Well you DID just get divorced. Maybe you ought to just give yourself some time to recover before putting yourself in situations where you will ghost people. It's crazy to think about people meeting on this website though
1) I feel sorry for you and all you've had to deal with 2) Regretting a relationship is not a good reason to ghost people. Other people have feelings and ghosting is just an excuse to not say "Sorry i don't feel the same way". 3) That chart is complete B. S. You're telling me 36% of men have never been ghosted OR ghosted someone? That's a lie 10 times over.
God bless you. It sounds like you was so in love with him. He definitely was not in love with you. As you know now sometimes love hurts. Healing will come then wisdom.
1) Where is the source for the information in that graphic at the bottom? 2) I'm sorry to hear about your uncle but I'm still not really sure how or why it's related to being shitty to other people.
Good example of a cautionary tale of believing and listening to one's self. At least you saw it in time to get out with little physical damage. Good that you did. Reading It sounds like you are stronger for it.
What do you expect of marriage after 4 months of dating? How well do you know someone after 4 months? It was a dumb move
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The last third you want to do is “harbour hate and anger for him”. What you’re REALLY saying is “Here, why don’t you have ALL my power”. He was meant to teach you a lesson and you learned that lesson pretty well. See it for what it is and release your hate and anger and look onto better times. Good luck 💝
Ahh, I am not sure if you remember me, and my story, anyway, the only thing I can say is... Give yourself all the time to heal and fuck dating for now. I surely know how you feel. You felt that you knew him, you both talked almost everyday, for hours. The thought that he was the right one made sense, so much that you decided to meet him in person, then get married. I would have gone for the same also. Long story, I could tell you more. My point, the old school dating is the best school. It takes more time, yes, it doesn't give you that space LDR gives you, but it puts all your senses to work, and only by using all our senses we can truly determine who would be a right partner for us. Also, with the old school dating there is no chance of making up preconceptions, you get once for all what you experience, there is no perfect profile pic, pretty phrases, written words, only the real deal, no BS.
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Well you DID just get divorced. Maybe you ought to just give yourself some time to recover before putting yourself in situations where you will ghost people. It's crazy to think about people meeting on this website though
Still working on the divorce part. I'm just saying in general I'll ghost people now 👻
Eh... being ghosted sucks. I get why people do it, but it's just not how I choose to do things
1) I feel sorry for you and all you've had to deal with
2) Regretting a relationship is not a good reason to ghost people. Other people have feelings and ghosting is just an excuse to not say "Sorry i don't feel the same way".
3) That chart is complete B. S. You're telling me 36% of men have never been ghosted OR ghosted someone? That's a lie 10 times over.
The guy you mention is arrogant jealous dumb creature not applicable for society. Hope you have good future though avoid such creature
Marrying an arsehole isn't a reason to ghost people. You don't only have two options: marry or ghost.
God bless you. It sounds like you was so in love with him. He definitely was not in love with you. As you know now sometimes love hurts. Healing will come then wisdom.
Sounds like a typical sociopath. Gaslighting, isolating you. Sorry you had to go through that bullshit.
1) Where is the source for the information in that graphic at the bottom?
2) I'm sorry to hear about your uncle but I'm still not really sure how or why it's related to being shitty to other people.
This is not a ghosting story. This is about abuse you suffered. Counseling would be a better way to deal with this pain.
Good example of a cautionary tale of believing and listening to one's self. At least you saw it in time to get out with little physical damage. Good that you did. Reading It sounds like you are stronger for it.
What do you expect of marriage after 4 months of dating? How well do you know someone after 4 months? It was a dumb move
The last third you want to do is “harbour hate and anger for him”. What you’re REALLY saying is “Here, why don’t you have ALL my power”. He was meant to teach you a lesson and you learned that lesson pretty well. See it for what it is and release your hate and anger and look onto better times. Good luck 💝
This is not about ghosting, it's about not dating and marrying an asshole.
What's his GaG username?
@reventon4
Hahaha
@hi_it_is_me123 Did I make a joke?
Did you seriously mention his username? Hahsv
@hi_it_is_me123 Yeah
Omg hahaha you are the weirdest guy i have met on gag. How do you find him?
@hi_it_is_me123 How do you know of him?
I dont. Therefore, I am asking you how you find him haha
@hi_it_is_me123 Who the hell said it was actually him?
check your inbox
@Joker_
Damn talk about putting someone on blast. lol
Hahahahsja thst is so funny
@joker you said it, you idiot. Man you are such a funny troll
Ghosting people especially players isn't wrong lol you dont have to text them back so i ghost alot😂 and sorry that happened to u hun
You are 20 and marry a guy you barely know? Are you out of your mind? But i am happy, you moved on
yeah I was. But we had known each other for two years long distance. talked almost every day, for hours a day sometimes. I felt that I knew him.
Ahh, I am not sure if you remember me, and my story, anyway, the only thing I can say is... Give yourself all the time to heal and fuck dating for now. I surely know how you feel. You felt that you knew him, you both talked almost everyday, for hours. The thought that he was the right one made sense, so much that you decided to meet him in person, then get married. I would have gone for the same also. Long story, I could tell you more. My point, the old school dating is the best school. It takes more time, yes, it doesn't give you that space LDR gives you, but it puts all your senses to work, and only by using all our senses we can truly determine who would be a right partner for us. Also, with the old school dating there is no chance of making up preconceptions, you get once for all what you experience, there is no perfect profile pic, pretty phrases, written words, only the real deal, no BS.
It's cruel and very immature. I have to much pride and compassion to do that it takes a text or a call not a ten mile hike
So, basically, you're ready to hurt people who did nothing to you, because one guy did something bad?
I'll read through this later
You do revenge on others cuz you felt betrayed?
No. To protect myself. I'd ghost someone in the future if my instincts ever told me to again
I wouldn't ignore those instincts like I did before.
I see.
Ghosting isn't cool at all, and should be illegal
Maybe it should be. but if I had ghosted him then, I'd be in less pain now.