Why is friends with benefits viewed so differently depending on who's doing it (guys or girls)? (Page 2)

Question

I like this girl. I showed interest and flirted with her. She was the one that showed interest first. Whenever I would flirt more intensely she would panic. I backed off a bit. 
I figured it out, that she might have a friends with benefits which is also her BFF. So I asked here on GaG if it's ok for her to somehow show interest in me, but to sleep with someone else on the side. Answers were mostly: you two are not together, she can do what she wants. Get exclusive and then you can be mad if she sleeps with others on the side. 

So I thought about it. Then it crossed my mind to ask another question, slightly diff this time: I said that I like this girl and flirt with her and show interest, but things are moving slow, so I have a friends with benefits relationship on the side. I asked the girls if they would still wanna date me if they found out I was sleeping with others while showing interest. 

Most said they wouldn't even bother and that I'm leading the girl on and that is not nice and that I should get my shit together. 

Why is this friends with benefits so two sided depending on who's doing it: guys or girls?

Anonymous · Answer

Women are beyond hypocritical on here.

Anonymous · Answer

That is miss up

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