Girls, Please Stop Trying to Establish Superiority Over Men

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm not trying to offend anyone, I'm just going to make a point. I always hear women claiming to be morally and biologically superior to men. That's all wrong, the truth is that neither sex is superior over the other. It's not right for one sex to try establish dominance over the other. Before you read this, please know that I'm not talking to every woman, I know not every woman thinks like this. I'm only talking to the ones that do think like this.

1.) Please stop thinking that you have men figured out

Women seem to think that they have men all figured out. They think that men are get sexually aroused just by looking at a beautiful woman. When that's not true. Quit acting as if men are less complicated than you.

2.) Please quit acting as if only women care about men's well being

Good job if you are a woman that cares about a man's well being, it's appreciated. To those that think they are the only one that care about men, please stop thinking like that. Please quit acting as if men don't care about their own gender. There is a reason why Men's rights activism is a movement. It's meant to fight misandry. Quit thinking that feminists care about men. Only the Men's rights activists and true Egalitarians care about men's well being.

3.) Please stop shaming men's masculinity

Masculinity in men has to do with how they dress, behave and how their overall body looks. Please stop telling men to dress less masculine, please stop telling men to be less masculine.

4.) Please stop thinking that men are morally inferior

I don't get why women think they have more morals than men. Most men have just as much morals as you do but you are too obsessed with establishing dominance over men that you ignore the morals that men have. You act as if all men are "thirsty" or "perverted" when most men aren't like that.

5.) Please stop treating men like oxen

You always claim that men objectify women's bodies, well there are women that treat men like oxen. You might not like how men's bodies look because only view men like tools. You expect men to do everything for you. Overworking a sentient being is cruel. I'm not saying it's okay to be lazy but just don't treat men like some kind of tool.

6.) Please stop telling men that they were originally female before they were born

Just cause both men and women start of with one "X" chromosome doesn't mean that they are both instantly women. This stage is called the gender neutral stage, the genders aren't formed until the second chromosome activates. A sperm carries a "Y" or "X" chromosome so if a "Y" sperm reaches the egg then the baby will be male, if the "X" sperm reaches the egg then the baby will be female.

7.) Please stop thinking violence against men is okay

You always complain about violence against women but whenever a man suffers violence you think it's a joke. Violence against anyone is not a good thing.

8.) Please stop thinking that sexual aggression against men is okay

You also complain about women being victims of sex crimes but you laugh whenever a man suffers a sex crime, you think it's not serious. You might even think a man is immune to sex crimes. A lot of men suffer sex crimes but they stay quiet because of people like you.

https://www.watchthis.com/story/culture/2016/10/21/3-women-force-man-car-gunpoint-and-rape-him-and-then-things-went-bad-worse

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/8848087/Female-grope-attack-mugger-jailed-after-targetting-lone-men.html

If you truly want both and women to live happily together then stop trying to establish a matriarchy. I want both men and women to live happily together.

[Anonymys]

As a girl, I absolutely loved this take, it really rings true for a lot more of us than we would readily admit. I saw some of these in myself, it's always important to be introspective and aware of where thoughts come from, because thoughts turn into actions, and actions affect others. When you're hurting others you're really just hurting yourself, freedom is for all of us, you're not free if you have to hold someone else back, you can't say you're for equality if you're only in it to boost yourself, you can't say you're a leader if you only know how to get things done by tearing people apart, misandry is not what feminism is about, but now we've gone from seeking to vote to demanding men to reduce themselves and it's helping Noone and is not okay just because we had to settle for years of subordination. Hitting back does not heal the scar or fix the problem in the first place, it opens a new wound and continues the cycle. My ancestors suffered slavery for centuries, you don't see me chaining and whipping Caucasian people or stuffing reverse racism down their throats anytime they try to speak, because being a survivor only means I learned from someone else how NOT to treat people and what true strength is, it does NOT mean I am going to blame or punish other people for my allowing one person's mistakes to have so much power over me that I treat trust and respect like bargaining tools and define myself and others by my fears, it does NOT mean I am going to distract myself from my healing process by hurting someone else to get matching scars, it does NOT give me the authority to victimize. Anyway, great take, thank you for your honesty and keep it up, noone made a difference by diluting truth.

[Tony1974]

Much respect for speaking up. I love how you said " I learned from someone else how NOT to treat people." It's amazing how many teachable moments that can come from people who show you the wrong way to go about life. Like you, I've learned from other's experience what not to do.

I always try to be smarter than the average bear; doesn't always work out that way but I try to learn by not making the same mistakes others have... and sharing my hard found knowledge with anyone who will listen and is willing to learn. Sure hope there are more ladies out there like yourself. Maybe someday we could have true equality, where nobody is competing against one another for "rights" or privilege

[Fathoms77]

Maybe it's geographical or something. I read these things totally taken aback because I've never met ANY women who do or say any of these things.

Or maybe it's an age thing. Maybe this is a new thing happening in the teens and 20-somethings and those pushing 40 like me just... I don't know, grew up, or grew a common sense, or grew a rational brain, or something.

Or maybe I'm just good at avoiding these types of women so I never interact with them. :P

[ADFSDF1996]

It might be georgraphical, there are a lot of them here in California.

