Broke up with boyfriend because he stayed out all night.. Was I wrong? (Page 2)

pishposh85 · 2013-05-06T15:05:32Z

For the past month, there have been 3 times where my boyfriend has stayed out all night. He doesn't text, he doesn't call. He just comes in the house around 10 or 11am the next day. When we initially moved together, him staying out all night was a problem. He apologized and hasn't done it for a while. Now, he's started again. The first time it happened this month, I didn't make a big deal because it wasn't a regular thing. This last time he's done it, I ended the relationship. He just keeps apologizing and nothing ever changes. When I asked him how he would feel if every time I went out with my friends, he didn't know if I would come back home that night. Of course he stated that he would be pissed, and blah blah blah. I have stayed and helped him with his drinking issues. I have compromised with him through all the times he stayed out all night last year, and I'm tired. I feel like he is disrespecting me, our home, and this relationship. I don't ask much from him, and even me asking this is too much. I'm sad and feel like just balling up in the covers listening to sad songs and crying myself to sleep. No, I don't want to be without him but I have to have respect for myself, and I demand respect from someone whom I have always respected. Was I wrong?

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You absolutely did the right thing.

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Nope. I make you 100% right.

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You weren't wrong. Avoid dating alcoholics.

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You were absolutely in the right!

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I think you did the right thing

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You should ask him If he has Free Will

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It doesn't seem that you were.

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Yes you did right

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