How to get over a teacher crush?

[Carina0]

I may have some feelings for my teacher and I know that sounds bad. I've been flirting with him for a while now and he flirts back. We're following each other on Twitter. And after class sometimes I stay to ask more questions so we can talk more. I think he likes our little chat too. He's single and young (Age gap is still a lot but we're both of legal age) And I'm sexually attracted to him more than I want. I don't know if he realized it yet (Hope not) What should I do? How do I get over this feeling?

Updates

4 mo

I asked a new question about this situation. I couldn't update it because it's too long please look at it

[sage2021]

Who says you have to get over a teacher crush?
My brother was a teacher and one of his girl students had a crush on him. He just let it happen. They got married and have a one-year-old baby girl. The pictures they send me are precious. They look so happy. My brother told he always wanted to be a Dad. He is my 1/2 brother that my mom had and adopted. So him wanting to always be a Dad are great words to hear. Some guys that were adopted out might be bitter.
Mom died years ago but we keep in touch - especially since I have a little niece now. I am proud of him.

[Paulalove98]

I’m sorry I’m probably gonna be no help by any means because I’ve never had a thing for a teacher, but I’ll try…my friend had a crush on teacher when we were in middle school. In my eyes this girl was blind to like this man lol cause he was old, gray hair, kind of grumpy and weird🤣but I guess that was her type anyways. I think on his end it’s a bad idea and sinking into hot water if anything gets out. Also if your in high school it’s definitely a bad idea, however college it really depends. He could lose his teaching position for having an inappropriate relationship with a student or if you did date you’d have to really keep it on the down low but that’s easier said than done especially with social media these days. I think you should just find someone else who’s not a teacher but if you really end up liking eachother he should work at a different school or college or find another job for both your sakes.

[glennos89]

Follow your heart because it will tell you what you want. I think we all had a crush at some teacher at some point during our school years, you will eventually get over them. Although it's probably forbidden for teachers to have a sexually type of relationship with their students (not 100% sure) but do whatever feels right for you.

Your both adults so there isn't anything what anybody else can say about it wether no mather how they feel about it.

I think it would be badass if you are able to score your teacher. I never succeeded in doing that so credits for you if you succeed 😋😂

[Billlewis]

You know what the best way to forget about someone you have a crush on, right? Meet another guy who's even hotter then the first one, and as gorgeous as you are, I think it's going to be a lot easier than you ever would have imagined. Seriously.

[Carina0]

This made my day so thanks :) But I'm not sure I can just meet some other guy immediately. I'm not really great at things like that

[Billlewis]

I'm sure you'll handle it with ease;). Also, I just started following you and I'd be thrilled if you'd like to follow me as well, if that's alright 8.><3

[MikeTheBartender]

My first question is why do you want to get over it? Is it against the rules to get with him? Your other option is of course to focus on other guys, if you met a guy that you were really in love with you wouldn't even care about the teacher. Answer mine if you have a sec

What is your vision of heaven?

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

I doubt that this is more than an infatuation on your part, but if you genuinely like him, then at least wait until you're not his student anymore.

I'm sure that he's well aware of your feelings. If he's worth his moral salt (doesn't sound like it), then he'll at least wait until you're out of his class before trying to get sexual or start a relationship with you.

[LiamJHayden]

First, are you still in high school or are you in college? If in high school, it might be illegal even though you are of age. If college the school might have an automatic termination policy for that.

If neither situation is yours, then feel free to pursue.

[Lycirian]

The first question here is do want more with him that just chatting? That is the first and important question.

The second is, if yes, what actually do you want that should happened?

[Carina0]

I kinda dreaming about us kissing, hugging and more intimate... I mean I don't know, this feels wrong but also can't stop thinking about him. I do want something to happen but deep down I know that would be a bad thing considering how inappropriate this is

[Lycirian]

See listen to your feelings and calculate what can happen to you both if you get in a relationship with each other. The best thing is to talk about it if you get closer to a point where you feel that now we got to decide what we do now. Do we go that way together or we separate. I know it is tough and hard but you got choose and make decisions and do want to invest your energy into it to make it work and is he ready to do the same with you together.

[nonyabeez-wax]

Just wait till you graduate from whatever institution he works at.

After that, there is zero reasons for you to not persue him.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If you're both legal age, why worry about things my late mom's class-mate, Peggy, had a crush on her gynecologist, and he was way years older than her.

[HippoDino]

It's not terrible when you are both of age, I would recommend contacting him once you no longer have his class and seeing what happens from there.

[Jazzy54]

Young or not and single or not, this can get him fired. Therefore, wait until he’s not your teacher anymore.

[Anonymous]

Just bury it

That's what I did and I'm sure she knew about my feelings, she paired me up with a girl in the class who ended up liking me but I'd stumbled into a relationship by then so nothing happened

[andylakes09]

Pm me, I've got a pretty funny and interesting story about this i think you'll like 😂

[Bklynbadboy12]

Trust me he know we always know. Your not gonna get over him right now so get that out of your head. How can you get over him when you have to see him everyday?

