Where is good to touch a guy when kissing..?

[Anonymous]

As in the spirit of this site, want to get some guys (or girls) opinions on this.

If you're kissing a guy, where are good places to put your hands, especially to be more flirty? (please don't just say touch his junk)

I think with girls, there are more places that are seen as flirty/whatever (ass, boobs, thighs, lower back etc) but I don't feel guys have the same really.

So basically, what do you like, or guys you know like? This is a genuine question as I do often feel a bit lost with where to put my hands, so (if you can) hold back on sleaze, thaaaanks

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I mean, specifically, like if you want to be more flirty? Cause I'm sure it differs to girls..

[Anonymous]

I think you're confusing "flirty" touching with heavy petting. Start from a black slate and try this.

There are all these little parts that need attention. The lips want attention, but everything else is sort of ringing "on alert" while you're kissing. Try (lightly) touching the ears, face, neck, shoulders, chest, waist/back. Keep the touching light and slow. Lean into the kiss so other parts are making some contact, but you're not "grinding". Kiss with your eyes open and you'll see that he does the same thing to keep his visual going, lol. If his grip on you gets tighter or he sighs/groans, you're doing it right, but just be ready for way more action once you're revved him up. Guys, like cars, can't be left with their engines running. ;-)

[whuanting]

touching him very very softly on his back and chest and belly.actually no matter what places you touch are flirty when kissing.

[TedStar]

Generally speaking guys are good to go at any time so I would suggest you could touch him anywhere and go as far as you want or as far as you would like him to go on you

Some of my favourites included Neck, rubbing his back. If you are sitting down you could straddle and grind on his lap and like I said you can touch a guy almost anywhere and he will like it.

[Blueeyes300]

Unbutton his shirt and rub his chest, rub his shoulders, you can even stroke his face. Contact during kissing helps increase the intimacy. Good luck!

[MrKinddaNiceGuy]

When I'm kissing a girl I love it when the softly stroke my back up and down and touch my pecs.

[phonezoo]

It basically doesn't matter, men and women are both very sensitive everywhere on the body, so it's up to you what you want to do

[tommy2toneyack]

Fingers in the hair, back of the neck

[Paullus]

gently grab his shirt, pull him in close