Is this right? I asked my boyfriend to rate me out of 10, and received a low score. Should I be angry/upset? (Page 2)

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So I suffer from bdd ( body dysmorphic syndrome) which basically means I obsess about my body, I never see my self in a postive way and I obsess about being fat, dieting and aim to be perfect :( as stupid as that sounds that is a mentally disorder and can become very serious. (Most people don't understand haha)anywayyyyy So I asked my boyfriend to firstly to rate my boobs out of 10 , (I have E sized boobs) he said "8/10 , bigger is better , if I had it my way I would have you with back breaker boobs" Then I said "what would you rate my body out of 10" he said "mmmm 8" when I asked why he responded with " your hips could be bigger and your bum bigger " So I am a size 8-10 , busty , short, squat bum ... I exercise a hell of a lot... But there is always something I want to improve.I am one to make my boyfriend happy , I want to have the perfect body , make him drool over me and not keep his hands off me . He does say I have a nice body and I'm beautiful etc but ouch ... This comment kinda hurt. I ended up crying for a while, he said sorry I didn't realize you were this bad , then went on to tell me he thinks my body is perfect . Sure enough, I don't believe a single word of that, and I have been googleing perfect "bum" "body" and "boobs" for the past 24 hours . The thing is , I hate my tummy, its flat but not flat enough, my big boobs and bum and legs are the things I love most and I'm proud of ... So its really hurt me :/ I'm not sure what to think or do or how to take it :/ Help ? Advice ? Also I would like to know who was morally right here ... He thought it was unfair that I backed him into a corner ... But that's what girls do ? If he didn't pick up on that , then that was his bad ... It's like a test ... I would have preferred "your perfect to me, I'm not eating you, that's silly" but then ... His response ... Was that right for him to say that to me ? Should bfs be allowed to say that ? He knows how insecure I am . Please Help boys ! X

Anonymous · Answer

yes, you should be a ten for him

adamfk1 · Answer

try being a very ugly 0 like me

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