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First off I wonder why men don't share with you women. With all the crappy cosmos sh*t you read with crappy advice on how a man feels about you?
All the points above just put you on 18. I will teach you something today called Newton's Third Law. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Just think about that for a moment and see if you can understand why men are so confusing.
Aaww, that's cute. Did you have one bad experience with a high school freshman? Seriously, most of the generalized points you made couldn't be any more incorrect (which brings an ironic note to #18)
All I could think honestly reading your post was "are you sure you are talking about guys?"
aww hun cmon what are you, 12? every guy is different. EVERY point there is a gross generalisation repeated time and time again and I highly doubt these opinions of yours even come out of your mouth. go and meet people and form your own opinions before you accept the stereotypes being shoved down your throat and regurgitate them as your own.
Okay, I seriously was going to make an argument against every point, but it gets down to this mostly: 1) Not all guys act like the way you make them out to be, you even said that yourself at some points that only some men do it. 2) Girls are often just as guilty of a point as men are, looking at point 10 for example.
Secondly, to prevent hating I recommend you come up with valid arguments rather than going on a hissyfit about how guys p*ss you off. I'm off to watch p*rn now, have a good day.
Way to completely stereotype...
Or maybe I'm the only guy who isn't a complete ass. But if that's the case, why aren't women all flocking to me for being better than every other guy? lol
I think you've had some bad experiences with certain guys and are letting it bias your judgement on everyone else.
I have to laugh a little when I sit here and read this. While I agree with you on a lot of these points, you've said so many that the majority of them could easily relate back to women as well. If you're looking for a serious, mature guy to have a serious, mature relationship, then my best advice is to look for the that best fits your criteria. You will never be able to change some of these things, but you can look for the closest match to what you want. Trust me, we're out here. Good luck!
i hate posts like tthis because then all the genders start fighting. you know, a lot of that is stereotypical. not ALL guys are like that. I mean there are very FEW that are decent but still. both genders have there downfalls, but its not like they do that on purpose. well some. but hey, when was the last time we act unfair to a dude?
I can't believe that so many girls are agreeing with this. These are just blanket statements, most of which could apply to either gender.
It's obvious that you are bitter about some guy who didn't like you back. He doesn't share his feelings with you because he doesn't like you.
Would you share your feelings with a person you don't like?
If watching Twilight and other romance dramas is the extent of the research that you have done on guys then you're going to have a lot of disappointments.
None of these describe me... accept number 1... because since I came back from Iraq I hardly share my emotions with my self I call it "locked out", but this doesn't mean I don't try... it is usually misunderstood or not gotten at all. I lmao at #7 saying hi is the best "ice-breaker" I have found. I believe everyone out there is complicated in their own way... its just how bad is it...
Ok. I'm not like this at ALL. Except for number 20. My answer to number 20 is because I'm afraid of meeting a woman who thinks like you. I've also been rejected ten times in eight years, enough to have whatever confidence I had (which wasn't much to start with) obliterated entirely.
I get what you're saying, but not all guys are like that. I would share my feelings and care about yours. I might tease you, but in a friendly way, not to look cool. I would commit to a relationship. I know you can solve your own problems, you're not stupid. I'm saying I'm not really like anything on the list, and a lot of other guys aren't. The only thing is I don't like to give personal info. I don't like talking bout my life.
Not all guys are like this.. My guy is opposite to almost half of these things lol he gets a lot of attention though from girls who do many of the things mentioned above..I think a lot ofgirls are so much worse thn a lot of guys. There have been multiple girls obviously flirting with mah man when They knew he was taken ._. He told me one of them actually asked him to go into the woods for some play time when he was vacationing..god
this rant just once again proves that girls are completely clueless when it comes to the dating world. Guys are NOT confussing in the least little bit. The problem is girls are just to blinded by they own emotions and trying to figure out if there is some sign to realize that. Or they are so blinded by lust and their own desires to see they are getting played. And them blame the guy for being a scumbag. Maybe if put alittle logic in your thinking instead of just emotions, you might win one time.
I need you to read a few chapters of Men are from mars and Women are from venus book, and listen to me a little,
EVERY guy is different. It's confusing because you assume all guys are alike because of their gender. I don't think you had a point. You are just venting because you are a girl, and thatg is your escape. When guys get stressed, we go into our 'cave'. Girls chat.
I see a LOT of 'nice' girls online saying there are no 'good guys' and 'nice' guys saying that girls don't like them.
11) Maybe some got tired of waiting for some girls to make up their minds. I've only gotten a few "maybes" - frankly, I'm not holding my breath for a girl to decide to date me.
12) and some girls are the same. Your point?
14), 16), 17) Sounds like a lot of girls, except the "into you" is usually for manipulation.
19) This I agree with. This is also not good for a girl to do with guys.
20) Girls/women don't seem to make any kind of effort to know me. Why would I chase after that?
Shame, everyone seems to really not like this article but I think the girl is just saying that from her experience guys have not taken the time to get to know her and she'r right to a degree, guys do fear commitment, unless its with the girl of their dreams. Maybe the guy she really liked seemed to be interested in her but then did a 180 and started dating someone else.
This is the worst assessment of people I have ever seen on the internet. Makes me sick. Men and women both hate this article. Ma'am you need to stopping reading those Twilight novels, and put the drugs down. If the Girlsaskguys.com community had more than 500 words to respond to you, you would be ripped apart.
6) Sports are OK, just not my thing. You forgot video games. I've been trying for "serious commitment." I've been cheated ON - I've never cheated. Sounds like many girls aren't as committed as me.
9) If all the girl does is talk about their wonderful relationship, then I try to change the subject; and it's always brought back. I don't always want to hear about every detail and see pictures of every kiss/make out session.
if you love the boy or a girl..please told him or her what you think...share you feeling with your lover...your lover will feel happy for it...and your lover will more love you..i think..Don't hide each others' feelings.. hide each others' feeling will hurt the relationship...
2) I only "go after" women when I have no idea that you're in one. Ladies, don't flirt with other guys, mention a boyfriend once in a while, and I won't try to date ya.
3) I could say the same for most girls.
5) Being a visual creature would mean we'd generally go for just the looks - not a "sugar mama (wealthy older woman)" - I see all kinds of comments about wanting broad shoulders, muscular, tall guys from women. Seems like girls/women are pretty "visual" themselves.