She's mad I don't give her attention!

[Anonymous]

Hey.

So my ex dumped me a little over 2 months ago, for the first few weeks I tried everything to get her back which just pushed her away. I tried the I love you, lets work on it, etc...She loved me, but said wasn't in love with me and wanted to be friends.

So then I completely changed up my approach, and began No Contact. Well for the last 7 weeks are so, I gotten a hold of my emotions, got confident and been going out. I'm sure she's noticed. Every time I ran into her she started acting like I broke up with her...seemed kind of sad and not really responding much to the quick "Hey how are ya". Anyway, a few weeks ago I feel like she was trying to get my attention by deleting pictures of myspace, flirting with other guys, and putting up different statuses that related to various love/break up songs (or so I think)

Anyway, now I found out she deleted me as a friend from myspace even when she wanted to be friends with me in the first place. What does this mean? By doing all those things, was she trying to get my attention hoping I would notice, and call her up...and now she completely deletes me because she's mad that I don't give her the attention? Does she still love me, and now got mad that I didn't react to any of those things?

I still lover her, but I really have no idea what to do. All the help appreciated!

[Summer123]

yeah I'm trying the SAME thing..first I used to call him drunk and cry to him and he would be very nice and talk to me for HOURS about how sorry he was but he just doesn't know what he wants right now and can't give me his allll like 100% right now..so now I'm trying the opposite..i haven't talked to him online sinse this past weekend...when he usually Ims me or I would have something funny to tell him because we are still friends...and now he came up to me in schoool and is asking his friends if I bug them still about him? I hope he doesn't totally ditch me..i am hoping he's starting to miss me which is what I'm sure your plan was toooo!

[Shlei3]

I don't think she still loves you. She may have love for you; she is probably thought that you were done with her so she is trying to start fresh. She expected you to be friendly with her instead of still being in love with her. Whatever her reason is I would say let it go because she obviously is.

[BirdofParadise]

In my opinion, she is mad a you for not contacting her. I did the same thing with my ex who dumped me for someone else and it really upset him. People want to be wanted, and by not contacting her you really slapped her ego.

[Yassen22]

I'am in the same situation, our stories are similar she is posting posts on facebook like i didn't care enough for her and when she felt that other women likes me she started trying to make me jealous through her posts, and now she is trying make it all my fault and that i don't deserve her. But you know i think women are selfish they only care for what they need w/e is the Consequence's. So what ever the result is be proud of yourself and be sure that you did everything the perfect way.

[Anonymous]

Here's an idea,just be yourself.

And I am not surprised when you told your girlfriend you loved her didn't work.

People throw around I love u,that's a biggie did you try showing you mean it?

I'd just write her off and move plenty of other chicks out there

And why stress over 1 chick?

Was she the best lay?

[Asker]

Bro, I treated her like a queen! I tried everything to get her back, but I was just being more "clingy" and drove her away, I think. So now I do the opposite, and she acts as if though I dumped her.