Love of my life moving away?!?

[sthrnsweeti]

the love of my life has decided to move away in January for a new job. We aren't together anymore because of this yet I can't get him out of my mind. I thought he was the man I was gonna spend my life with and now I'll probably never see him again. I've tried the no contact but we seem to always end up in each others presence. And when that happens, he always ends up making it a point to start talking to me. any tips on how to move on with my life?

[CDenatale]

I cringed inside when I read this. I've never been there myself but I could feel your broken heart from your words.

You say that he's the love of your life. Does he feel the same way? If you both feel the same way it's worth trying to work out your new dilemma. Who ended it, by the way? Was it a mutual decision?

Him talking to you is not right if he's dead set on ending it. You're so vulnerable to him because you love him so much. Have you tried to do the really awful (yet, sometimes, necessary) thing of breaking all communication with him?

How far away is he moving? Is it going to be for his profession? Is he moving to pursue some passion? That makes it a million times more complicated.

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. It's such a sh*tty situation. No matter what happens there will be peace of mind to come... I promise.

[michelle_a]

well the move should help out a lot can't run into each other then, also cutting off contact with anyone close to him helps as well make the urge to ask how he is doing less.

[ILoveElectroHouse]

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[Anonymous]

Long distance relationships are possible. My girlfriend moved to Ohio and I haven't seen her in over a year. But I love her so much. I'm planning on moving out there to be with her hopefully. So don't give up you love this guy. The relationship will only work if you try to make it work.

[berty1267890]

I know how you feel the love of my life is thinking of moving to South Carolina with his kids. I care and it is like he doesn't even care that we have something going. We were going to spend the rest of our life together.