[Fathoms77]

That wouldn't surprise me, I guess. I hear ridiculous things about that state.

[Gommers]

It's an issue more of age than of location. You'd have noticed this if you were a part of the girl power 90s kids shit. I'm in the midwest and women everywhere from 29 all the way down to early 20s that I've dated are all about the female superiority shit. Luckily I finally found a girl that wants to be girly and cook, clean, be a partner. It took me years of dating to realize that I really do want a classic girl and they really are 1:1000000.

I can assure you sir, it is not regional.

[Fathoms77]

@Gommers Well, I'm still not sure if it's an age thing or a generation thing... maybe even when all those women in their 20s now reach my age, they'll have matured a bit. It's interesting how both men and women tend to want to adopt more "classic" gender roles and traits as they get older. ;)

[Gommers]

Yeah dude, I'll be honest though, I've always wanted to find a classic woman. I'm not even a conservative guy, I just didn't want the hassle of dealing with dishonest women or accidentally getting a fling pregnant. Still ended up dealing with a lot of dishonest women.

[XRabbitHeartX]

1. Do you know how many men think they have women all figured out? I literally have had this happen to me almost daily here. Some men think they actually know more about the female biological system claiming BS about how a vagina works despite me saying their beliefs are false. This goes both ways. Too many dudes think they have women figured out too. A girl rejects them? Oh ALL women must be into bad guys and hate nice guys.

2. So wait, a feminist can't care about men but a men's right cause can somehow care about women? How about you stop thinking you know every single feminist and practice what you preach by the exact point you spoke about in the first one. You literally just contradicted yourself.

3. Agreed yes, it's wrong to make guys feel like less manly for certain things but you know how many guys also call other men "gay" for example for certain things. I'd say both genders can be more mindful.

4. Agreed, yes women can also fall into the same trap of thinking that all men are pervs for the actions of few. It's a wrong mindset.

5. " You expect men to do everything for you." Come on now. You know this is bullshit. Do you know how many women are actually working in today's world and contributing but yet some man hate on these women for being independent and view this as a"feminist" trait. Some men don't like career women but then in the same breath whine about having to pay. It's like dafuq you want.

6. I don't really know if this a "thing"

7. Agreed.

8. I don't think it's just woman who shut down men over the rape thing. Do you know how many guys also say a guy can't be raped? I've seen it so many times. I don't think any rational and smart woman will actually think a man can't be the victim of a sex crime and I think you are exaggerating a LOT on this point. It's not just woman to blame for this.

You made points I agree with but a lot of this are actually very exaggerated and only aim to point fingers at women while you yourself contradicted yourself at times and forget how many men are involved too.

[chigurl33]

A lot of girls do think this way. They may disguise it as standing up for themselves but it happens a lot in many different subtle forms, which makes guys feel strangely violated or taken advantage of. I know a lot of girls who think , men have no moral compass and think with their other heads and were literally made to be taken advantage of. Even if you 11675 years old and you act this way, you're a girl because no real woman would act like this.

And I don't care what you've justified this as.

[John_Lion_84]

Where do you mytake writers live? I've been reading outrageous takes on subjects that only exisit in the setero type kingdom.
I do understand things are different when you live in other countries but when i read such takes makes me feel that the movie planet of apes is kinda real, but whith humans instead of apes. There is always communication and misunderstanding.
Sure what you wrote is real, but how bad is it? I live in Sweden and we are barely 10 million, so what ever procent these people are, they are not that much.

[ManOnFire]

Some of what you say is true. The rest I've never heard of, but yeah in some sense you're right. In a subconcious way women do do this kind of thing and don't notice it because they don't believe they're doing it, or pretend they're not doing it, so it's invisible to them. They're only focused on what "years of patriarchy" have done to the point where they don't care about taking men seriously.

[AleDeEurope]

Agreed. And many of these points can be applied to men too. There's many men who also think it's no biggie to sexually assault a man, or men who go around saying that being masculine is toxic.

[cipher42]

Literally no one does this though. Like tbh the same kind of people do this as believe in traditional gender roles for women. Like there's very little overlap between the people who say "men should be tough and useful and incapable of pain" and those who say "women should be respected and not objectified". So you really can't rationally pin this kind of attitude on women as a whole.

[kaylaS91]

... I'm just going to assume that this is a satirical take. The only people I've ever heard doing any of the things listed above were men complaining about 'all the women' who do such things, yet seemingly in a dimension outside of anyone else's awareness.

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm not speaking to every woman, I'm talking to the few that think like this.

[kaylaS91]

... well, with the first word of he title being 'girls', that implies this take being directed at ALL girls. You really should've specified that you wrote this huge list towards only a specific few. Or, better yet, you should've sent this to them in a pm or just told them how you felt in rl. 👌

[ADFSDF1996]

I messed up on the title but I'm just trying to show how some people think. I'm sure the ones that think like this, don't use this website.

[kaylaS91]

I agreed with all of your points. I'm just saying that the implication of it applying to all women is false as I've yet to do any of those things myself, or see any woman do it in rl.

[ADFSDF1996]

I'm not applying to all women, I just worded the title wrong.

