Why should I have fought for her?

[Anonymous]

We broke up and she started seeing another guy almost straight away. Hurt and angry I went NC for 2 months. No phone call, text or IM. Literally nothing. Finally a month ago we started talking and agreed to meet up. We had a long heart to heart conversation and got everything out in the open. She is still seeing the guy and is happy but told me she was hurt and upset that I had not called. She hoped I would've called, proved how much I loved her and fought for her but when I didn't she figured I didn't care anymore. What sort of twisted logic is that? Not only did she start dating someone else but she expected me to call after dumping me! I couldn't believe my ears! The only purpose it served was that I lost a lot of respect for her and any idea I had of wanting her back has gone. Please tell me all girls don't think like her?

[adamretex81]

its normal. it happens everyday. but you tell her you don't like her anymore and that you have got a chick and you are very happy with her. wish her good luck in life, be mature and be super cool. the NC was obviously working and couples with my advice, this chick will be thinking about you daily. then you can get her back later if you want or not.

[Asker]

I can safely say it's a definative not!

[Anonymous]

It would be instant hate for me. Some peaople are Fucked in the head

[Anonymous]

woowww that's messed up! if she broke up with you means she doenst want you anymore..she is just bs-ing you forget her move on..she is not worthy of your love like you said you lost respect for her..its obvious she doesn't care bout your emotions or feelings anymore she was the one who dumped you you are free to date anyone you want!

[Asker]

I know. I'm glad we had that chat though. It helped me realize just how immature she is! Closure is great when you can get it!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I kno we might do stupid mistakes and realize later but then its all meant to happen because its pre destined and whatever happens happens for good .. Buddy you take a back seat and watch the movie how karma responds to her new fling! You don't have to do anything its like watever goes around. Comes around. Gluck:)

[ExMsFine]

I think like her.