Having a Hard time pursuing women?

[Anonymous]

Just as the title says. I am not a big talker and always second guessing myself when talking to women. Not to mention always thinking and trying to figure out if she really likes me (sometimes wondering if they like you, but playing hard to get. Or just being friendly). Additionally, trying to show a woman I really like her. There is one at my job whom shares similar likes and so forth. We talk every once in a while, but it’s moreso in a joking fashion. Based on what she says in general she wouldn’t date a guy at work, and by what she says sometimes about which guy she finds cute, I figure I’m not her type. Just trying to figure how to get over my fear, and learn how to pursue women.

[Guy13]

How about stop worrying about yourself and attend to her. Listen, Attend, Hear and react like someone who is fully present rather than this wondering Void with no sense of Stability or Solidity. Who CARES what she thinks of you at that moment. Unless it is really bad, her idea of you will change 3 times before she makes it to the car.

Learn some simple ass corny animal jokes and tell them in quiet or silent moments. Learn how to handle yourself like a man that can..."that's what they say to one another at the hen get together... I've heard it myself.

[rabbitzzz]

If she likes you she will

1. praise you

2. touch you friendily.

3. give clear sign or tell you or offer herself as gift.

Don't pursue women. What good can come from that? It's like a mirage. From a distance the thirsty things there is water.

[rabbitzzz]

*thirsty thinks*

[Hassan_8]

Go to the gym and keep working out daily, you’ll get more confidence in yourself and more girls will get attracted to you.

[Zayed_]

The more I grow the more I realize that pursuing women isn’t going to work.

It’s either they like you or don’t.

[Anonymous]

Me too but today only you can try this trick and say happy Valentine to a woman that you like and see what she says and if she says it back you can say I don’t have one this year and then maybe you guys will start talking

[Iron_Man]

Find somebody that appreciate you