I just joined a club at my university. I was texting the leader for a few weeks to get everything together before meeting him.
Eventually I planned to meet up with him and a few other students to do a project. When I got there and saw him I noticed he’s way more attractive than I thought. We’re around the same age but he’s very good at his job and is kinda like the leader / boss.
When I got there and told him who I was he kinda look surprised ( I’ve been told a lot that I’m pretty and I think I am ) but he said it was nice to meet me.
We watched a few videos and he looked at me the most and another student.
Eventually him and I and the others got in his car and drive downtown. He’s super talkative so we’re all having a convo the whole way down there. We’re mainly going down there to get content for another one of the students but when we stopped in another area he asked who wanted to make a video and everyone volunteered me lol including him. It was weird because he asked me to read out a script of what I would say and I started making up a script.
When I was talking he interrupted and was like “look me in the eye” and when i did he looked away smirking.
after I made the video he was like “I could post this right now” and did later that day.
After we started walking back we passed a bar and he said something about if I’ve had drinks there ( im the only 21 year old ) and was looking at me and smirking again but I didn’t really hear exactly what he said.
Him and one of the other students were having a long convo in the car but she was pioneering it.
After we got back and dropped off he texted in the gc about how much fun he had and wanted to maybe make it a regular thing.
Also he posted my video and it got a certain amount of views overnight. Early that morning he texted in the gc to congratulate me on my first video and how popular it got overnight.
I don't know I find him attractive and I don't know he might for me but I know I can’t go there.
Eventually I planned to meet up with him and a few other students to do a project. When I got there and saw him I noticed he’s way more attractive than I thought. We’re around the same age but he’s very good at his job and is kinda like the leader / boss.
When I got there and told him who I was he kinda look surprised ( I’ve been told a lot that I’m pretty and I think I am ) but he said it was nice to meet me.
We watched a few videos and he looked at me the most and another student.
Eventually him and I and the others got in his car and drive downtown. He’s super talkative so we’re all having a convo the whole way down there. We’re mainly going down there to get content for another one of the students but when we stopped in another area he asked who wanted to make a video and everyone volunteered me lol including him. It was weird because he asked me to read out a script of what I would say and I started making up a script.
When I was talking he interrupted and was like “look me in the eye” and when i did he looked away smirking.
after I made the video he was like “I could post this right now” and did later that day.
After we started walking back we passed a bar and he said something about if I’ve had drinks there ( im the only 21 year old ) and was looking at me and smirking again but I didn’t really hear exactly what he said.
Him and one of the other students were having a long convo in the car but she was pioneering it.
After we got back and dropped off he texted in the gc about how much fun he had and wanted to maybe make it a regular thing.
Also he posted my video and it got a certain amount of views overnight. Early that morning he texted in the gc to congratulate me on my first video and how popular it got overnight.
I don't know I find him attractive and I don't know he might for me but I know I can’t go there.
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It hasn’t been that long you’ve been seeing him in person, give it some time and I’m sure you’ll get over the crush.
I don’t wanna call it a crush, just attraction. Do you think it could be mutual? If it’s not then I’d have an easier time spending time with him because I know nothing would probably happen.
If we’re going off what you wrote then it seems pretty casual, like nothing specifically sticks out to make me think he’s into you. No one but him can say for sure though since we’re not in his mind lol.
Learn to establish boundaries, and realize that dating people you work with is a dead end.