Am I not making myself clear that I like her? Does she think we’re just friends?

[Anonymous]

I have a good female friend in my class and I started getting close to her friend (someone I like). So we started snap chatting a lot, and she usually instantly responds or starts convos more than I do w her.

I joke with her and tease her, but I get the feeling like she thinks it’s a friendly tease. Maybe it’s me misinterpreting it and I’m usually very bad at picking up hidden flirting. She laughs at everything, and we joke a lot.

yes Ik I should just ask her to hang. The issue is that she will be my classmate for 2 years in the same classes. I don’t want it awkward if she says no. Also, our mutual friend I actually asked her out previously several months back but we ended up just being friends (close friends now). I don’t want anything to be weird so I just want to know for certain before I ask her to hang out.

[kylee2437]

If you feel awkward a rejection, that is on you and maybe something that can be work , on your end because in order to shoot your shot, you need confidence and you also need to be prepared for a “not interested” . You will never know if you don’t try

[Asker]

I agree! But it’s not that I’m not confident and I don’t mind getting rejected I promise. It’s the fact that I don’t want her to feel like it’s awkward now that she said no. Like I said in the last paragraph, I don’t want it to be weird w people I’ll see for 2 more years

[kylee2437]

@asker if she feels awkward, that’s on her

[slatyb]

Ask her to join you for coffee, lunch, dinner, a drink, or anything.