Is he flirting/attracted to me or just being nice?

[23mhendell]

So there’s this guy I’m in a club with (I’m a highschool junior, he’s a senior) and we’re in the same small group too. He’s very friendly with the other girls in the group (3 of them) but when the bell rings he always walks with me to the bus instead of them. Today he asked if I wanted a ride home and I said yeah. We made great conversation the whole time and after he dropped me off we texted a little bit. He asked for my snap and we kept chatting, especially about music (I play piano and he plays drums, plus we both like the same band). I mentioned that I just found out they were playing near us soon and he was pumped and asked if I would be interested in seeing them but didn’t specify if we would be going together or not. The conversation kinda moved away from the topic so there was never a clear answer there. I was teasing him earlier about his beard (it’s desperately needs a trim) and he remembered and asked me what he should do with it, sending a pic of what it used to look like too. I feel like he’s flirting? Am I wrong?

[Rob70]

You are not wrong. He likes you and I think he is attracted to you. Let things happen naturally and if you like him you can drop little hints or be bold and straightforward with him that you like him and would like to know if he feels the same

[Arivor]

It would be rare for any guy who does not have an interest in you to pay you that much attention. So, no, he is not just being nice… he is flirting with you because he is attracted to you.

[loves2learn]

It definitely sounds to me like he is flirting. Good luck!

[TallAnon]

I've never met a guy that's "just being nice" to women.

[fonduegirl]

Unless she isn't attractive 😆

[TallAnon]

At that point we're only nice if needed. (Like a work setting), we wouldn't spend time or effort being nice to her.

[fonduegirl]

😒😒😒

[fonduegirl]

Doesn't sound like attraction to me :(

[fonduegirl]

@FakeNIK what do you think?

[fonduegirl]

My male friends ask me stuff like that as for female opinion or something. I have had experiences like guys keeping company. I really don't think he's flirting with you.

[FakeNIK]

I can sense a little bit of chemistry in here

[fonduegirl]

Really?

[fonduegirl]

Think my social psychology and feminine intuition is weakening lols

[scooogy]

Often enough we guys wonder about that with girls.

[sasarin]

It’s flirting!!

[In_Trance]

Just being nice