He only likes perfect girls?

[Anonymous]

Im madly in love. Problem is im not his type. He Only likes perfect girls: girls who are stunning on the outside, who are always happy, who have lots of friends, who know what they want, who are succesful,... He himself is loved by everyone (all ages, men and women) so I guess he deffinately has a shot with them.

I am an introvert who is insecure and average looking but not afraid to talk to people. Im the kind of girl you need to get to know before you start to like me. But i dont think he would invest that time in me. He would talk to be but only because he talks to everyone he meets + we live far away from eachother so I barely see him. Should I get over him and let it go?

[AndreJNick]

If you haven't talked to him about it then the question is moot. See how he feels and if it's unrequited then it's unfortunate but there is no one to blame. It's not his fault he likes what he likes. And it's DEFINITELY not your fault he won't give you a chance. Don't let it get you down. Instead look forward to finding someone who will give you a chance

[Asker]

I haven't talked to him about it. Our conversations were always workrelated. I have to work with him when there are events in his hometown. I think Its a little weird to go ask it if i’ve never seen him outside of work. For now I like him based on attraction. I can't get him out of my head. I really want to get to know him, but its too soon to ask for a date. I've seen him 3 times and it was work related

[AndreJNick]

Do you have any common interests or do you not know him at all?

[kbharadwaj3125]

Yeah he has too many expectations. They will dilute down once they don't get their stuff. If you have patience wait for him. Or find a better guy than him. Looks aren't everything.

[JGutierrez]

Don't change yourself just so he'd like you. Be you and be yourself. Find someone who'd accept you and love you for you.

Try talking to him. It only "appears" that he likes "perfect" girls but for all we know, he isn't really like that. Get to know him better.

[thechico79]

um, yeah, without second thought. There are plenty of guys who are not shallow and would love to get to know you. Now just be careful, some guys just want sex and there are clues to find out who.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a player to me, he is. If you want to get involved with a player, be my guest, but, it's like having sex, unprotected or, the "pull out method", if you play with fire, you're bound to get burned. Fire is a WILD thing

[Asker]

Its not because he is social that he is automatically a player? I talked to him a few times and he doesn't come across as cocky, nor did he try things to me or to the other girls he talked to

[Opinion Owner]

I'm just saying, to me he sounds like a player

[Asker]

Well I know he loves his job and he likes to go out with lots of people but unfortunately thats all I know. Dont think he has any specific hobbies. Just meeting his friends everyday I think. I haven't had the chance to get to know him personally... Thank you for helping me!

[smrthomson]

A lot of?❤😍😍😍😁