Girl sees your message but doesn't reply?

[Anonymous]

What does this mean should I just stop completely and ignore her if I see her on campus. here's some background detail we were classmates I added her and talked well for a bit and and we both planned to hang out but then suddenly she stopped replying so I just stopped trying and after two months or 3 I just sent a message to her and she just saw and never replied should I just ignore her and stop. And what is your opinion I didn't send a crap ton of messages either xD we had one good conversation and we both agreed to hang out and get to know each other then suddenly nothing no response

Yes

No

[Dragonstarterplus]

Sounds like she lost interest. Maybe something you did or aid turned her off. Or maybe it has nothing to do with you at all. This is why it's best not to become emotionally invested in a girl until she's showing active interest in you.

Sure it would be nice to get a ''I'm sorry but I'm not really interested in you that way'' but most women somehow think just suddenly dropping all communication with you is an acceptable alternative because the relationship is still at a stage where they have no regard for your feelings

[aegis_penguin]

I would stop messaging her and move on. I wouldn't go as far as completely ignoring her. If you see her you can still say hi to her, but don't get your hopes up. It seems like she is no longer interested.

[Asker]

Still it's kinda rude in the first place just a simple hey I lost interest in you would have been nice. But since I caught her glancing at me so many times I was like oh cool she's interested in me and we were willing to meet in our free time and then boom just flat out ignores me so why not do the same

[aegis_penguin]

Definitely rude. I can relate with you about wanting a hey I lost interest in you

[Sexyhummingbird]

You shouldn't waste your time. If she likes you she will message you. To me it sounds like another gentleman fellow took her attention away from you

[Asker]

Wow I never thought of it like that then again she was the odd girl from the class though but oh well people come and go I find another weird girl

[Sexyhummingbird]

Plenty of fish in the sea and some of them are a little odd. :)

[Bards]

Yeah just leave it bro

[Asker]

Obviously xD but it's weird she seemed so interested at first lol

[Bards]

Yeah but sometimes people are flaky

[Asker]

True but a small "hey I'm not interested in you anymore" would have been nice

[Bards]

Yeah she didn't want to hurt you and feel like a shit I guess. Thats what people do :/

[Asker]

To be honest that would be the best thing to get from a girl because it's straight foward and takes the load of my head and put my effort in other women lol

[Bards]

Thats true xD
I basically asked a guy that in a non serious way so that if he's not interested, he can stop talking to me on kik because I don't know what his deal is
People need to be more direct with what they actually want or dont want instead of dancing around things

[Asker]

Lol dancing and yes totally agree enough with that unnecessary stuff

[Ilovedrumming1337]

move on I have texted girls before and they have never responded normally means not interested.

[kingz123]

Just screw her.. happens with me and it killed me, so much confusing and it's not worth it after all

[sean1234]

No, have you tried saying hi... in person?

[Asker]

We were classmates and me being interested in her I added her talked and both of us agreed to just hang out so we can get to know each other aside from just being class mates but the weird thing is she would glance at me during class which is why I added her

[sean1234]

Just don't rely on your cell for your primary mode of communication with her. Why talk on the phone when you can do it in person. I only use mine for emergencies or when I need to.

[Asker]

Yea obviously but it's not like I have a nose of a hound to find her on campus xD so it was a good way of just setting up a hangout sesh

[sean1234]

yeah, you have a point. Well in any case, try to call and not text.

[Asker]

I dunno I think I'm going to spend my time and resources on other women and if she wants something to do with me I'll will be hesitant and not totally willing but keep her in mind if I don't have plans

[sean1234]

why not?

[Asker]

Personally I don't want to come off as needy and I don't want to be the 2nd choice it's either a first choice or none at all and to be honest I'll find another girl like her in no time anyways

[sean1234]

Oh no I agree with you.

[cl_517]

just look for someone else :)

[Asker]

Yea I am but it was quite odd that she seemed interested at first so I'm like... wut

[Anonymous]

Maybe she was sleeping when you messaged her😐

[Anonymous]

yeah you should.