Being ghosted really is just the worst. Especially in person. It completely destroys your confidence and feelings of self worth when you're left to afraid to open up to new people because you immediately assume they'll leave you too. I've been ghosted multiple times online and while that does sting nothing makes you hate yourself more and feel like a failure of a person like realizing you and the time you spent with\getting to know someone meant nothing to them.
Sorry that you have experienced that. It really makes no sense to me. It brings no closure and leaves people wondering what they did to deserve that. Unfortunately we live in a world filled with selfish people.
Sooo true I've ghosted many girls i liked and loved because i was getting too close and was afraid im not enough
@Khalid4949 Sucks... I dealt with being ghosted by a guy before but he came back to me and ghosted me again & still be trying to come back... fear of love. Love is beautiful better then anything on this earth, don't fear it embrace it. Your worthy and enough!
What I’m basically going through is not just feeling like im not enough it’s also that I’m dealing with childhood trauma and heavy stuff and the thing is this girl just came into my life and showed me all this affection that I can’t keep up with because of my negative thoughts so how would you deal with someone like me would you even want someone who is still dealing with trauma and negative thoughts or rather just him figuring it out first and come back when he’s ready
@Khalid494949 No... I wouldn't deal with someone like you simply cause I already did & because i would think your not sure on how to love because of your past childhood drama. You need some healing and closure. I was with a guy that had this problem as well he had mom & dad issues and just overall had it bad as a kid to where as now as an adult he still holds on to that baggage and made our relationship toxic. He just couldn't love me the way i needed him to he was trying to heal through me but it became toxic he was in and out of my life. I couldn't help but feel bad once I realized why he was the way he was but... I had to to get away from him it drained me too much and left me hurt... hurt people hurt people so my advice to you is don't get into anything serious until your ready to actually let go and let love. My ex even told me he loved me but he rather go back to the streets and ghosted poor ole me. Because of fear. Never stays away though. Once he matures and heal I may let him back in cause I feel deep inside that he's my fucking soulmate! Its been 4 years now so yeah... But heal yourself you will start realizing so many things don't miss an opportunity on love cause I feel thats all you need.
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