I think it’s socially accepted to use a guy to get free drinks. It’s only an issue when the people getting the free drinks then turn around and complain about how men are useless and they’re all about using women for their own selfish needs.
I would look into the deeper question of why you drink in the first place. (Not being snarky. Truly saying this out of love. 💜 )
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Guys flirt to get sex. They use their brains to use other people’s body. So don’t feel bad for getting a drink or Teo, at least you’re respecting your body, unlike the guys who are doing it to disrespect women. Keep doing your thang!
No we don’t flirt to get sex, 9/10 guy suck at flirting and games as a whole and will never get sex by it. And just because we’re offering doesn’t mean we see you as a piece of meat, and i don’t see how it’s respecting your body you’re literally using it for free drinks. Nothing disrespectful about it either, what’s so wrong with it?
@Jennz6 Nowadays whenever i offer a woman a drink it’s in the hopes to loosen her up a little so she won’t be afraid to talk her mind and so she’ll trust me somewhat, by “loosening up” i don’t mean getting her drunk or tipsy, just in that mentality where she isn’t fully cautious and where she can lower her gaurd somewhat with me so we can actually connect on a deeper level. When i was younger i would try to crawl into a woman’s pants just because though, every confident guy is guilty of it. I didn’t just offer drinks either, i could literally be a whole day’s menu for drinks and meals for you specifically if i happened to find you attractive & sweet. Pretty pathetic and a useless romantic gesture looking back at it, should’ve just been a asshole like every other guy and slept with the girl’s mother to show dominance over her instead. 😅🤷♂️
@Guardian45 Just improvise and make it your own damn first date right there, if you’re smooth and confident in your abilities even if they’re shitty abilities it’ll work. Women will believe all kinda crap if you pull it off with style, when i was still 20 i convinced a 31 year old woman that sports car racing was my thing and that i was fresh but very good at it. Now it did not last as we simply grew apart and i couldn’t actually make pictures of myself in sport-cars or in the race-area itself as it was all bs but i still managed to sleep with her a few times and got a massive ego-boost from it. I’ve grown out of that phase (mostly) and while i’m definitely a better person this way there’s a certain thrill with these kinda smooth tricks and it’s really satisfying, not saying you should lie to women and especially not to your partner but remember: You don’t need to be confident or perfect to succeed, nwomen simply need to feel as if that’s the case and you need to give over that perception and stuff will get 100 times easier if you play your cards right.
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i flirted my way to free drinks at the bar, coffee at Starbucks and out of a traffic ticket
Someone’s a player, you definitely didn’t have highway with that traffic ticket though because those officers don’t push around
That's manipulating men for financial gain and that is evil.
its not evil. I didn't tell them to give me anything... and they didn't complain when they got to look down my blouse or up my up my skirt
You know that's not all they want.
I think it’s socially accepted to use a guy to get free drinks. It’s only an issue when the people getting the free drinks then turn around and complain about how men are useless and they’re all about using women for their own selfish needs.
Yeah it's not that bad but if you do it all the time and string the guy all night long thinking you like him that might be kinda bad.
I would look into the deeper question of why you drink in the first place. (Not being snarky. Truly saying this out of love. 💜 )
Guys flirt to get sex. They use their brains to use other people’s body. So don’t feel bad for getting a drink or Teo, at least you’re respecting your body, unlike the guys who are doing it to disrespect women.
Keep doing your thang!
No we don’t flirt to get sex, 9/10 guy suck at flirting and games as a whole and will never get sex by it. And just because we’re offering doesn’t mean we see you as a piece of meat, and i don’t see how it’s respecting your body you’re literally using it for free drinks. Nothing disrespectful about it either, what’s so wrong with it?
If you're a man buying random women drinks at a bar, you're a fucking idiot. The woman just got a free beer just so you can try and get laid. Losers
If you're deceiving people, I think that's bad.
So you lead guys on for free drinks. I think you already know the answer to “is it bad”.
No it’s fine I’m sure guys enjoy the flirting so that’s why they buy the drinks
Whatever floats your boat 🚤
Manipulating people for your financial gain is bad.
This is a reason why many men dislike women - buy your own fucking drinks.
LOL! I'm sure the guys don't mind as long as you're not leading them on
Yes that is soooo wrong. It's false advertising.. you should be ashamed of yourselves for using people like that
Nothing bad, if you are fine and not regretting later.
Nope not one bit. Especially fun if the guys don't know your sexuality
Not if you don't mind living with the fact that you are a whore.
I get free drinks 🍺 and I don’t flirt
Whats you secret?
@Guardian45 I don’t know 🤷♀️, guys always say “Can I buy you a drink 🥃 “?
Niice! Girls NEVER say that to me!
@Guardian45 it’s not the girls, but the guys ask to buy me a drink
LOL! I meant when I go to a bar, no girls offer to buy me a drink!
@Guardian45 why would a girl buy you a drink 🥃?
Ig for the same reason a guy buys you a drink.
@Guardian45 because guys are always wanting to take me somewhere to get in my panties
A kiss would be better suited wouldn’t you say if anything at all? Why do all women think we instantly dream of banging you when we offer a drink lol
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer good question 💃💦
LOL! I would be happy to get a girl's phone# and a first date!
@Jennz6 Nowadays whenever i offer a woman a drink it’s in the hopes to loosen her up a little so she won’t be afraid to talk her mind and so she’ll trust me somewhat, by “loosening up” i don’t mean getting her drunk or tipsy, just in that mentality where she isn’t fully cautious and where she can lower her gaurd somewhat with me so we can actually connect on a deeper level. When i was younger i would try to crawl into a woman’s pants just because though, every confident guy is guilty of it. I didn’t just offer drinks either, i could literally be a whole day’s menu for drinks and meals for you specifically if i happened to find you attractive & sweet. Pretty pathetic and a useless romantic gesture looking back at it, should’ve just been a asshole like every other guy and slept with the girl’s mother to show dominance over her instead. 😅🤷♂️
@Guardian45 Just improvise and make it your own damn first date right there, if you’re smooth and confident in your abilities even if they’re shitty abilities it’ll work. Women will believe all kinda crap if you pull it off with style, when i was still 20 i convinced a 31 year old woman that sports car racing was my thing and that i was fresh but very good at it. Now it did not last as we simply grew apart and i couldn’t actually make pictures of myself in sport-cars or in the race-area itself as it was all bs but i still managed to sleep with her a few times and got a massive ego-boost from it. I’ve grown out of that phase (mostly) and while i’m definitely a better person this way there’s a certain thrill with these kinda smooth tricks and it’s really satisfying, not saying you should lie to women and especially not to your partner but remember: You don’t need to be confident or perfect to succeed, nwomen simply need to feel as if that’s the case and you need to give over that perception and stuff will get 100 times easier if you play your cards right.
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer. I'm long past mindgames. My life was/is interesting enough. I just want a loving complementary compatible woman
Nah a bit of harmless flirting is fun
Make it work for you…
@Reddy4it yesss 💃
@sunkizzd read your update…I didn’t mind the question…