Do you ladies gets compliments like this all the time? Talking about my sistas?

[Dede36]

Okay being a black girl this white guy was asking me at the cash register, am I going out & then complimented my outfit? He asked, you are not going out? I told him no I just came back from the store. He said, okay you look like you are going out all I want to say is that your outfit looks nice. I told him thank you. It was sweet that he complimented, but I was caught off guard at where this conversation was going though. For I never seen him before in my life. I wondered if you ladies gets compliments from guys like that randomly? I have been complimented before, but these people knew me though.

[Guy13]

Of course we complement you as you are beautiful, fragile, and strong with a smile and other notables. See... "NICE" outfit, by the way.

[Dede36]

Oh okay. Most men just stare and help me out when I am just standing there. But it is all good. The conversation just happened so spontaneously.

[Guy13]

That’s nice isn’t it…when one is struck by you. Obviously, you have something extraordinary going for you 💪

[Dede36]

It could be. He just started the conversation all of a sudden.

[Guy13]

Do you really want a smooth guy in these days and times... He sounds like a decent guy?

[Dede36]

Yeah he does, but you never know with people these days one minute they seem nice but end up being deceiving.

[Guy13]

You’ll find out 😎

[Dede36]

That part is what I don't want is deception.

[Guy13]

That's going to happen in some degree no matter what unless you were dating me. ;-)

[Dede36]

I rather stay single and childless then to be deceived. I am happy to not to deal with all that foolish stuff. Yeah every guy say they want deceive the woman, but do they really mean what they say though?🤷‍♀️

[Guy13]

No one is perfect. I’m a one woman guy. Less than one hand. I’ve been deceived but there’s no choice than to kee trying and hope

[Dede36]

Perfect people are chosen by God. I think people today are too busy wanting to be mingling with every wordly thing is that they get caught up and don't take the time out to do whats right.

That's the whole entire reason why I am single now it is not too many people you can trust. I have seen men say they are different, but do exactly what they say they don't do. I can't trust someone like that. So I stay to myself most of the time.

[Dede36]

An sorry for what happened to you. Nobody should have to deal with that.

[Guy13]

You are on God’s Time?

[Dede36]

Exactly

[Guy13]

Got it..

[Woodchuck411]

always nice to give a compliment when you deserve it. Especially from a stranger. But sometimes there's other things behind it

[Dede36]

What you mean other things behind it?

[sassy_receptor]

yes i do