Why are girls so indecisive and confusing?

[Anonymous]

https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/struggles-indecisive-dater/1200640
After reading this article above, my brain started frying.

If a girl likes you, she'll be slightly mean to you.
If a girl doesn't like you, she'll be flirty.
If you show her interest, she'll lose hers.
If you lose your interest, she'll show hers.
If she has a boyfriend, she hits on you.
If she's single, she's insecure about you.
If a girl likes you, she will avoid eye contact.
If a girl doesn't, she will still avoid eye contact.
A girl leads on all the boys that she genuinely likes.
A girl dates all the boys who want nothing but casual sex wit her.
Girls want a man who works for what he wants in his life.
Girls don't even know what they want out of him.
Girls complain about wanting a caring and loving man but ignores him.
Girls will keep fucking the studs and complain about how they didn't really love her.
If her friends tell you that she likes you, she will act like she's not interested.
If her friends tell you she likes someone else, she flirts with you.
Girls keep talking about how independent they are but still don't know where they want to eat, and they rely on him to pay for the food.
Girls will say they're not hungry but eat half your meal.
Girls are always just 'like other girls' no matter how much they say otherwise.
If she gives you her number, she won't call or text.
Girls are much smarter, but they still fantasize about having the best wedding ever with their dream crush.
She wants an outgoing and interesting man, but she's boring as hell herself.
She wants a man who will always are and be there for her, but she never contributes to the relationship.
Girls are always emotional on their periods, but never know how they feel.

I got this idea of of this question that I enjoyed reading \/
Why are girls so confusing?

Is it really true how girls don't even know what they want in their lives at times?

[btbc92]

That is not true at All! My gosh! Glad I never dated guys in my life. Guys are just as indecisive and confused as women are. Nobody is direct anymore. If you say you want to be just friends, they assume you never want to date them. They don't want to get married or have kids but will have sex with you and shack up. Then if she leaves with somebody else who will give her the things that she needs, day that's when the same person wants to come back chasing you.

When you don't have the right kind of intentions, you end up with this kind of problem. When you have the right intentions, you won't have these problems with girls because they understand exactly what you're about and who you are as a person. They will not have this kind of stuff going on because now they can be decisive. And if they can't be decisive at the moment, they will at least be honest.

[btbc92]

If a girl likes you, she'll be slightly mean to you. = FALSE. A girl that is mean to you often just dislikes you. Period.

If a girl doesn't like you, she'll be flirty. = Girls flirt with whomever. It is part of many of their nature. I don't agree with flirting at all, and I would never flirt with a guy.

If you show her interest, she'll lose hers. = Not really. It's when you're making it obvious that you see her in that way as when she will more likely pull back especially if she does not reciprocate those feelings.

If you lose your interest, she'll show hers. = Only if she plays games. Other than that it ain't because she's showing interest is because she's looking for a friend and she feels like that she's going to lose you if she doesn't comply. It's not because she says the same. Specially if she don't even know.

If she has a boyfriend, she hits on you. = those girls don't have any morals why would you even bother with those type of women!

If she's single, she's insecure about you. = WRONG! If she doesn't know you, she doesn't know your intent, then she's going to be insecure especially if it's not good.

[btbc92]

If a girl likes you, she will avoid eye contact. = HUH? These people are crazy. If I avoid eye contact because I don't want to be looked at, and I hate being stared at. These people are nuts.

If a girl doesn't, she will still avoid eye contact. = Not always. Unless she is a shy person she won't just because.

A girl leads on all the boys that she genuinely likes. = Also WRONG. She manipulates everybody under her thumb, it's not just guys and it's often easy to spot.

A girl dates all the boys who want nothing but casual sex wit her. = that depends on her mentality. If she is not settled within herself as a person, then naturally she will date somebody who she does not know. Until she firmly understand what it is that she wants out of her life she will just go after anybody who pays attention to her. Guys are not going to tell you a woman what it is that he wants. So they don't play around with her emotions until they see that she's going to collapse. Their naive girls.

Girls want a man who works for what he wants in his life. =of course! Depending on who she is.

Girls don't even know what they want out of him. = not always. We often do know but a lot of people tries to dictate what we like in a person

Girls complain about wanting a caring and loving man but ignores him. = not always true. There's a difference between a guy that is loving and caring versus somebody that is clingy and needy. Those type of men that do it don't love themselves just like girls who do it don't love themselves.

[btbc92]

Girls will keep fucking the studs and complain about how they didn't really love her. = no. That has everything to do with the fact that again, those type of guys have things that some guys do not have. She chose to open up her legs to him, is either at a peer pressure, either she already wanted to do it, or again she was naive. Girls like that often don't have stable relationships at home.

If her friends tell you that she likes you, she will act like she's not interested. = not true. If she's not interested she is not interested. Some of those so-called friends just want to see her set up with anybody. That doesn't make you feel the same way. Get that answer from the person, do not get it from other people.

If her friends tell you she likes someone else, she flirts with you. = again, girls flirt with whomever.

Girls keep talking about how independent they are but still don't know where they want to eat, and they rely on him to pay for the food. = that has nothing to do with Independence. A man is supposed to be the head of the household. He is supposed to take the lead as a man. He wants to see where his leadership skills are. Now unless he's going to demonstrate that in front of a conference where everybody gets to judge his competency, she got to see that one on one with him. Just because she can pay her own bills Etc, that doesn't mean that she has to be co-dependent on somebody. But a relationship does require dependency that is healthy. Indecisiveness does not relate to being not independent.

[btbc92]

Girls will say they're not hungry but eat half your meal.
Girls are always just 'like other girls' no matter how much they say otherwise. = where the heck are you reading this crap from?

If she gives you her number, she won't call or text. = means nothing. The real question is why it should she be giving a stranger her number in the first place? I personally would not give my number to a stranger. If I'm not looking to befriend them and get to know them as friends, if I don't trust them, they are not having my number. Regardless of gender.

Girls are much smarter, but they still fantasize about having the best wedding ever with their dream crush. = and what is wrong with that?

Don't believe everything you read on the internet. You want to get to know people, start willing to befriend women, start communicating.

[Asker]

oh my god... shut the fuck up...

[Lostgirl02]

Girls can be confusing, but honestly they normally know what they want, they may just not come out and ask for it for one reason or another.

[Anonymous]

because girls are spaghetti whereas guys are waffles

mhmm waffles

[stacey77]

It honestly depends. Not every girls is like this, while some are. Sometimes it just takes patience and other times, you may just have to directly ask her if it’s confusing you. If you have an issue with her being indecisive a lot, maybe try to address it to her in a polite way and just let her know that it confuses you.