Why does my boyfriend want to kiss me so bad?

[Sunshine44299]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. He has asked a few times if we could kiss. I would ask why then he would say because I am madly in love with u. Then I would say well I don't know not yet. A week or a few day would go by them he would ask again. I really want to kiss him but I know that I'm not ready even tho I keep telling myself I am. Next time he asks should I say yes?

[MissDashwood]

If you're having doubts, probably not. Time really means nothing in the running of the bases. People are going to be like, oh, it's been a month, you should kiss him. But whether its a month or a year, the way that you feel about it should be the determining factor. If you feel a desire to kiss him, that's a good sign. But until that desire overrules your reservations, I'd say just do what you feel like doing.

[Sunshine44299]

Well the thing is is that if I do my friends would think I'm a slut for kissing someone in middle school, and I know I should but I really care what friends think of me! I really want to but if I do then to many things will go wrong! :(

[MissDashwood]

Ah, I thought that this was odd coming from someone over 18.

I know that when you're in middle school your friends are always nosing their way into your business and judging you, but honestly, if they have a problem with you kissing your boyfriend, it's jealousy based. Kissing someone you're close to, even at your age, isn't slutty. Just do what feels right to you, and don't worry about what petty girls say. You don't even have to tell them if you don't want to; it's your business.

[Sunshine44299]

You know what you are so right!

[Castrated Virgin]

Hey Shelby its Matt again. There was one thing I wanted to ask your advice on. But id have to friend you to message. But if you don't want to talk to me that's okay.

[Castrated Virgin]

: /

[dsc2222]

If it feels right, then there is no reason to wait. A kiss is a way to share affection, but the feeling behind it doesn't always have to be love, though love does make it even more special. Even if you just care about him, you can kiss him. Do what feels comfortable to you.

[Sunshine44299]

But my friends will think I'm a slut because I kissed someone in middle school! I really care what they think of me

[Robotic]

Why do you care so much about them? you should care most about yourself

[Sunshine44299]

Ik I should car what my friend think of me it's just that they are really popular and what they think is really important because everyone else thinks what they think. Know what I mean?

[Sunshine44299]

I mean ik I shouldn't care but I do because they are very popular and whatever their thinking everyone else is think you know what I mean?

[foolycooly1001]

"I really want to kiss him but I know that I'm not ready even tho I keep telling myself I am."

That makes no f***ing sense.

[aGuyfromTexas]

Lmao I know right.. so complicated. I would Have been just straight up kissed the sh*t of out her.

[foolycooly1001]

I would dump you her if she didn't let me kiss her by the second date.

[Sunshine44299]

Well what if she is not ready like me?

[MissDashwood]

She's a kid.

[Shadoww]

His your boyfriend That's what's gonna happen

[Sunshine44299]

Thx for nothing that didn't help one bit!

[Shadoww]

It will happen lol Why aren't you ready for it? its not a big deal..