some women have it in their heads that playing "hard to get" of being coy, is a good thing to win a man. that advice has always been so wrong.
the man clearly might have been into you, but you likely gave no VISIBLE sign that you liked or wanted him.
most men like the least amount of resistance. if you have 2 women, one "reserved" another throwing herself out there...most guys are gonna accept the the one who knows what she wants and goes for it.
my advise...either step up...or stand down...
remember "neutral" is not a direction!
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It's nothing that you're doing wrong - I would bet my last dollar on the fact that he probably figured there was less risk involved with asking the other girl out, since she clearly demonstrated her interest in him. He thought, "Wow, here's a girl that's obviously interested, no chance for rejection, score!". Keep being who you are, and you will meet a guy who's socially savvy enough to pick up on the subtle hints of interest that you employ - and more important, who will capitalize on them by asking you for a date. Good luck!
omg you sound exactly like me and I feel like this always happens to me!
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The other loud girl was an easier choice. Less Anxiety associated with asking her out makes it seem easier to get her when looking at things in the short term. If he did have feelings for you, he'll realize it later on and regret it, but otherwise there won't be much thought of you in his mind.
Well the guy was sure the other girl like him. So he went the easiest way, try to give more hints next time . good luck!
I just get too shy around girls and I can't talk to them.
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