[Carina0]

I don't see him everyday actually. Just two days a week. I honestly don't know what to do around him anymore

[Bklynbadboy12]

Message me I have some questions

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just out of curiosity what dod you do when your around him

[Carina0]

Lately I'm trying to stay away but this time he gets closer

[Carina0]

You can see the situation update on my new question

[Bklynbadboy12]

So what are you gonna do? How does he get closer

[Carina0]

He needs to know that he cannot manipulate me like this anymore. I don't care what he thinks, I will stay away from him right now, if he really cares about me maybe he will talk to me openly for the first time or he should just accept it and stay away.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Does he do this often 😳

[Carina0]

Every week. Enough to confuse me every single time

[Bklynbadboy12]

What does he do. Maybe he likes you too

[LostA__Aryen18]

That is always risky!
You need to accept that its not an appropriate relationship! :)
I know its hard though!

[Staximus]

Don't get him fired, wait until he's not your teacher

[JohnK123]

Lol what subject is ur teacher? How old r u? How old r they

[jjj101010]

I used to crush on a teacher for a long time.

[AmberSchneider]

just forget about him or go date someone else

[spartan55]

How does he flirt with you?

[Carina0]

After we talk, he makes jokes in class that he knows only I will understand. After seeing my reaction he continue with the class. I like the compliments he gives me all the time and the affectionate nicknames he calls me. Last week we were so close that whatever I'm feeling now is overwhelming because all I can think about when I'm this close to him is what it would be like to kiss him. It feels awful honestly

[spartan55]

Okay, you need to forget this. I can all but guarantee he isn't interested in you that way. You are projecting your feelings onto the situation.

[zeitgeist057]

Awful? Sounds fantastic. Why not continue to flirt and build tension? I LOVE being in this sort of situation. It is maddening, of course, but super exciting and pleasurable to me.

[boggboss]

By stop doing what your currently doing

[Anonymous]

Show him your boobs.

[Solo3k]

@BlackBeauty90 example A. Educate yourself

[BlackBeauty90]

@solo3k what you whining about troll?

[Solo3k]

@BlackBeauty90 typical democrat behavior.

You're already trying to invalidate my point by calling me a buzz word.

[BlackBeauty90]

@solo3k are you drunk?

[Solo3k]

@BlackBeauty90 still trying to invalidate. The Feeble brain of a college educated person.
Basically Trained monkeys

[ChefPapiChulo]

@BlackBeauty90 solo3k has frontal lobe damage.

[Solo3k]

@ChefPapiChulo and you suffer from dwarfism. Crazzy

Bro tryna make it. A 2 on one 💀🥱

[ChefPapiChulo]

solo3k tried to buy sex lol
Will you drop it like it's hot for me? ↗

[BlackBeauty90]

@solo3k hmm 😒 🤔 could be worse. I could be like you. Someone who is likely on welfare and contributes little to society

[BlackBeauty90]

@ChefPapiChulo I think it's more than that

[Solo3k]

@BlackBeauty90 keep telling yourself that

[ChefPapiChulo]

@BlackBeauty90 lmao

[BlackBeauty90]

@solo3k well since you refer to college educated people as trained monkeys that means you don't have an education. And by your grammar and spelling and attitude you likely don't have a job

[ChefPapiChulo]

@BlackBeauty90 he most def does not.

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

@ChefPapiChulo did you manage to fit that horror cock in, which tried to slither up your ass, or did you steal the rainbow dildo from @wilmareportu?

[WilmaReportu]

There is nothing more unsightly than a GaG fight. I'm going to thoroughly enjoy the rainbow vibrations while I report each and every one of you.

[BlackBeauty90]

@WilmaReportu Get a life troll

[Inbox]

@Реrverted_Сreeр @ChefPapiChulo

www.goodtherapy.org/.../why-should-i-go-to-therapy-8-signs-its-time-to-see-a-therapist

[Inbox]

LMFAO!!!

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox come on bro lets be real. you know you're severely disturbed.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo Forget your meds today?

[Inbox]

@BlackBeauty90 Yeah @perverted_Creep and @wilmareportu are the same person

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox Hey look its that freak.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo You're mentally ill for saying weird things, get help LOL

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox why do you type lol in caps? is that your mental illness? laughing hysterically at nothing.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo You're then the one in your mom's basement arguing with the voices in your head. They're the only people with your lonely ass!

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox you're insane.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo Those are some impressive psychologist skills, I thought you were an English major? How's the taco stand you work at by the way?

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox you're not even coherent.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo Oh, look who's suddenly the authority on trendy vocabulary. I apologize for not having the latest slang straight out of your little TikTok bubble. But guess what, grandmaster of modern linguistics, some of us don't spend our days scrolling through cringey dance challenges and rubbing one out to lip-syncing videos.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox holy shit dude that is cringe lmao. i'm not reading that crazy shit. just go get help.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo So... you can't read English? HAHAHA!!!

