Is it weird to eat alone at a fancy restaurant by yourself?

[Anonymous]

Yes I need at least one person with me

No this is completely fine

[Light909090]

Is it weird to Live alone And put food in the microwave alone you should of asked that question because your question isn’t about it being weird By eating by yourself at a restaurant your question has to do with being alone in general you Think that maybe it’s weird that people live life alone eat by themselves sleep by themselves maybe you think those that are alone because they deserve it but somewhere in your past Something happened to you that made you not like being alone maybe you Think people judge you when your alone or maybe you hate on lonely people because your not lonely maybe you think people who are alone are miserable or Depressed maybe you think a person can only love themselves if they aren’t alone that Having people in your circle is good people to count on and lonely people don’t have Anybody and you think that’s a bad thing


Loneliness is only bad if the person doesn’t know how to be lonely
Sadness can happen if Someone is alone maybe you are alone or sad because your lonely maybe relationships never work out or you had a chance and you blew it maybe your so lonely and trying to figure out how to not be Alone or lonely. The question is not about Us it’s about you Your looking for something I can only Say the possibilities of what it might be but ultimately you are the one to know how you feel nobody else feels what you feel every person on this earth has there struggles there pain there love or happiness there anger or hatred but nobody feels pain or emotions or empathy or anything for that matter the same everyone processes everything differently No 2 people are going to feel the same way about something they may feel guilt at same time but people even experience guilt differently some people feeling guilty makes them sick and they throw up 🤮 and feel Physical pains that last for so long
Guilt can also cause someone to develop heart disease 🦠 from all the stress everyone is different no 2 will feel same way.

[Light909090]

But no eating alone at the dinner table by yourself is not Weird It’s what we do when we Are by ourselves which makes it not Weird

[Light909090]

Eating alone instead of a group can symbolize Independence that the person is eating alone because they like to be alone because they like themselves

Best of luck to you
If you are lonely it’s alright to be alone read a book channel your loneliness into something productive instead of Focusing all your energy on other and there problems focus on what you need to do to do better
To be a good person It’s not about doing favors for someone who will be ungrateful it’s about doing things to help you you were born into this world alone as 1 being Therefor you have to learn to live alone to survive then Eventually Thrive alone co depending on others is a dark path waiting to happen do you know why they call it selfish
And selfless
Selfless is doing things without a self that’s why people who are really selfless can and do experience pain by there acts of Perceived kindness but it’s not Kindness if the selfless act hurts yourself
It’s only Good it’s only kindness if Your not hurt in the process
Selfish is doing things for yourself that benefit yourself Being an individual taking more of what’s good for you.
That’s the difference between selfish and selfless

[Light909090]

Many people call Selfishness Evil because They don’t benefit off of someone’s selfishness they call morals this and morals that but morality isn’t about goodness it’s based in Im not benefiting off of you therefore your selfish
In essence People who ride on a moral horse 🐎 are one of the most immoral people there is they will talk a good game but when it really comes down to helping someone they will make up an excuse a lie to get out of helping that person. Morality is your evil if I’m not benefiting from you.
Best of luck to you and your Journey through life.
Only got one life make good informed decisions never make a decision unless you know 1000% that you won’t be fucked over by your decision or decisions

[Light909090]

And I’m not talk about thinking that your decisions won’t fuck you over I’m talking about truly knowing your decision or decisions won’t fuck you over everything we do or say is our Fault everything is preventable with proper Knowledge and intelligence and Analysis 🧐 decision making and all

[Ehjoh1]

You deserve to treat yourself and enjoy some alone or relaxing time, after all it's your life and nobody can rightfully complain about it if you spend your own money there!!

[Cynicaldreamer]

Not at all!
If I'm paying good money to eat out at a nice restaurant, do you think I care about what people think about me?

Only if they're offering to pay the bill, lol.

I've eaten out alone plenty of times. I actually prefer eating alone: I can eat my food in peace without someone talking my ear off (I hate people that talk to you nonstop when they clearly see you're trying to eat a meal).
Honestly no one cares or even pays attention to you unless you're looking for attention.

[Pinay_ako]

No and why not? I love my own company so might as well splurge on me, myself and I.

