but don't worry all girls think there they most beautiful thing in the world. I've never heard a girl say they are ugly
last but not least, DON'T BRING THAT DEVIL CALLED HITLER INTO THIS
You speak of rejection, no one takes rejection lightly. you don't expect to a guy to smile when his rejected do u? no matter how strong we are, it human desire to be acknowledged. it has nothing to do with dating, but will have to deal with it and move on.
u say people like to blame other people but themselves, WOW you can't take you own advice. I suggest you climb down from your high horse young lady and look at things from below. because it seems you high up to see the reality.
I find it also funny how a lot of women generalize the so called "nice men" as wussies, pushovers, doormats and "to nice". Such BS generalization! The so called "nice men" can just as easily have some dbag sides to them usually without the a**hole part and usually the "nice guys" have more confidence that the douchebags!
It's not at all that were "jaded" that we men are purely repulsed with all these women that even though they are in their late 20's early 30's they are still acting like they are 18, throwing their girl temper tantrums and women constantly bitc*ing about how oh it's great to be ultra picky and no way will I ever settle blah blah blah. Then on top of all that so many women want this glamorous 1st BS date. Men are like why waste time asking you out if all your going to do is always say no.
I find it interesting that you accuses men of being angry an playing a blame game and says to look within. Women don't have to look within though right.Since the male sex drive keeps them searching They get to just keep overlooking good people and illogically getting attracted to idiot alpha males with one dimensional personalities and fall pray to manipulation. Talk that talk ladies, but until your actual behavior and dating practices change. Your gonna keep seeing more and more jaded men.
a lot of these issues from my experience have been American problem. After living abroad dating outside of the US for a few years. I definitely feel that the dating field here is generally more of a frustrating experience. Whether your getting rejected or not. Foreign women don't act so entitled and are much easier to get along with during the courting phase. And during the relationship. They respond better to sincerity and return honesty with honesty by enlarge(imo)