Does the "compliment and walk away" approach really work?

[Anonymous]

I was watching a show where two guys were competing over who could get more dates in one week. The one guy, at first, was not doing it right, while the other guy was getting girls left and right. While the guy who was getting girls, is pretty attractive, he also sort of had game, of course. He would eventually fall for one of the girls and they called the bet off but...before they did, the other guy finally found out one of the secrets, if not, THE secret to hitting on a woman.

Walk up to her, say hi, compliment something (you could do her shoes, however, it's better to be unique, especially since it can be considered gay, to compliment shoes)..and simply, walk away.

It supposedly makes her go "what the f***" inside her head "why isn't he hitting on me, am I not that attractive". So, she actually wound up walking over to him and asking if he wanted her number to call her sometime. He got all seven digits and was so happy. This started a chain reaction and was getting girls left and right.

So...ladies, does this work on you

Men, what's your luck, if you've ever used this

[RAMboJ03]

I've seen that episode of Drake and Josh. I was at bar and I figured this night, I'll just try it to see if it really works. I told 3 different girls the same line. I turned to them, looked them up and down, they looked at me and I said with a sly smile "I like your hair", and they said "Thanks". I didn't walk away and they didn't chase after me, I just simply turned away and acted like I didn't really give a shit and went back to playing my game of pool. After a few minutes went by, all 3 of them then proceeded to try to start a conversation with me by asking me a question or making a comment to me.

Can't remember exactly what they all said, but point is all I did was give them a compliment and turn away from them and that some how magically made them have interest in me. Shoot, after talking for a few minutes of flirtin', one of the girls even started huggin' and gettin' all touchy feely with me. Point is I hardly had to make an effort for these chicks to take interest in me.

Another thing I recommend y'all to try is if you go up and start talking to a girl and she doesn't seem really interested, walk away and go start talking to another girl. I bet ya she gains interest and chases ya down. I can't tell you how many times this has worked, even from the most stuck up bitches. I discovered this at a college party sophmore year. I was trying to talk to this super hot chick and she wasn't haven't it and I said "fuck this", walked away and went to talk to another a chick who was pretty cute and who was havin it and 5 minutes later, that super hot girl follows me over there and inserts herself in my conversation with that other girl and suddenly has interest in me haha

I didn't realize exactly why that happened until it happened again at work a couple weeks later when I asked a girl for her number and she said she doesn't give it out so again said fuck it, walked away and started talking to another girl, pulled my phone out and was getting her number and then first bitch comes over, butts in and starts saying her number when I'm gettin' the other girl's.

This is when I realized this works pretty much every time, as long as the first girl see's you talkin to the 2nd. I started pulling this at every party when my first choice girl wasn't haven't it and sure enough she follows.

Also don't listen to these girls advice on here or in real life when it comes to girls unless she's a homie. They don't know what they want it's like what Yeahhbro ^^

[RAMboJ03]

They don't know what they want, it's like what Yeahhbro said down below vvvvvvv***

[Yeahhbro]

don't listem to girls here...they are too proud to accept it or it is difficult to accept its true. For example they always want nice guys but they always end up liking jerks? Coincidence? I didn't think so.

[Yeahhbro]

Its one thing what they say and another thing what happens in real life. Sad but true.

[udolipixie]

1. Does the "compliment and walk away" approach really work? It works on some girls.

2. So...ladies, does this work on you? Nope.

Though that's going the assumption that the guys who compliment & walk away are actually trying this approach rather than just complimenting/walking away.

I couldn't care less about being complimented.

I'm also not the kind of girl who suddenly seeks out & becomes attracted to a guy out of a self-esteem hit & need to prove I'm attractive.

[DishLady]

Sort of, but not as quickly/instantaneously as you're describing. I do have to know a person in some context before I give out my phone number, but the key to getting a girl's number is generally to butter her up and show some interest.

No, I won't chase a guy down to give him my phone number, even if he tosses a random compliment at me. I have people to hang out with, so I've never had to resort to such desperate measures to get the attention of a stranger.

[shygirl12]

Hah Love Drake and Josh :D

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Wouldn't work on me.

I'd take the compliment, compliment him back probably, then go about my business. I'd think he was just being friendly, not flirting with me.

And then for him to just walk off? Yea, I don't chase unless he's worth it. And a total stranger I know absolutely nothing about - isn't worth it.

[Karstasaurus]

Gotta agree with the other ladies.

If it's just a compliment on my physical appearance then depending on what he compliments, I might seek him out for a bit of conversation but he certainly wouldn't get my number yet. But then it depends on what he compliments, eyes is a bit old but depending on how genuine you seem it may come across well. Hair is one of the main things that women pride themselves on these days so you can't really go wrong with that. Breasts and bum however will probably get you a slap in the face.

If it's a compliment on my dress or shoes or any accesories, I will think he is gay. There is a difference between "Those Jimmy Choos are to die for on you." and "You look ravishing in that dress." You have to know the difference!