[Still-alive]

ill splurge with you heh :P

[Pinay_ako]

@Still-alive yassss nom nom nom 🤤

[Still-alive]

*slurges on you* hehe ;)

[Pinay_ako]

Thanks for the MHG 💕

[Moose304]

Without coming off as a jerk what I do is not anybody's business BUT MINE! Yes, I eat alone sometimes. It is difficult not to when I am in Europe working on a job. Let me tell you something else. I rather eat alone than be with somebody whose heart or mind is not there. One of the most horrible feelings is to be in a crowded room and feel alone. Also, some people eat alone because they just lost their partner and get tired of eating at home all the time. I recently spoke to a female friend who is going through the loss of her husband to cancer. She was in a local fancy restaurant eating alone. You should NEVER and I mean NEVER question why a person is eating alone!

[Asker]

I agree.

[20yearsolder]

I don't see the issue. If that's the place that I'm wanting to eat at, I don't need somebody sitting across the table from me. I'm there to enjoy the meal

[Asker]

Exactly!!

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Nah.

Treating yourself to a solo date night is amazing. I love going out for my favourite fancy foods (most often sushi) on my own. Plus I usually get to sit at the bar and watch them prepare it.

[Lynn7dsd]

No. I do it all the time without a second thought. I moved across the country by myself. I go out all the time alone. However, going out to bars and clubs by yourself is extremely unsafe. Also, if you live alone, make sure you have full proofed your apartment or house to stave off men. Adopt a doggy too. Its a big deterrent for robbers. carry pepper spray. but you should be enjoying your life whether someone is by your side or not.

[NewsReader]

It's viewed as weird but shouldn't be.

So I don't feel like cooking home food tonight. I want to have a professional cook the food for me and serve it to me. What's wrong with that? Nothing. But people see fancy restaurants as a place for dating or family gatherings. I almost never go to restaurants so I've never gone to one by myself. Maybe I will try it someday and see the response.

[AviatorTom]

Not weird at all. I used to travel a lot on business... by myself, and often ate at fancy restaurants by myself. There were other businessmen and businesswomen who did the same. Occasionally, I'd ask one of them to join me, and we had interesting discussions.

[Lucychen]

Lol, yes, if it is a business trip, certainly can not avoid this problem, if it is a person at home to eat, I may be more do-it-yourself

[Ian69]

I eat out alone all the time and I love it. I can walk to the restaurant if I want to have a drink, otherwise I’ll drive to it. I been going there on and off since it was built.

[Dingsbums]

They might think u write reviews and treat u especially well😂

[Asker]

This is acrually really interesting, never thought of that😂

[Asker]

*actually

[KittyBox]

Depends entirely on the food, if it's a fancy restaurant that's expensive and serves tiny portions and the food quality is terrible, then yes there's something wrong with you.

However if the food is amazing, then it's the same as dining at a café by yourself.

[CarolineW]

If you travel all the time in your work, you have to eat alone. In hotels, I tend to have room service, but not always, I'll sometimes eat alone in a restaurant. Loads of people do the same, it's not weird.

[menina]

I would say it's fine. We don't have to always have company.

[MCheetah]

I used to do that every single weekend in Seoul! A new restaurant, every Saturday.

[Msputiton]

Weird is the wrong word.

Less common.

And yes it's completely fine.

Someone really has to be petty to judge someone for this

[mxdchc]

My knee jerk reaction is yes. Not to be judgmental, that's just the way I feel, wish I didn't. It's not weird to go eat somewhere where you order your food at the counter and have your laptop with you working on something alone, but eating alone at a restaurant in any other situation seems weird to me. Just my opinion.

[Hardworkingguy]

I used to work in a restaurant like that and many female customers had dinner alone. Some were quite attractive. Made me wish I was lucky enough to sit there having dinner with them.

[TroyDT]

It is definitely better than taking out some disinterested food whore who is only there for the free meal.

[Sour-rose]

No. Ya know just... dress up like you have a date to not be walkin' in casually with jeans and a shirt. You gonna feel so outta place xD

[FreyaRed]

Nope. I don't think I look that bad so I had problems to find company for a dinner If I wanted to.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Just remember you are never alone if you have imaginary friends & some people bring those friends to restaurants as well.

[Ironic_Method]

There's a stigma around it, but it should be normalized. Like going to the movies solo.