i never went to a house party or so called private party when i was in high school which would of been like around the year 2000's. maybe it doesn't matter now but a part of me is still bitter that i would of been treated that poorly by people my own age in my home town. who felt it was ok to treat me poorly and socially exclude me.
i can't recall exactly what the reason was as to why i wasn't ever invited or not allowed to attend. don't recall anyone ever telling me a specific reason , i also never once attempted to gain entry to a party uninvited. so i don't know what would of happened had i showed up to one.
also didn't have a part time job in high school so i wouldn't of even been invited to a staff holiday party when they still had those. only social event i can recall attending was a dance and holiday formal both of which were obviously held by the school and not at private residences.
recall that i was somewhat socially awkward back then and ate lunch alone at a pizza place downtown away from the school cause i liked the walk and break. i remember being told that guys there hated that i liked to look at there girlfriends and check them out. not sure if that is a possible reason as to why i was excluded or not. but i don't recall any girls saying they''d be uncomfortable with me being around them at such events
guess it all was a long time ago but a part of me is bitter that i didn't get to experience some of the normal things teens got to do at that age
i can't recall exactly what the reason was as to why i wasn't ever invited or not allowed to attend. don't recall anyone ever telling me a specific reason , i also never once attempted to gain entry to a party uninvited. so i don't know what would of happened had i showed up to one.
also didn't have a part time job in high school so i wouldn't of even been invited to a staff holiday party when they still had those. only social event i can recall attending was a dance and holiday formal both of which were obviously held by the school and not at private residences.
recall that i was somewhat socially awkward back then and ate lunch alone at a pizza place downtown away from the school cause i liked the walk and break. i remember being told that guys there hated that i liked to look at there girlfriends and check them out. not sure if that is a possible reason as to why i was excluded or not. but i don't recall any girls saying they''d be uncomfortable with me being around them at such events
guess it all was a long time ago but a part of me is bitter that i didn't get to experience some of the normal things teens got to do at that age
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note we can rule out racism as a possible reason as i was the same race as most others at that school. at college i recall going to parties at residence or house where i lived , don't recall ever being excluded or told not to show up. might of been some nights i stayed away if party was too wild or got into stuff i prefered to not associate with like drugs. a girl invited me to her birthday party which was cool however no one else came as it stormed that night , we had like an empty club to
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i can't really think of any reason or event that occured in grade 9 - 11 which would of justified there behaviour towards me. leads me to think i just didn't fit it with the crowd that would of been partying back then. in crowds are often very mean to people who they don't think highly of or want apart of there group. although i have a hard time coming up with any reason why the people i went to school with back then wouldn't of wanted me present at a social event
