You know...he did make the first move. he told you that he cares about you and compliments you. That is what I call a first move. He is waiting for you to make a move. He will NOT make another move until YOU ask him out. If not, then you both will just be friends.
Why should he first approach you, talk about how special you are, than he has to ask you out too? A relationship takes 2 people, not one person doing all the work. If you were really interested you would have asked to hangout with him already. I can guarantee you that he feels that you do not care enough to want to date him. That is why he is not asking you out. You have to be assertive and create the relationship.
So stop procrastinating and ask him out!
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Yup.
We won't do it because 1. we care about the girl so much and we're afraid to screw up our friendship by dating since we don't think we'd be a good bf.
2. If she's with someone we won't make a move, she's off limits.
3. If she's the complete opposite of our morals, religious/spiritual beliefs, and political beliefs.
4. If she expects all the guy to do all the work in dating, we won't pursue because then she's kind of a snob/selfish. (so if she hasn't asked for any sort of datelike event, texted, then she needs to step up to the plate and initiate dating on her part.)
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He's used to being a friend and is afraid he will lose that if a relationship doesn't work out.
A lot of risk involved in starting a dating relationship; you'll have higher expectations for him, for one thing, right? And all his friends will have to adjust to the change successfully for it to work, too. Just because he might get laid is no reason to risk a comfortable situation!This guy is obviously still scared of being rejected, it sounds like your going to wear the trousers in this relationship and ask him,x
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