How do I know if my boyfriend really thinks other girls are attractive or not? (Page 2)

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So I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now on and off... Mostly "on" lol.. I've always had a pet peeve for my boyfriends checking out other girls wether they are standing next to me or not (I guess what girl doesnt). We have been through a lot together, good and bad.. But i guess my wonder/problem is that he swears he doesn't check out other girls when i ask him if he does. I even say to him "com'on babe, your a guy. Every guy does." He replys by saying how of course he thought other people were attractive before he was with me but now that he has me he isn't worried about anything else. And he also says that not EVER guy is the same. Which i completely agree with, im sure there is a few guys in the world that actually dont check girls out wheb they have a girlfriend.. But i find it hard to believe i found that "2 in a million" ya know? So is it really possible that im just a really lucky girl that I found one of thoes 2 in a million? Sometimes i tell him id feel much better if hed just admit it to me that he does but he replys by saying that he's not going to lie and admit something thats not true and that im the only one for him and how perfect i am to him. I know this guy like I know the back of my hand and he's my everything and i know im his.. I actually almost want to believe him when he says that he doesn't look at other girls but then in the back of my mind i say "nah not possible he's a guy."... And regardless if he does or not... How can i let it not bother me so much? Like i mean it REALLY upsets me. And i know the most obv answer is i have something that the others dont have because he chose me, but yet is still bothers me. And like most women won't do I admit that I probably am a little overbearing about it sometimes but he usual keeps his cool and never gets frustrated with me about it.. he's really the best thing that ever happened to me and it just really shoves a knife through my heart to think he does this.

P. S. Thanks for reading this lengthy post!

SensualScribe · Answer

Every man looks. I don't see why girls get their panties in a bunch over this unless he is making moves on them. It is human nature! I look at other men and other women! He doesn't need to stare or ogle, but a quick glance... everybody does it!

serp777 · Answer

You're an idiot if you think he's not attracted to other girls. You're also delusional if you dont think you're attracted to other men. Just because you're attracted to someone else doesn't mean you're going to cheat though.

Anonymous · Answer

I thought i wrote it... because i feel completely same and he had always been telling me that i was best for him and he didn't care for other girls cause I was so pretty. But eh recently i showed him pics of my colleagues and there were these two girls and he said we were same pretty and obviously checked them out if its possible to check out pics. I'd better he checked out random chicks.

Zendrya · Answer

No that's a stupid thing to believe. Obviously there are going to be other attractive people in the world and it only makes sense for him to look at other people just like you do.

leanroux · Answer

Fact of life. All guys will always be looking doesn't matter if he is dating you for one month or 10 years. My dad always says men check out what's on the menu, but they don't order anything...

Dansexual · Answer

Of course he finds other girls attractive and wants to fuck them. Being with you doesn't suddenly shut down his attraction for others lol.  Women are so naive.

tiger360124 · Answer

Faith is the highest role of a partner... if you cannot trust them to turn somebody down if asked on a date than they will not be good for you and will likely break your heart. I know this from experience a bit.

ajboarder · Answer

If you love him and he loves you, why does it matter? If your relationship is fulfilling, just be happy and forget about it. Honestly.

Keenisha · Answer

Of course he'll find some attractive but that doesn't mean that he'll act on it and cheat. Like I'm sure he has a celebrity crush

Waldoe · Answer

WHY? why are you LOOKING for trouble? Be happy that he is "into" you... stop trying to destroy the relationship with this suspicious behavior... He will get tired of it and LEAVE you... so, you will be right... eventually you will force him OUT

Anonymous · Answer

Not all guys check other girls out however they do still think other girls are pretty. They are likely not as pretty in their eyes as you are though. The emotional connection is so important.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Here's the quick answer; yes, your boyfriend most definitely finds other women attractive. No, that does not mean he's going to leave you.

blackeagle007 · Answer

He's human. We all are human. Everyone wired to find someone attractive. Dosent mean he'll cheat. In sure you find other guys attractive.  Everyone is visual.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Why is it difficult for you to believe that he doesn't check out other girls? I mean, what's his experience with women like? Has he had many g/f's?

ButterSauce · Answer

I don't care. He's not going home with them and i look too, but i don't get caught.

sp33d · Answer

Of course he looks at other girls, too. So do you look at other guys whether you admit or not. The both of you are human.

blondfrog · Answer

Yes believe him you can't have a relationship without trust.

Whizzy83 · Answer

Just ask him to be honest and kick him in the balls if he says yes i think she's pretty. haha

CreepyOldMan · Answer

If my girlfriend kept asking me that I start saying, Of course I am, baby.

tayoker · Answer

When he stop listening to you talking, that's a big sign

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