Girls, you are at a party and you are single. What can a guy do to stand out and differentiate from the others and have a chance for your heart?

[Anonymous]

[MrBadd]

“A chance for your heart”

It’s crazy to me that there are guys in their mid-20s who still say and think things like this.

The problem with it is that I already know what you’re thinking - you’re gonna set yourself apart from the players and assholes.

There’s nothing wrong with being a good dude at all, but when that’s your strategy and that’s it you bore women. You come in overly serious, you come off as a bit of a kiss ass maybe. It’s awkward.

Think about this: what is a player? He’s a guy who gets laid a lot. How does he get laid a lot? Something about him is attractive to women. Why do women hate him? He hurts them, because they really liked him and he was never serious at all. The player had her heart.

Trying to be the complete opposite of him is a stupid idea. Instead, you should think about what they do right. Like I said the only reason girls don’t like players is because they ghost them and stuff. All you have to do is not ghost and you’re good.

[kannettava]

Quite honestly in a party setting the people who stand out to me are the people who I find physically attractive more than anything. A person can make me like them by having good social skills and making me feel comfortable in a party setting, because that's way out of my comfort zone.

[Siren777]

Pulled me up to dance. I would like to see someone ballsy enough to do it and be funny. If I want to dance with someone I will take them by the hand and pull them in for a dance. Lol🥳💃🏻

[babieg]

If he makes me laugh, he will give me 🦋🦋🦋 in my tummy

[fred_durst]

approaching stranger is always bad idea

[midnightcavern01]

Start with hello :)