She thinks I'm desperate.

[Anonymous]

So there was this girl that was trying extremely hard to get my attention. She was doing everything in the book. She was going out of her way to chase me and flirt. So she did end up getting my attention and I ended up liking her. The problem is that I returned the attention she gave me but I over did it. Way over the top. I made myself too available. I fell real hard for this girl. Never fell this hard before(so embarassing). She ended up telling her friend I am too thirsty for her and desperate and I don't blame her. She avoided me today where I normally see her. She and her friends still call me attractive and hot so I still know that she is physically attracted to me but not my behavior. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

i never understand these kinda questions guys like you ask, may be women and men think differently the whole mars and venus thing, but why is it that men when they like a girl, they feel like the entire male race is watching him and judging him every second of the way, and you have to follow these rules or laws of what's desperate or what's clingy, its like who the f*** cares about these laws?! no one is judging you. why can't people be more mature in dating and love and keep it simple, if you like someone, go and pursue them and go and tell them! get an answer. if they like you great, if they dont, f*** it move on find a new girl. what's with this reputation around the process... that you're so concerned about, looking desperate and whatnot?! are you being taped in a reality show on mtv or something that people are gonna remember you for being desperate that one darn day with this girl?! or are you actually gonna man up and live in reality, and say hey I'm gonna take this girl out for a dinner date we may fall in love one day and she may be my wife someday and our kids are gonna be angels?

zap out of it and live in reality!

[inna-mazing]

we all want what we can't have. it's the thrill of the chase. if you pull back with out expressing sadness or anger, like you could care less if you had her because she is not the only girl in the world- she will be the one desperate to get all your attention. but do you really want to be with someone who plays mind games?

[Anonymous]

back all the way off that's all you can do. act like you aren't interested and completely ignore her but don't act pouty or mad and don't be mean about it. if she talks to you talk to her but casually and if you can end the conversation first do that it may take some time for her to see you aren't desperate so don't change your course let her come to you it won't be easy but it's your only chance. Don't go begging to her to give you another shot that you fell too hard etc BAD IDEA imo.

[mcmcmcmc]

Tell her you over reacted that you wanted to show her how much you love her ,but you didn't know how to do it because it has never happened to you before . also say that you'll try to keep your feelings to yourself from now and that you hope she still likes you. and then give her some time to think about it.

[lauramor]

Let her get some air, have her soace and just hope for the best

[dommage]

try to tell her that you got overexcited and that you won't act the same as you have acted right now. So she knows you aren't really like that.