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox unhinged.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo stop drinking booze, think about your family. fix your weak will.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox i forgot all the cringe shit that you say lmao. you're a literal bot.

[WilmaReportu]

@Inbox Oh, hold your horses, Sherlock! You've cracked the case, haven't you? The brilliant mind behind the screen has discovered the biggest conspiracy of the century! Wow, give this man a medal! I mean, who would have thought that two usernames could belong to the same person? Truly mind-blowing detective work, Einstein. Now, please, enlighten us with more of your groundbreaking discoveries.

[WilmaReportu]

@BlackBeauty90 Oh, look who's suddenly the life coach! Tell me, Captain Obvious, how does it feel to dish out advice that you clearly can't follow yourself? I mean, you must be a real expert on having a life, spending your precious time here on the internet, engaging with trolls like me. But hey, thanks for the suggestion! I'll be sure to add it to my to-do list right under "Give a shit about your opinion." Now, if you'll excuse me, I have more important things to do, like being fabulous while you wallow in your mediocrity.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@WilmaReportu roast inbox again pls. i enjoy it.

[Inbox]

@WilmaReportu I’m sorry, I thought there was nothing more unsightly than a GAG fight? You’re an unfuckable loser whose mother 100% guaranteed shitted him out at a truck stop.

[WilmaReportu]

@ChefPapiChulo Who am I to deny you the pleasure of witnessing someone being verbally abused? So, here's a little something for you, you sick fuck: Inbox, you're like a mosquito buzzing in everyone's ear—annoying as hell, but ultimately insignificant. Keep enjoying the misery, you sadistic little shitstains.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo Your responses are boring, you can go now.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@WilmaReportu that was PERFECT.

[Inbox]

@WilmaReportu Yes, coming from the walking red flag who’s so desperate to get laid seeking attention on GAG simply to become a moderator must be proof on how smooth he must be with the ladies.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo That face of yours is far from perfect tho

[BlackBeauty90]

@WilmaReportu you have important things to do, don't make me laugh. You're a troll, an insignificant little bug in real life, who like many of the trolls on this form are here because you don't have anything in real life. You're more than likely jobless, barely graduated college, and have no real friends.

I mean what else but a loser comes on to a post that doesn't involve them and goes on that they will report everyone in an insignificant whining to make themselves feel important

[ChefPapiChulo]

@BlackBeauty90 he did completely roast inbox tho and inbox is a common enemy we all share.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo Listen here gorilla face, the zoo doesn’t open until 8am - back to the cages

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox whats your blood pressure at?

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo What’s your IQ level at?

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Inbox you're an actual bot. you cycle through the same stupid insults because you have repeating thoughts. it a symptom of your mental illness.

[Inbox]

@ChefPapiChulo Coming from the guy who keeps using “mental illness” insult over and over again, yeah, I’m totally the bot SMH the reality is that your ghetto trash living on welfare while parading around who is apparently a trained chef that works at a taco stand. Your insults are NOT funny or insulting, but super cringe.

[Pοrnytail]

@Inbox Oh, honey, you have no idea the kind of unspeakable horrors I've seen in my time. These horror cocks would turn you inside out, and not in the good way.

[Dilԁοphοbe]

@Pοrnytail Uh, guys? Can we please get back on topic? We're not supposed to be discussing horror porn, only insulting each other's personal lives.

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

@Dilԁοphοbe They're right, Dildophobe. Let's focus on the task at hand. Horror porn, where each cock is unique and twisted in its own special way. Some have razor-sharp teeth that bite down on your clit while others have glowing eyes that stare into your soul.

[Sodomite]

@Реrverted_Сreeр Ugh, fine. Let's talk about horror porn. I bet it's like taking a trip through hell, only this time the demons have giant, terrifying cocks.

[Pοrnytail]

Damn right, @sodomite. These horror cocks are like nothing you've ever seen before. I mean, they can grow tentacles, change shape, and even spew out acid. But the real question is, how do we make sure we capture all of these twisted and taboo details in our horror porn production?

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

@Pοrnytail Well, first we need to establish a mood. We want to create an atmosphere that's both sexy and scary. Think dim lighting, eerie music, and lots of shadows.

[Dilԁοphοbe]

@Реrverted_Сreeр Yes, and we also need to focus on the details. Every horror cock should be unique and have its own personality. Maybe one has a forked tongue that licks you to death while another has a barbed wire texture that scrapes against your insides.

[Sodomite]

@Coomer Ooh, I like that idea. It's like a reverse gangbang, but with horror cocks.

[Solo3k]

@ChefPapiChulo @BlackBeauty90 you lames reap what you sow 🥱

A mommas boy and a pseudo intellectual with the iq of a rock

[Dilԁοphοbe]

@solo3k I think they're too busy enjoying the afterglow after orgasming from the rainbow dildo which @Inbox stole from wilmareportu and sold them for the price of a house.

[Inbox]

@Dilԁοphοbe lol 😂