[Anonymous]

Woman, Please Stop Trying to Establish Superiority Over Men.
Or you'll get this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvv_CQ3QHp8https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3f7EBEQCBHchttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFiF9_WG0UY

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

The only ones I here constantly are the whole violence and sexual aggression being deemed "acceptable". Those people are idiots to say the least. The rest of these things I've heard of but not often. No one is superior to another, some peeps just don't get that. Jesus people are stupid af 🙄.

[LivingLife94]

Well I do not, but I do dominate guys in the bedroom sometimes

[ADFSDF1996]

There is nothing wrong with "kinky dominance" some guys like being submissive.

[ADFSDF1996]

You should be friends with @Femdomina

[Femdomina]

LOL, okay, thanks for the mention :P

[EnslaveMenForever]

I believe men should know their place. I am a woman in Uganda and I have enslaved several men. They live in the basement in the Big House and come at my beck and call. If they fail they are beaten. It is much better for them this way. Otherwise they would be much poorer in our community and they do not harass the women.

[Imhotep99]

https://i.imgur.com/SdP4oYu.gif

[Browneye57]

Right on. Thanks!

Third wave feminism has not helped women. They are ruining it for themselves. Unless things change there are going to be a LOT of lonely people. The men actually do better than the women, at least they can change a light bulb or the oil in their car. LOL. J/K. But you get the point - what do women do when they can't do or fix something? They call a man!

[TheDevilInside]

Lol centuries of patriarchy has shown us that men are clearly the ones who try to "Establish Superiority Over women". Quit whining like a little delusional bitch and playing the victim. You are only crying like a baby cause now we finally are starting to turn the cards over

[ADFSDF1996]

You quit whining, if you don't like it then leave.

[Tdieseler]

@kellyg83 entitled... key word.

[Love_Is_Eternal]

The onlypower women have is the power that men give them. The only reason the government gives women power is to destroy the family unit. Women were never meant to have authority. They cannot handle power.

[kellyg83]

@Love_Is_Eternal ok. You're not making this any better.

[Love_Is_Eternal]

@kellyg83 what the hell are u on about?

[TheDevilInside]

@Love_Is_Eternal @kellyg83 get a fucking room and quit fighting on my comment.

[Hidden_P]

I agree with this post is I was a man.

I object because you have written as though no woman accepts this. Thanks. I try to be open minded but cheers x

[ASEXY]

I never had any woman trying to establish superiority over me.

[chigurl33]

They have no reason to, you're asexual... you can literally never be more than friends.

[bbch25]

@chigurl33 A girl can still say she's better than him as a person. The take was about females in general not ONLY females in relationships. Asexuals can still be affected by problems in society like equality.

[Jamesol1]

''biologically superior to men''
The IQ is more varied for men. To put it short there are more VERY clever men but also more VERY dumb men. So the IQ evens out. But when it comes to the best of the best... there is a reason why men dominate top job positions especially in maths and science.
Go look up studies and reports if you dont believe me... or go seek out lies on huffington post and buzzfeed.

[ADFSDF1996]

Buzzfeed is said to be a very biased website.

[Jamesol1]

It is a nazi feminist site. Apparently men accused of rape should be 'guilty until proven innocent'.

[ADFSDF1996]

Those are called "SJW" websites.

[Anonymous]

I never met anyone who believed any of this stuff. I have met guys who believe women are morally superior but we're not. Women and men are just different, one isn't better then the other... both are needed in order to biologically make more.

[ADFSDF1996]

The guys that believe that "women are morally superior" are what we call "white knights".

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay...
The guys I met that believed it definitely didn't believe it in order to protect women it was used to slut shame them but to each their own.

[Opinion Owner]

*I haven't met women who believed any of that I met... only a small handful of men and thank goodness for that because it wasn't a huge number.

[Elarra]

Literally everything you listed, men do to women, too. It goes both ways, sir.

[ADFSDF1996]

Not so much anymore.

[Elarra]

Yes, so much.

[ADFSDF1996]

What I'm saying is that most men aren't the way you say they are.

[Elarra]

Most women aren't the way you say they are.

[ADFSDF1996]

I know that, read the beginning.

[ADFSDF1996]

I don't like misandry, that's why I wrote this.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Not really, not with the same consequences. If a woman hits a man, she was defending herself. If a man hits a woman, jail. Men don't task women with chores like a human tool using sexuality to act as motivation but women do. Holy shit, having an opinion as a guy is either labeled as mansplaining or an invitation to start personally attacking him. Guys try to "neg" but that's shit doesn't work and only assholes use PUA techniques when trying to meet someone. Meanwhile women get to dismiss men for difference of opinion as "Hitler" and no one bats an eye.

[Anonymous]

I like this take. Agreed. A lot of them play bs mind games even to their friends.

See this for instance and opine if u can: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2200664-why-do-girls-read-reply-later-on-whatsapp-even-to-friends-potential

[SovereignessofVamps]

Umm, I think this mostly comes from other guys. Guys already do whatever women want for them pretty much, so we don't have to say anything, srsly.

[CancerianMan81]

women shouldn't get special treatment anymore