Sober cuddling the morning after?

[amoh24]

The other night I met a guy at a party, we went back to my place with a few friends who all started hooking up, so this guy and I started kissing too. We went to bed and made out for a while and he tried to take it further, but I wouldn't because a) I didn't know him and b) I'm not a one night stand kind of girl. Anyway, the next morning he kept cuddling with me and talking to me. When his friend came to pick him up he asked for my number and said that the next time he was in town he'd like to hang out (he is from my town, but goes to school out of town). Later he text me and friended me on facebook.

Basically my question is...is this normal? Is this what he thinks proper hook up etiquette is? because I think it was a little excessive. I mean typically when a guy from out of town says "I'd like to hang out again.." I would think they're just feeding you a line. what do you think his deal was? and what are the odds he'll actually try to hang out with me?

[jacquesvol]

"Is this what he thinks proper hook up etiquette is? because I think it was a little excessive. "

Whatever rocks your boat. :) Some take greater strides than others do: there's no absolute rule,

"We went to bed and made out for a while and he tried to take it further"

Which guy wouldn't give it a try, under those circumstances? Up to the girl to determine the rules you're playing with: outercourse, dry humping or all the way, whatever you feel best with at that moment.

"what are the odds he'll actually try to hang out with me?"

No way to foresee that, it depends on mood, people (girls) he met in the interval, if he got the impression he has a chance of not being turned down by you if he proposes it.

"L'homme propose et la femme dispose" they say in French.

(It's up to the guy to propose and it's up to the girl to decide)

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

He wants sex. He didn't get it one night, so he'll want to try another night.

Or, on the flipside, he really likes you and really wants to know you better.

Too hard to tell which. I'd bet on the odds he wants an easy f*** when he comes to town and is hoping you can be it, considering most guys seem to be like that. But, still, no harm in giving him a chance and being friendly with him. If he seems he wants to go for more, screw that, you know where his mind is at.

[amoh24]

that's usually my assumption, but I pretty much made it clear to him that I'm not a sex before love kind of girl aka not an easy f***.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Guys are stupid :P they might be like "I'll get her to change and f*** me!"

[amoh24]

hahah super lame!

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

What can I say, we love us some sex :P but we're not all bad and maybe he isn't. Maybe he's just really into you.

[amoh24]

haha yeah I get it. I just find it hard to imagine that he would be so intrigued by me after only one night.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Who knows, we guys are more likely to fall in love at first sight or whatever :P or first meeting. Even online when we don't actually "See" the person. I have no idea why. I thought it was always due to us being more attracted to visuals usually, but after hearing/reading about the online aspect too, eh.

Still, I'd always be careful if I was a girl :P